Recently, I was watching the movie "Deeper than the Sea". The sloppy Ryoda Shinoda published a novel "No Man's Dining Table" a few years ago, which won the Shimao Toshio Award. What is frustrating is that after he became famous, he never wrote again. Without other works, he has no income and is reluctant to write other novels for money, and he finally earns money but uses it to gamble. His wife could no longer endure his perfunctory and unmotivated life, and divorced him with his son. The biggest illusion of people is to think that they will work hard for the realization of their dreams and be unswerving, no matter how many difficulties they encounter. The bigger illusion is believing that hard work will be successful. Because imaginary hard work is fake hard work, and imagined difficulties are fake difficulties. The reason why a dream is called a dream may be because it is not something that can be obtained by hard work. In fact, not everyone can do their best for their dreams, and not everyone is lucky enough to keep moving toward their dreams. When difficulties and setbacks really hit, the future is dark and vague, and it is inevitable that people will doubt and shake, and even turn around. give up. If you can't be the person you want to be, if you've been successful but you can't always be successful, how do people face choices? ? Many people choose to give up. If they can't write any more, if they can't work hard on the road of being a writer, if they can't succeed again, they should give up all of them. Born as a human being, but unable to become the person you want to be, so incompetent and failure, what is the meaning of everything you do. So you can see that he doesn't read or practice anymore. He can write stories for comics to make money, but he has been messing around on irrelevant roads. It’s lucky to be able to do the job you like and be successful, but if you can’t succeed, or you can’t work hard in the things you like, do you have to give up and refuse everything? ? Becoming the person you want to be is not that simple, and something like a dream that shines brightly and is enough to make you feel happy is not something you can get easily. You need to do your best and keep at it.
I've heard the saying "Some people work so hard that they can't fight for talent at all." Maybe people's starting point, IQ, and ability are really high and low, and maybe some people are indeed lucky enough. But on the road to your dream, as ordinary us, what can make you compete with the so-called "talent" is hard work and persistence. The reason why some people fail may not be because they are worse than others, but because they are stumped by big and small difficulties on the way forward and choose to give up. So don't be in a hurry to complain and get discouraged. Whether it's straight forward or curved to save the country, as long as you haven't chosen to quit, you can reach the end. The important thing is not to give up your efforts, whether it is for yourself or others, whether it is for the present or for the future. Don't you deserve to be happy if you fail? ? In the movie, Duo Liang is both proud and inferior, proud of his previous works, and humbled by his current disappointment. The reason why he couldn't get out of the predicament was because he obviously trapped himself, but he thought it was someone else's fault. He complained about the times, hated his father, and was dissatisfied with his wife, but he never felt that he had a problem. He thinks that others are making things difficult for him, but the truth is that he does not allow himself to work hard, nor does he make himself happy. He thought of this failure more seriously than anyone else, so serious that he was unable to change and unwilling to bear it, so he threw everything to his family. He felt that no one understood him, and he was more wronged than anyone else. But both his parents and his wife supported him. His parents have always been proud of him, and his wife divorced him not because of his temporary setbacks, but because he never found a solution after being stumbled, only complained and hoped again and again. gamble. No one is obligated to pay for the decadence of others. Fortunately, there are still opportunities and time.
Grasp the moment, because it has nothing to do with the meaning of life, life itself is already precious enough. Life is painful and long, please work hard and be happy in time.
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