The coolest thing about this film is that it reflects the vulnerability of people from multiple perspectives. The first is the greed of human nature itself, wanting freshness but not taking risks. A stable intimate relationship has an expiration date. After a passionate love, lovers will still sleep together, but they may have different dreams in the same bed. The world outside the walls is colorful, and it's not a big mistake to occasionally lean out and take a look. To be honest, even hobbies and hobbies may be transferred, not to mention that the one who loves is an ordinary mortal, it is too difficult to be determined. But even after seeing through these essential paradoxes, it still does not prevent the idiots from continuing to look for the next target to ignite the flames in their hearts.
Another angle is the fragility of the relationship between people. As the old gentleman said at the end of the film, a relationship that has been maintained for a long time is bound to be fragile. Whether it's love or friendship, it gets boring over time. If the relationship we have been running for more than ten years is still fragile, how do you think those newlyweds who are still sweet are better? So I choose not to play this game. He's a wise man and sees through it all.
A person who is not smart also has his luck. The fat man in the deep cabinet refused to bring "her" to see his friends on the grounds that his "girlfriend" had a fever. In fact, he wanted to protect his gay people. "To love someone is to help him stop all the bullets in the world." What a touching declaration of love, however, is it another repetition of the human love model. Three years later, five years later, it may not even be that long, one year later, the bullet comes, do you still want to stand up? You may only call his name in a panic and try to save him. After all, this person has lived with you for so long, and he may become a symbol of your social person, representing your future sense of security, and representing you in the future. Going home from overtime late at night, still waiting for your light. The lights are bright for you at the moment, but I don't know when, for another person, the most beautiful fireworks in the world bloomed. Deception is mutual, and it is also a rare tacit understanding that both of them choose not to expose it.
When it comes to this topic, I can't help but think of "She", the love between people and artificial intelligence. If the "tailor-made" artificial intelligence cannot keep pace with your growth rate, how can a mortal who comes from a different growth environment and has a different personality satisfy your mortal and extraordinary desires?
It's scary to lose curiosity. You can't get rid of curiosity, and it's not much better. People, people, life, life. It is in the entanglement of all this that it becomes interesting.
If we want to keep this "look" perfect, we might as well continue to be strangers. I put up with your fantasies about other people in your mind, and you understand that I get distracted from time to time, and it's not just a simple letdown. We are obviously the most perfect couple in the eyes of others, but we dare not easily cross the mobile phone, the so-called "privacy boundary". The funniest thing is that in China, reserved space is not very popular between couples, only fully transparent show of affection is popular.
In most cultures, the advocacy is similar to "indulgence is actually very simple and low-level, restraint may be the joy of being a human being." In essence, it is still to maintain social stability, right? Is there less controversy about monogamy? If you want to live a seemingly normal life, you must accept the brainwashing of this "mainstream culture".
But in fact, we all know that indulgence or restraint, or choosing clever and painstaking deception, is just a choice. There is no single choice that can satisfy people's greedy nature. This is the truth.
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