Extramarital affairs, seeing this name was enough to obliterate my enthusiasm for this drama, obviously it is not the dish of unmarried young people like me. And I'm not married yet, and I don't want to obliterate my illusions about marriage, extramarital affairs? It's really disgusting, but I have watched 4 episodes by coincidence. It is true that both female pig's feet and male pig's feet are very unsightly. I once wondered how a big-mouthed Allison could make it possible to fall in love at first sight? When our audience is blind? Watching the first 4 episodes, I didn't sink my heart to watch this drama. The only thing that impressed me was the director's narrative technique, dual perspective, and the conflicts and contradictions in the perspective.
From the fifth episode, I gradually devoted a little emotion to the show. In the eighth episode, when Noah talked about the relationship between Romeo and Juliet (adults are always imperfect, Romeo and Juliet are still children, pure and innocent. They have never hurt anyone, never betrayed anyone, because of their own purity, their love is so flawless, but after the adult intervention, even if they are kind to help, which is the original intention of the nurse and the priest, they still After ruining this true love, what Shakespeare wanted to express is that the world cannot tolerate pure love) Seeing this, I shed crocodile tears.
People yearn for pure love, don't they? They are so beautiful and carefree. Happiness is synonymous with it. It seems that having pure love can have eternal happiness, but pure love is like a thin eggshell, with new bred in the eggshell. Life will eventually come out of the shell. At that time, we have grown up, we have our own ideas, we have our own understanding of life and happiness, and everyone’s understanding is different at every moment. In the eyes of others, we are no longer perfect, we are indeed no longer perfect, we will pursue, pursue, for life, for the happiness we understand. We didn't want to hurt anyone with all our original intentions, but we went silently to hurt or even betray. All this seems to be promoted in the dark. Therefore, in the hearts of Noah and Alison, the other party is the one who actively seduce. Human nature always seeks advantages and avoids disadvantages. People always lie to themselves. The brain will be deceived, and the heart will be deceived. Only one injury after another tear is real. So I shouldn't be glad I met you. And I should be thankful that when I met you, you were both mentally and physically adult.
I think the pure love that most people understand may be related to first love, but I think pure love
It's more like a certain stage of love. When a man and woman are just falling in love, you are exactly the same as I imagined, and it may be different, but why are you so cute even when you sneeze and eat? OMG! You are what I want. In fact, at this stage, you can't see me, and I can't see you. We are all living in illusions with each other. In the second stage, one plus one equals zero. Everything in my life is painful because of you. The most common problem in love is trying to reform the other person. When exhausted, you find that the other person is completely another person and is willing to accept the real him. Maybe this is love? In the third stage, one plus one equals two. You are you and I am me, but we are together.
All in all, love, marriage and family are all-encompassing, everything is changing, if you don’t change, then you only have to wait to be changed. Find an adult who is in sync with you, respects you, and is willing to grow up with you. It is better to be a man with big nerves. Tolerant.
A smart and sharp woman in a marriage usually doesn't live well. The reason is that if you know too much, you really won't be too happy. However, hiding all unhappiness in your heart will make you even more unhappiness, and talking it out will spread the unhappiness. Make each other even more unhappy. So there will be broken cans and broken, and finally broken into slag. Be a silly woman. As the saying goes, the last person who knows about all extramarital affairs must be her wife. The same is true in extramarital affairs, Noah's wife knows, and Noah told her. Noah was upset all day long with a guilty heart, and finally was threatened and blackmailed. He confessed. It is not so much that he confessed because of guilt. It is better to say that he can't hold it anymore. This incident is spreading like cancer. Seeing If you want to spread to your heart, you will be crushed! He only had to break the boat, make the last fight, and resign it to fate! So he told the truth. I think if no one finds out about his cheating, or finds out and does not blackmail him, he will continue to be a good husband and father with peace of mind, and he will indeed cut off the love thread and leave the place where the dream started. It's so far apart, and the whip is so long, I think I can only get it off. When things develop like this, I can only say to Noah's wife, my dear, it's all fate. . .
After Noah's wife knew, she didn't pull her hair and splash her with sulphuric acid like the one in our Chinese dog-blood drama. I feel that foreign friends have shown more correct values and worldviews in their attitude towards the role of junior three. Derailment is a problem of two people, not a unilateral man or woman. It is our partner who betrayed us, not the mistress! What we should condemn is our partner. His wife didn't scold Allison until the finale, but ignored her and treated her indifferently. After all, nobles are nobles. Give everyone the utmost dignity and respect. And Allison's husband, obviously hadn't read much, let alone a good-blooded man? So when Allison's husband wanted to take a gun and broke Noah, I was not surprised at all. Men should do this, but they can't really do it. (For someone who hurts you, it's not worth it, and to live, not to live freely in the prison, isn't this the basis for all happiness and life) So he didn't kill him. As a reader, I am also grateful, otherwise, how could there be a second season. . .
Later, Noah returned to that small town (the town of Spring Dream) because of various things. Let’s just call Spring Town for short. Noah is back, so immortal, Allison appears in front of him again, really, dear Noah’s Wife, God (director) wants them to be together. Tathagata Buddha has no choice. In fact, a junior like Allison is terrible. After all, he’s so young. In Xi Murong’s words, “It’s a fading mind, an inexplicable sorrow before lifting a chopstick, and a banquet that never breaks up in memory. You can’t drink or drink. , I have to fight to be drunk.
Forget it, not only does she want to be drunk, she also has to be drunk and dreaming... When you encounter this, don’t want anything, just want to be with you. I want to be with you forever. , If I were a man with a little inferiority complex like Noah, I would also be drunk~ So again, people, I would be a little bit inferior, especially ordinary people like us, accidentally, Emma, I am I have two acne, so I feel inferior. I didn’t wash my hair today. I don’t feel handsome and feel inferior.
So, sometimes the so-called love is just what you want, and she happens to give it. After writing this, I finally understand the director's mind. It turns out that there are reasons why male and female pig's feet are so ugly. First of all, they represent all ordinary people in the world (no wonder they walk in the world, they are all monsters). Then the director wants to tell us that the love of many adults who have extramarital affairs has nothing to do with appearance, but what I want, and you happen to give it to me)
So if you are an adult, of marriageable age or married, don’t worry about it. It's not that I'm old, I'm not pretty, I'm not attractive anymore. Just because he wanted it, you didn't, and she happened to give it to him.
So if your target is under the age of 18, or is still in college, or you are dealing with an adult who is not minded, he is cheating. . Please look in the mirror, maybe dear, you really should pack up.
Allison, to describe her in one sentence, she must be a disaster. A mother who loses a child is pitiful, and a woman who loses herself is also pitiful and terrible. At the moment she lost her child, she was like a bird whose feet had been chopped off, and could only fly non-stop, non-stop flying. Noah is like a warm wind, she is tired, she can imagine herself staying in the embrace of the wind. Calm and peaceful, without pain. But he is the wind. He wants to blow~ She still has to fly non-stop to keep from falling. She thought she was saved and reborn, but she didn't. She was just flying in the wind, and the wind gently supported her, making her not so tired, but as soon as she stopped, she would fall. How weak, what a stupid woman. Why not fall? Only when you fall can you find yourself, and you can truly discover that happiness is given by yourself, rather than being attached to someone, something, or something tangible.
After falling, many people don't have that courage. What's more, a mother who lost her child?
So she hurt herself and didn't cherish herself. But she was so rationally afraid of death. She cut deep and knew to see a doctor, and her ex-husband pointed the muzzle at herself, and she knew to persuade. She still has faith, courage, or nostalgia after all.
A few days ago, I heard that a child of ours committed suicide by jumping off the building because his stepmother treated him badly. A person who has never tasted Bodhi wine in his life, a person who has just begun to have a passion, and is just a child. . The beauty of the world is nothing but nostalgia.
So parents who have extramarital affairs or want to divorce, look at their children. Please let go of yourself, wait until your child matures, or try good communication before divorce, okay? Or please find a kind stepmother please? So I very much agree with MAX's exhortation. Wait at least nine months, wait until Whitney goes to college, okay? And Noah said, damn 9 months, I love her. . . It seems that I can't wait for a moment. Ha ha, poor children. Whitney's rebellion, the elder son's reticence, the two younger sons' innocence. . Plus a weak but paranoid wife. An inferior and honest husband, plus a sad and uncontrollable lover. . . Hmm~ It is predicted that the performance will be at least until the fourth season. . .
honest? When humans are looking for the other half, they often look for a kind of perfection and make up for the part they don't have. This is unconscious and universal. Therefore, we can see that many good men have been dealt with by "bad women"
and MAX’s remarks, "It won’t last long, buddy. You are as naive as a school kid, you should be mature. Women are like the stock market. Put your money in high-performance mutual funds, don’t move, don’t invest in Spice Girls anymore, 99% of the companies will go bankrupt, and you will be ruined, so don’t move your money.
This sentence is like a Foreshadowing, everything has just begun, Noah and Allison are far from smooth sailing, and they will live happily together? In the spirit of the original partners, it is best for you to get married, then quarrel, get a mistress, get an affair, and better still be infertile. Infertility... I
haven't finished writing, I just went to the toilet, and I have no inspiration, nothing more...
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