Feeling the shackles of life and the courage to explore after the view of nurses’ stories

Dexter 2022-02-15 08:01:37

It should be said to be a very healing and inspirational story. The reticent male protagonist caused his beloved son to be killed in a car accident because of his negligence. It is difficult for him to get out of the grief of losing his beloved son, just like he can't get out of a marriage without love. , He gave up his job and turned to be a caregiver to take care of others. One of his daily job needs is to "wipe the buttocks" of his being cared for. He did his job silently, without picking up and complaining about weird customers, and his customer, this muscle weakness patient, has a flexible thinking and a sense of humor. He works in a wheelchair, stays at home every day, watches TV, and eats waffles. Bing, I went to the park on Thursday, and each time I was away from home for less than an hour, just like the male protagonist locked himself in an emotional prison. Reid has made many attempts, and he also knows as many as the beautiful kapok, and he has experienced things that he would never have imagined before. The pregnant mother gave birth in a deep pit, awakening the protagonist’s chaotic true love and memories of life. , Also revived the rift between Duoduo and his angry father.

Western movies advocate the portrayal of personal images. In particular, this movie is basically about getting along with two male protagonists, plus three female counterparts.

One: It is not easy to get rid of the shackles of feeling and body.

Everyone is in shackles. Fred is completely stuck in a wheelchair and can’t move. His mother stubbornly believes that her son must use a ventilator every night. He eats the same recipe every day, and he can’t be outdoors for an hour. If you get out of the track, you will be in danger of life. This is the shackles of his mother; Fred is afraid to travel far away, and all kinds of medicines and discomfort are his shackles; the male protagonist thinks that he is unwilling to leave the marriage, just like he does not admit his son. Like death, even though the marriage is obviously loveless, this is his shackle; Duoduo insisted on going to Denver, and would not hesitate to quarrel with his father if he refused to listen to his father's advice.

People are right in their own understanding, and everyone is willing to do things according to their own will, even though they are wrong or even absurd in the eyes of others, they have their own reasons to do it, so break through How difficult it is for me to shackle myself.

two. There are so many difficult things in life, so try boldly.

Fred marked the place he wanted to go on the map, but stubbornly believed that he couldn't see it with his own eyes. The male protagonist urged him, or fulfilled his life journey. For the first time, he tried a delicious beef stick he hadn't tried in 18 years. For the first time, he was excited about dating a girl who was as gorgeous as Kapok, marveling at the magnificence of Shenkeng. What is more worth mentioning is his help from the hero. Next time he stood "peeing" for the first time, and the deep blue jewel-like pit was under his feet. He despised the hardship that life gave him, just like the words Taylor Swift once said, "...being fearless does not mean you are completely unafraid , being fearless means living in spite of those fears ( not completely fearless not afraid, but knows the difficulties still be able to coexist with it.) "

each of us will encounter in life or It’s difficult, big or small, some people are physically damaged like Fred, some have lost relatives like the hero, and some have dreams like Duoduo and are opposed. But hardship does not mean that we abandon ourselves, give up life or avoid it, but face it, welcome it, feel it, and overcome it is precisely our own powerful method. If you have an idea but don’t realize it, you are always watching other people’s lives, just like the male protagonist warns Fred, watching him from the window invite Duo Duo, what is different from watching TV, we are always envious In other people’s lives, some people give up working steadily and choose to pursue their dreams that they love, some travel far to watch the fascinating world, some boldly try to express their love, life is short, so many possibilities are in their own hands. If I don't realize it, I always wait for a catalyst like the hero to appear. If life is like fireworks, we will burn brilliantly when someone lights the Twilight, and there will be no one to ignite it, and we are silent. When the male protagonist holds a newborn baby in his hand, the coming of life allows him to understand the meaning of pain and rebirth. Life is not easy, and life is difficult. We can't let life get stuck on the door of life without making any effort because of the difficulties.

Three parallel lines

No matter how beautiful emotions are, they are all parallel lines. Some will accompany you for a while, and some will accompany you for the rest of your life. If it is a temporary accompany, then wait for him to travel far and bless you. The male lead’s son was in a car accident, and the shadow lingered in the male lead’s heart. He was depressed and could not focus on his feelings and work. The lonely expression in the first half of the movie made people feel very depressed, but he was constantly with Fred. In his progress and attempts, he was really redeemed as Fred did, and he was able to continue his life and career. However, Fred met Duoduo in the sound year, and Duoduo decided to follow his father to Denver, Fred I was very unwilling to give up, but I also blessed Duoduo. When Duoduo happily sat on the handle of Fred's wheelchair and the two had fun, I really felt relaxed for Fred's relief!

The cross of the life line of the male protagonist and Fred gave him a spark. This spark bursts out dazzling and unforgettable. Fred has a new caregiver and the male protagonist regains his job as a writer. We should also realize this in our lives. Don't be obsessed with feelings, and be brave, free and free, to meet new life and challenges.

Life is like a delicious beef stick. How do you know if you don't try it? A-Gump's mother also said that life is like a box of chocolates. You never know how the next one will taste. Why not try? Why not experience it, if it doesn't taste good, give it up and try another one?

Only one thing is not good, there are too many curses.

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  • Einar 2022-02-15 08:01:37

    At the beginning of this plot, I thought "hold the grass and say good heart-warming? This tm is for heart-warming!" After watching slowly, I realized that the routine of this film is to let you chill first, and then give it to you. Warm back slowly. The 90-minute length can be said to be well controlled, and the rhythm does not feel too procrastinated or too rushed. The mood is flat, but there is a faint warmth. One of the more obvious shortcomings is that the ending expression is too vague and unpredictable

  • Vito 2022-03-23 09:02:30

    Relaxed than deep sea sleep, deeper than me before you. And is Paul Rudd going to monopolize my career I traumatize my loser but inside of me is a market for a good dad.

The Fundamentals of Caring quotes

  • Peaches: What's it like being a parent?

    Ben: Every corny thing you've heard about having a kid is completely and utterly true... It's the only reason we're here.

  • Dot: I have exactly one life, and for reasons I myself don't really understand, I now believe that life somehow will not be fulfilled unless I'm standing at the bottom of the worlds deepest pit with you two perverts!