Kevin is violent by nature, and he has known since he cried non-stop as a child. But he is not bad from the beginning. Children are not good or bad. Boys are naughty and mischievous. The problem is that parents have to be patient and teach them.
A fall left little Kevin with a scar, which reminded Kevin what his mother had done to him, and his mischievous mischief turned into hatred from then on. Think about it, originally he was just wayward, naughty, and surly. Doing bad things was not the purpose, just to attract attention, and his nonsense did not jump out of the boundary of nonsense.
After being hurt by the person he depends on the most, he becomes really cruel. The first is that he has to do everything by himself, go to the toilet and get dressed by himself, as if to show his mother: Look, I don't need you at all. The mischievous mentality has turned into revenge, and people are so sensitive and vulnerable only to those closest to and valued.
Then the mother gave birth to the younger sister, and the family's attention was even more diverted. Compared with the intimacy of the parents towards the younger sister, the attitude towards him seemed very cold. If you remember the scene where the father danced with the younger sister, the three of them were having a good time in the living room, Kevin Alone upstairs, like a neglected outsider. In fact, his parents never wanted to ignore him, but he was sensitive and restless during adolescence, coupled with Kevin's violent sexuality and strong craving (his mother's provocation when he was a child was all because he wanted to attract attention, such as destroying the map of his mother's room, we can It is understood that Eva values individual and independent space, which makes Kevin who is desperate for his mother's love and attention puzzled, and even regards the map as an opponent for his mother's love), and the dissatisfied love inspires hatred in his heart , we know many examples of this kind of cruelty due to injury.
When his father was about to send him to the army, it broke his last line of defense. The rebelliousness and mischief driven by nature were not softened by the family's love at the beginning, but built a heart wall after a mother's anger, and finally learned that he would be completely abandoned, and this wall collapsed.
The mind is a mirror, it reflects everything it sees. And what it sees often depends on nature combined with parental influence.
When we talk about personality, independence, special, and these kinds of words, we only see ourselves in our eyes, and we are talking about ourselves. But when we decide to bring a young life into the world, we must be prepared to give up our absolute self in order to understand and approach another life. This is taking responsibility for your own decisions.
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