1. There is a series of documentaries about the crime of foreigners: a father asks a pair of children to help him bury his wife, their mother. He said to the young children: Your mother is asleep and we have to help her get a good rest. Presumably he also performed a "kiss goodbye" ritual. So that the child did not find him any malicious. But the older son, who kept recalling the scene years later, felt his mother was dead. The father kept claiming that the mother had run away or disappeared. He had a fairy tale scene in his memory: his father said his mother went into hibernation, but he didn't tell when he would wake up. He and his sister both help their mothers sleep in the soil, just as they help animals hibernate. Tortured by a nightmare, he decided to dig the grave in his dream alone, so he saw the dead bones of his mother.
The heroine is known as the perpetrator of "assisting her father's murder", and it is impossible to have no influence on her when she was young.
But a naked and helpless her (the girl) as a news photo isn't the worst.
If everything about you is interpreted as "evil, bad", it is a good thing instead. You have nothing to destroy. You are in a trough in the beginning.
2. About animals.
Animals are undoubtedly her allies. It is a lovely creature that is pure and fragile and needs to be protected.
For example, in World War II novels, an old man is looking for his cat in the ruins. As long as his cat is found, his life can be restarted. Humans and animals can depend on, trust, and obey each other.
She complained that the cat didn't scratch the rapist and found a rescuer for the bird because she had love in her heart.
3. If a friend
suffers (rape) and doesn't even complain, he is "Jia Yingchun and Er Mutou". At least she had to talk to her friends, the more people the better, the less pain, but she didn't want anyone to comfort her pain.
In another foreign film, a middle-class family goes bankrupt, and friends hide from them like the plague. Later, a close friend came to see the former model heroine. The heroine said, "I want to drive you away, but I still need you." She was neither arrogant nor humble.
Don't you understand if you compare these two heroines? I'm suffering, I don't need to cry like a Korean drama, but I want you to support me calmly instead of disturbing me and weakening me.
4. Attacking the stalker
is easy to understand if the heroine is a man. In general mystery novels, aren't passerby detectives like this? Although passersby have no physical strength and no bodyguards, they are preemptive when they encounter trouble.
5. The ex-husband's girlfriend
will not be completely unharmed when betrayed by her husband. What's wrong with having two wrongdoers in an act of betrayal and punishing them reasonably? This is to respect your own feelings.
6. Going to bed with a good friend's husband
In the eyes of feminists, this is not an act of grabbing a job, but an act that proves that this scumbag is unreliable.
A Swedish novel. Otome attends Ding's wedding, but Ding's groom is tempted by B. 20 years later, Ding Nu got divorced, and Otome heard that the man often had an affair. Otome thought to herself: I missed the opportunity to remind her. It's too late.
You see, this is the general view of women. Men don't have to wonder about this anymore, right?
Not to mention living with friends. Unrelated cohabitation and non-couple cohabitation have been popular in Europe in recent years. They live together for retirement, for like-minded people, and like depositing money in a bank, they can save when they are happy, and they can leave when they are happy. This is a new family model, in which contracts are made with the heart, and there are no terms and conditions.
7. Isn't seducing a rapist
a long time ago in Hong Kong dramas? A woman accused of rape, and finally ended up beating, very embarrassed. Later, she decided to "mature" a little, seduce each other, and then bury each other.
Deliberately resisting and provoking a sexual abuse reaction also shows that the heroine is firm-willed and indomitable.
At the same time, a man who has to sexually abuse the other person to get an erection means that he must be in a dominant position, should he be inferior, hate the opposite sex, and have animal nature (cannot communicate closely or get along with others), right?
He committed a crime to treat his ED and got caught for a crime, what's the problem?
8. I'm going to tell you - declare your position
, even if things don't go as expected, if she doesn't even dare to declare war, she will live half her life in vain. If you lose, you lose the whole thing.
Even if the situation worsens after she declares, she will not regret it. And when the victim declares so, the perpetrator is usually a little scared and suspicious.
9. My mother had a stroke. She came to nag and switch TV programs
. One of Li Bihua's novels is "Talking". The end is: no one listens to the truth, no one cares, no one wants to know.
She is a strong woman, she has accumulated a lot of pressure, but only a person who cannot respond to her after a stroke is the object of her talk.
Because my mother had a stroke, I was forced to "listen" to her. How could she be accused of torturing her mother when she acted in a one-man show by herself and acted so tragically.
Could the mother torture her more?
She just took the opportunity to give her mother a chance to show her mother's love before her mother was about to leave. Is she wrong?
Many disputes about unfilial piety are just because what others see are appearances. Thinking that a dutiful son may have great evil. Those who are not filial can also have great virtue or hardships.
10. I am here to kill you.
Based on her growth experience, and after a few years, some people still accuse her of being the murderer's daughter and throwing food on her. How much has she endured because of this father?
She must have killed him multiple times in her heart. In this way, the "inner she" can grow.
This time she could finally witness his death. It was a relief for her.
11. Expose the fact that his son, Xi Daddy
, became vulnerable after encountering a major shock event. She remembered what was most important to her. Every child is an "angel" at birth. So before she buried her mother's ashes, she exposed her son's happiness as a father. It is hoped that her son can "rise up from setbacks" like her. But my son couldn't take it. Seriously, her expectations were too high.
Liars have long been accustomed to taking lies as truth.
After sprinkling her mother's ashes, she complained about her indigestion when her mother made beef. According to "Flowers on the Sea", it is understood that it is more love to turn to the past.
If it was at a restaurant and a chef's beef caused her digestive problems, would she remember all these years? Can she still be a strong woman if she must be punished?
It also proved that her mother had done nothing good to her. So that she couldn't miss the good moments, only the bad moments. But this is an important relative of hers, and the way she misses it is to scold more, otherwise she may forget it.
Let's recall Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, where the dentist father confirmed that the stranger was my son as soon as he saw his son's teeth. The father did not remember the other characteristics of the son. For the father, only the teeth can mark the son.
But this father had seen thousands or tens of thousands of teeth.
And beef is her mark to her mother.
12. In order to confirm whether the neighbor is a rapist, the heroine observes him while masturbating.
A discussion of rape in a foreign film. Lindsay plays a young girl who has been raped. She recalled: He said I was wet, and when I was wet, he said I was willing.
Male Neighbor: That's given by nature. That's what the laws of physiology are...
You're not wrong.
That is, rape can also bring pleasure. Instead of being passively abused, why not take the initiative to enjoy the pleasure.
Through masturbation, she evoked the situation at the time, and remembered the characteristics of the gangster. It turned out that the subconscious reminded her to find out the details.
We often do not know why we do something, until we achieve a certain "result", we will not understand "why we do it". That is, the subconscious mind is faster than the conscious mind, and the intuition is more accurate.
A smart, strong person will trust his intuition more, while a weak person tends to doubt himself and give in easily.
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