Forget it, let’s talk about the movie, I want to say something, but sometimes words really can’t express it, which is a kind of sadness. First of all, don't be fooled by the name of the movie. This is definitely not a romantic and warm movie, but a second contact after going through love, marriage and tasting life. It is known from the movie that the heroine had first sexual intercourse at the age of 13, and it took at most 10 years to become pregnant, and during this period, the sexual partner was already in the 20th of the hero's place. It can be seen that she is a charming and charming but a little bit of life. Corrupted girl. The male protagonist grew up in a single-parent family. He followed his father since childhood. He did not graduate from high school. He made a living by working for a moving company. It seems a logical process for the two of them to fall in love by chance, to get pregnant unexpectedly, and then to get married; but the tragedy of their marriage is doomed. The career here may be career editors, civil servants, etc. in China, and the male protagonist has not finished high school. After marriage, he drinks some wine every morning and then goes to work. He also leaves work early in the evening, and is content with this quiet and simple life. It can’t be said that they don’t want to make progress and are content with the status quo. This is the source of their sorrow – differences in families and differences in education.
After analyzing the origin of the movie's plot, I would like to analyze the psychology of the hero and heroine in detail. Of course, it is not the director's intention, but my own guess based on the movie. I wonder if the hero and heroine are still in love with each other? ! The answer is yes! The shots that can prove this point are: 1. Although the male protagonist seems to be grumpy and emotionally naive, the movie begins countless times asking her to drive slowly and pay attention to safety on the road. 2. In a love hotel, she tries to please her wife. 3. When she said she was going to divorce, he lost the ring in a fit of anger, and immediately jumped out of the moving car to find the ring. 4. When the heroine said that there was no room for him in her heart, the hero depended on him like a child. Covering the door and crying, it can be seen from these points that although the male protagonist is irritable and has no room for others to speak, his heart is good and he still loves the female protagonist deeply. Of course, the heroine also loves the male protagonist deeply. First of all, the female protagonist is pregnant unexpectedly and is preparing for the flow of people, but after paying attention on the operating table, the male protagonist takes the responsibility very manly and prepares to get married. Secondly, in the love hotel, facing the fragmented marriage, When the male protagonist played the music "You and me" belonging to the two of them, the previous unhappiness disappeared, and the two drank red wine and hugged each other. When the female protagonist's boss said that she would be transferred to another place to work, the female The Lord's first reaction was, I'm married, right?
Although it can prove that the heroine loves the hero deeply, I did not find more, but from the overall point of view, the root cause of the two people's problems is the difference in family and education, and the direct factor is: the rational and realistic heroine is expressing her own views At the time, she was always misunderstood by the romantic and uninhibited male protagonist, and both of them lost patience in the long run. Therefore, at the end of the movie, on the day of Blue Valentine's Day, the back of the male protagonist who gradually disappeared in the fireworks should have understood the meaning of the female protagonist, "I will do whatever you want me to do." I believe everyone understands this conversation in the kitchen. The most important thing is that the male protagonist grew up in a single-parent family, and when the two quarreled, they thought that the most talked about daughter was the daughter. As an adult, for the healthy growth of the child, I believe this is just a serious quarrel, I believe The two sides are separated for a period of time and will eventually come together.
This is just a personal opinion, because people always yearn for the good, if realistic, the ending is actually the final ending.
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