I love you, but I love myself more-why are women always suspicious?

London 2021-12-12 08:01:05

I watched two movies, "BJ Single Diary 2" and "I Can't Help Falling in Love with You". I actually prefer the English names of the two movies, Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason, I could never be your woman.

In Bridget Jones's Diary, Bridget Jones has been selected and selected with Mark Darcy, and the last shot is embracing in the snow. The second part began to be suspicious. The fat BJ's butt is as big as two bowling balls, and the body is not good enough. At 32 years old, compared to the 22-year-old, extremely perfect female colleague beside him, he is always full of crisis and doubts. . In addition, there are some chattering friends around, "Friends are always trying to find a boyfriend for you, and then they ask you to kick him. / Friends, they spend yeas finding you a boyfriend, and at the moment you get one, they instantly tell you to dump him. "If you say he is busy at work, your friend may say that he may be having fun with the secretary in time. There are also some gossip girls who are always stung by jellyfish when they talk to her for fear that the world will not be chaotic, and others are full of negative energy, revealing that her boyfriend is with a good family, long-legged young colleague. Finally I couldn't sit still, and ran right away, crawling through the window and peeping, making myself extremely embarrassed and indignant. Coupled with the gathering of the two parents, he did not let go and did not give her a definite sign when asked about his plan to get married. Speaking of the next generation, opinions broke up. Almost on the verge of losing his mind. In the end, the misunderstanding disappeared. The evidence that he loved her was unequivocal. Even her imaginary enemy turned out to be a lesbian, turning out to love herself, which was almost as perfect as imagined.

In "Sex and the City", in the last episode of a certain season, Mr. Big does not introduce Carrie to his mother. Similarly, when Carrie needs a sign from him, he is always hesitant and uncertain, and then speaks Take Carrie on vacation to make up for it, naive. When a woman needs a sign that makes her feel more secure in love and can keep her going, nothing else you give her is not what she needs most. Why does even a good one like Carrie need a sign from a man? In fact, all she wants is attention and respect.

Also in "Sex and the City", the coolest, most confident and strong personality is like Samantha. She likes her phrase "Hello, my name is fabulous." She also turned into a suspicious stalker after meeting a certain Mr. Perfect. For scornful people, the important thing is that Mr. XX was actually caught and cheated and betrayed her once. Trust is like a piece of paper, once crumpled, it is difficult to recover. After that, Samantha repeatedly mentioned this matter, and Mr. X also knew that he was wrong, and his expression was inconsistent. Finally, when he stayed alone in the room again, she suddenly became suspicious, climbed several flights of stairs all the way into the room panting, only to see him reading the newspaper calmly. She said: I love you, but I love myself more. Ironically, after she finally walked out of the room, a woman walked out from the side door. Whether he betrayed or not is no longer important. The important thing is that I no longer suffer from such doubts. I choose to no longer care about you and leave you.

In "Can't Help Falling in Love with You", the producer's single mother Rosie falls in love with the boy Adam who auditioned. She has a career and a figure, but he is younger than her and is even more suspicious. Women always care about age. Worrying about age, worrying about this, worrying about that, there is an inner voice always denying suspicion. In addition, the female secretary with ulterior motives around him destroys and creates misunderstandings. He puts the actress's boudoir photo on his mobile phone, and PS shows the two together. Photos, the facts are conclusive. Eventually the misunderstanding was resolved, the boy was innocent, and she finally accepted her age and everything, and no longer had the burden.

There is too much to talk about age. In the movie Miss Potter, the children’s book writer Miss Potter has achieved financial freedom entirely by writing. She was planning to be single and unmarried, but when she met the person she liked, her mother was still telling her that women of your age must carefully consider Barabara, we Haven't you heard of bullshit too much in your life! Porter replied: For a woman my age, the only fact is that every day is important. / "--A woman at your age must consider very carefully. --The only thing true at my age is that at my age, every day matters."

If you put too many worries are placed in care on their age, it is a This kind of waste of time and energy, it is better not to care about the bullshit that brainwashes you and the patriarchal society to rule, and forge yourself to be unique and irreplaceable. Because some things will disappear over time and some things will not. Age is a natural law and a gift of time, not a burden.

Life is short, why is it always fettered by too many bullshit, instead of enjoying life.

My English name is Phoebe, I like the English name that begins with the consonant F. It has a soft and fresh feeling, as well as a deer-like lightness, agility and elegance. It's not Phoebe in Friends, or Phoebe Philo, a famous designer from the fashion industry, but the favorite lyrics in a song of the same name from my little airport:

You don't wanan be my girl friend Phoebe. You just wanna show your beauty. Oh, my Phoebe.

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Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason quotes

  • Bridget Jones: [diary] Have never been happier in entire life. However, must not obsess or fantasize.

    [pause]

    Bridget Jones: Bridget Darcy; Mrs. Darcy; Mr. and Mrs. Darcy; Lord and Lady Darcy!

  • Bridget Jones: [diary] Wonder what Mark Darcy would be like as a father. Father to his children I mean, not to me. That would be weird Oedipus-like thought.