In the movie, Kymme is a drug addict, because Kymme's drug use has brought a lot of pain to the family, the death of his younger brother, the divorce of his parents, and the distress of his sister. These will be more or less related to themselves. She is a bad girl, lying, cheating, and taking drugs have always been with her on the way of her growing up, and she is full of bad deeds. But in the mutual aid meeting, we can see that she has been in pain all the time. She can't forget the mistakes of the past, and the repentance of the present has not changed much, and she still has a bad life. The control of drugs makes oneself lost, trying again and again and then losing oneself again and again, and being restrained by drugs is always unable to get rid of. But the family's expectations again and again, and then the disappointment again and again, also tormented me. I don't want to make my family sad, but I can't control my situation, so I almost collapse, and my support point is crumbling.
She looks like she doesn't care about anything, but she is actually fragile and restless inside. If I want the care of my family, I need the attention of my family. I hope that I still love myself after I am so bad. At the same time, it is necessary to reinvigorate, to change, and to struggle at the same time. But it is clear that he is already working hard to change, and sincerely apologizes, but he is not recognized by others. While being completely hurt by the truth, he seemed calm and complained to his sister about others' incomprehension.
And because of Kymme's drug use, Rachel's family's center has always been on her sister. In contrast, Kymme always gets more attention from her family than herself, and she seems to be ignored no matter how good she is. From that sentence, "Can she be mine once?" This accusation shows that Rachel, who has been neglected all the time, has always longed to get the same attention as her sister. Obviously this is his own wedding, and obviously he is the protagonist of this wedding, but the person his father pays attention to has never been himself. He needs to know his sister's whereabouts all the time, but he doesn't care about himself. Serious imbalance makes him unable to help himself feel injustice.
Kymme, she has always acted arbitrarily, hurt, cheated, divorced, died. It seems that after so many dark things, she has never seen repentance in her. However, this person is her own sister, and the family love that she can't give up has always been there.
In the movie, I think the role of the father is the most difficult. Daughter took drugs, son died and divorced. While immersed in the pain of losing a child, he is saving his daughter. When it comes to the wedding, it is necessary not only to appease Kymme's emotions, but also to greet the entire wedding arrangement, and at the same time to adjust the atmosphere between the two when facing Rachel's questioning. Great love is just that. In contrast, their mother did not have to work so hard. She escaped from this place and had a new life.
The rhythm of the movie has always been well grasped, from the beginning because of who the bridesmaids are, to the arrangement of Kymme's position at the wedding, to Kymme's speech at the dinner before the wedding banquet, and then to the scene where Kymme fabricated his own experience and was discovered. The disputes were approaching the climax step by step. At the beginning, Kymme wanted to get the attention of her sister, to Rachel's questioning of her father, to Kymme's speech emphasizing her change. But the first few times were subtly disconnected by the director at the breaking point of the quarrel, the quarrel came to an abrupt end, and the last time it broke out completely.
On one side, Kymme was remorseful and struggling, lonely and overwhelmed. And Rachel on the other side, watching her smoking, doing her own way, everyone is centered on her. After the compromise, there is resentment, endless accommodating, and tolerance again and again, but in exchange for the other party's indifference. So in the end, the inevitable disputes, the past events were revealed one by one, and then the pain came back. You don't know my pain, and you don't care. In the end, he couldn't solve the grievance in his heart, and Kymme rushed out the door.
The subsequent dispute between Kymme and her mother pushed the plot to another climax, magnifying both Kymme's pain and her mother's resentment. She herself is not as strong as she imagined, and her mother has not let go. The death of the younger brother has always been the stalk of two people, and no matter how well it is hidden, it still exists.
But no matter what, time passed and the wedding went ahead as planned. It seems that nothing has happened to everyone at the wedding, but the problem has not been solved. At the end of the film, her mother left the scene early, and Kymme still did not apologize to her mother, and the contradiction still existed. The last and last life continues, and all kinds of problems and contradictions still follow, but this is life.
For Kymme, I have always hated her, maybe it was because she portrayed her pain and struggle so well that I couldn't bear it, so that I could forgive her past. Or maybe it was because I was never her close relative, I didn't experience that kind of pain, so it was so easy to forgive.
In fact, I like the director very much. He portrays everyone's feelings very well, Kymme's helplessness, Rachel's forbearance, father's grief, and mother's escape. Everyone has been deeply hurt by the past. They want to escape but they keep touching the cartilage, and the injured body is incomplete. I feel sorry for everyone inside, but it can only be distressed.
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