BJ's single diary: teach you to love yourself

Arvilla 2022-04-21 09:01:32

When I woke up one day and saw myself in the mirror, I was suddenly afraid that I would not be able to marry for the rest of my life. So decided to change. The movie "BJ's Single Diary" is narrated in the first person and tells the life of the heroine Jones after the age of 30.
In the thick book, the heroine records the details of her life, including weight changes, trivial alcohol content, and of course her expectations and search for love. I started writing a diary in kindergarten. At that time, I was forced to write it every day. The content of what I wrote was basically: I watched Mickey Mouse and Donald Duck today, and I was very happy and so on. Keeping a diary then becomes an integral part of life, one after another. I waited until I grew up and read the diary with the smiling flowers at the corners of my mouth, so I decided to stick to this habit. In the past two years, blog diaries have become popular on the Internet, and thousands of people have written their own small world on the Internet. It's a memory of growing up, no matter how small it may be.
Yesterday, I watched "203040" by Zhang Aijia. The films shot from the female perspective all have some commonalities, and they are delicate and focus on insight into love and life. Rene Liu played the role of a 30-year-old flight attendant, busy with different men, but found that one was too naive and the other could not give her a future, and finally found a home when she was in the arms of a married man; Zhang Aijia represented a 40-year-old, after divorcing her husband. Trying to grasp the tail of youth, sometimes happy and sometimes helpless. Betrayal, the separation of sex and love, it seems that there is no soul in this era that can be peaceful and can stay together. It seems that after getting to know each other, they contempt each other. Happiness is mostly the same, but unfortunate is different.
If "203040" tells the story of three women, then this movie is mainly a play of one woman and two men. The two male protagonists in BJ's single diary, one is the heroine's boss Daniel, they developed a close relationship unknowingly, like an uncontrollable volcanic eruption. The relationship just stayed and didn't develop as Jones had hoped. The other male protagonist is her childhood playmate and now the famous lawyer Mark. Jones's mother hopes to match the marriage of these two people, but Mark and Jones have seen each other's shortcomings, and Jones is even more in his diary. Write down your impressions and comments on this man.
Character, appearance, and the portrayal of people's behavior, restore the true nature. When the heroine sees Daniel's other intimate woman lying in the bathroom of his house with her own eyes, it is very ironic, ironic about the way a woman chooses a man. At the end of the movie, she ran wildly in the snow in her tank top and shorts chasing Mark. That was when she finally understood what kind of man was worth paying for and could stay with. The slight comedy has a happy ending. Several recent British films have such a strong feeling, making you smile to feel the extraordinary in the ordinary.
Singleness is a state, perhaps a state of mind. I remember someone said: a woman needs to go through the origin of life in order to make herself beautiful. I used to desperately hope to meet him before, but now I let myself grow up peacefully. I think we can let ourselves say goodbye to the past and love will come around the next corner.
"BJ's single diary", to find some reasons for you to love yourself.

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Bridget Jones's Diary quotes

  • Richard Finch: Why do you wanna work on television?

    Bridget: I've got to leave my job because I shagged my boss.

    Richard Finch: Fair enough. Start on Monday.

  • Mark Darcy: All right Cleaver, outside.

    Daniel Cleaver: [half laughing] I'm sorry? Outside? Should I bring my dueling pistols or my sword?