For life and love, you can afford it and let it go

Darius 2021-12-11 08:01:37

"When I find that I can't escape to rely on others to live, I learn to start smiling." This is Raymond's interpretation of the smile language on his face, and I can't help but take a deep breath. Fortunately, this breath did not hold back for too long...

it is true that there are many things in life that we call "meaningful", but these "meanings" are often based on public approval, personal and subjective. The part that deviates from the "majority" is often ignored or even isolated. However, leaving aside the social nature of human beings, we are an independent existence after all. Recognition of others is always accompanied by more or less compromise, and the act of compromise is based on abandoning part of the self. The lack of self is bound to question people's independence in turn.

We try to look at death in terms of personal gain. If the vital part of life is missing, we make the cowardly and stupid decision to give up the "majority" of life, is it another sense of bravery? Whether it counts or not, we should still have the right to make this choice. And which level of convention, morality, religion, or law does such a right belong to? It will directly affect the society's recognition of it.

Raymond's insistence on death is not a manifestation of our habitual understanding of the world, nor is it self-defeating. From his eyes, words, imagination and design details of various installations, he all reveals a deep love for life. The health that they once had, so taken for granted, was completely gone because of an accident, and they couldn't accept the alienation that they were abruptly abandoned by the beauty of the world. Compared to "need", "needed" is more proof of our existence, isn't it? When there is only "need" in life, please let me use "death" instead. Death is the best proof of being alive.

When we even lose the right to decide whether to have that funny hat on top of our heads; when our lover falls, we can only cry out anxiously and desperately with our backs behind; when we end our lives, we need to rely on others to achieve... There is no "empathy".

We need love, because love is resonance, it will wake us up from the slap of loneliness, it turns out that "here" there are others besides me. Until Hu Liya caused amnesia due to a terminal illness, she deviated from the originally agreed path of love, and finally, even love collapsed and everything returned to the original state...

Until, Raymond can successfully die, and he can finally jump. Out of that window, flew over fields, roads, and flew over hills and jumped into the sea.

The breath that I took in deeply has long been exhaled without knowing it.

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PS For those who have lost the ability to survive and cannot talk about the quality of life, we can do it Yes, it is not cruelly preaching "disability and determination", but should be more practical and provide them with the necessary material guarantees that they can choose voluntarily, at least so that they can have a relatively equal environment after survival is not a problem, and Get along with people around you, family and friends.

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The Sea Inside quotes

  • Ramón Sampedro: The person who really loves me will be the one who helps me die. That's love, Rosa. That's love.

  • [first lines]

    Gené: Relax. You're feeling calmer and calmer. Now imagine a movie screen, opening before you. On it, imagine your favorite place. Concentrate on your breathing, allowing your whole body to relax, to feel at peace. Keep it going. Just let it come and go... come and go... Now you are there. Notice the details: the colors, the textures, the light, the temperature. Feel the temperature. Let this tranquil scene unfold before you. The sensation of peace is infinite.