The moment I watch it, it always reminds me of last year's Weibo sensational suicide writer Fang Siqi and her "Fang Siqi's Paradise of First Love", which are also real stories, and they also tear open their own wounds and let you take a look. Look, there is another kind of hurt in this world [the world "kissed" me with pain, I was powerless to fight it, so I can only convince myself that this is a kind of growing pain, I will grow up and welcome me after I have passed it. A life you can control. 】
This movie shocked me a lot. It's not the kind of stark Korean movie that lets people witness the damage to the victim's life and the devastating impact on the family. Big, you're superficially successful, you look intact, no one sees the brokenness inside you - you don't believe in marriage, you don't believe in your ability to take care of your children, you don't believe in your partner, mother, no Believe in yourself, you don't even know you are riddled with holes, you avoid "hurt", tamper with memory, misunderstand all "deception" as "love", close yourself in the form of self-protection, family, Lovers don't know where your "sensitivity" comes from, until the letter from a 13-year-old girl is discovered, until adults can see through the double deception in the "story" at a glance, until you clear the fog of memory, A malicious and chilling story unfolds——
At the age of 13, we began to be in the self-awareness of gender, we strongly need attention, need recognition, need someone to tell us what is ignorant, love, man, woman, what is the boundary, but Jennifer's family is a Jewish family, parents have Four children, the father is busy earning money to support the family, and the mother is busy with Zhou Xuan's family running. No one realizes that this silent 13-year-old girl's desire for "watching" is just like no one has noticed, this curve is still a child The girl is growing up slowly, and the injury is slowly approaching this undefended girl.
The equestrian Mrs. Guerra and the sports instructor Bill, these two beautiful teachers, make it difficult for people to be wary of them, because they are well-dressed and elegant, because they agree with your 13-year-old's "trouble" about your family and help you Escape the shackles of the boring, let you do what you like, do what you like to gain your trust, and these are adults hunting young children, a game without handcuffs, a game of physical and mental abuse developed by sex slaves, The most terrifying thing is that he used Jennifer's 13-year-old age to take advantage of the desire of a woman who is eager to grow up and become as elegant as Mrs. Guerra. Step by step, he wrapped his animal desires, perverted "sexual desire" values, and sweet words in an attempt. Turning Jennifer into the second Mrs. Guerra, and the saddest thing about the movie is that Jennifer wasn't the only victim, nor the last, and the saddest thing was when she asked Bill from a documentary point of view. I'm counting on you to save me from my family. 】 Bill said 【Isn't that exactly what I am? 】When she asked Mrs. Guerra——【For some reason, I think the only one who can save me is you. It has to be you, why don't you save me? 】 Mrs. Guerra said 【No one has saved me. ] What could be more distressing than a victim becoming a participant in violence?
The most distressing thing about Jennifer's experience is that her mother has discovered her abnormality at the age of 13, but at the age of 13, she has teamed up with Bill and Mrs. Guerra to escape the repressive control of her parents. Parents were once our greatest support, but During adolescence, they will become our greatest "enemy" because of their repressive "denial" of us who started to have self-will, because they are unwilling to "listen" to our "different" ideas, because they want us to go too much A smooth and harmless road, because they don't seem to love us so much and understand us, when my mother asked Jennifer, who is 48 years old, [I don't understand, why do you keep going back there? ] [Maybe it's love, I thought I still had concerns there, I wanted others to think I was different. 】My mother said that sentence that came too late 【You have always been different to me. ] Jennifer couldn't believe her mother's belated approval until now, her mother said [You later dated different men and you became indifferent to anything. ] Jennifer said [You are so conservative, because I don't want to be like you, follow only one man in my life, I don't want to be bound like this, I don't want to live like you. 】The mother's concern came too late, so the 13-year-old daughter, until the age of 48, was still a victim emotionally.
What is the real injury like? It was Jennifer who asked her students "How did you feel for the first time?" 】 The student replied shyly and said 【It's like a spark, everything happened so naturally. ] Jennifer's 48-year-old eyes flashed with mixed feelings, such as envy, understanding, surprise, etc. It was Jennifer who found Bill, who was awarded a medal, became famous, married and had children, and said to him [How can you hurt a 13-year-old as a child. 】 Bill said to her 【You are voluntary. ] When she fought back hoarsely and complained about Bill's sins, everyone in the banquet room looked at her strangely. It was the 13-year-old who read her story and said with a proud face [I participated in this episode. perfect love. ] It was the 13-year-old she in the bathroom looking at her 48-year-old, not knowing how to face the real story.
Someone asked [Why Jennifer tampered with memory and regarded sexual assault as love? 】I think this is a psychological protection mechanism. We can't change the facts, so we can only convince ourselves to accept that we don't face the psychological trauma, and we don't want to mention the injury. Because we are afraid of the second injury, we are silent to help the injury. , Neglecting and missing the cure, "fearing" that parents will become a stumbling block in marriage, committing suicide, crying, and being silent. When we face "hurt", we always respond with self-consumption, and this is the greatest "hurt" to us. It is also the greatest malice that adults can do to our children.
The human heart is the hunting ground of human nature, goodness is the persistence of goodness, and evil is the temporary loss of goodwill. If something happens, please don’t be a malicious accomplice, don’t be a crowd of onlookers, don’t despair, we fight all the way, not for change the world, but not to be changed by the world.
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