I pretended my daughter was sick, and my daughter made me dead

Birdie 2022-01-18 08:01:04

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The ending of "All Very Good" is very good, but in reality it is not so good.

Recently, I have chased two episodes of the American drama " The Act" . If we want to have a "world's most poisonous mother-in-law contest," Su Mingyu's mother-in-law is not ruthless enough. The mother-in-law in this drama is stifling.

This drama is taken from a true story-Buzzfeed's blast "Dee Dee Wanted Her Daughter To Be Sick, Gypsy Wanted Her Mom To Be Murdered".

Dee Dee is a seemingly hard-working single mother, and Gypsy is her daughter. The mother has always publicized that her daughter is suffering from a variety of diseases, so as to create her own maternal love energy gathering ring and win huge subsidies from related institutions.

It's a pity that Dee Dee doesn't do public relations. By selling his image of the Virgin, he can replace a house.

The home is full of various trophies, taking a group photo, Dee Dee looks like a Virgin from outsiders.

She made her daughter Gypsy the same as a leukemia patient. She shaved her head and couldn't eat. She could only inject liquid food through a tube.

Behind this is full of lies and conspiracies. The mother wants her daughter to get sick, the more sick the better, so that she can play the sympathy card and win a large amount of government subsidies. In fact, Gpysy is a healthy girl. She has become a profit tool for her own mother: in order to create her own pathology, she must give up all the joys of life.

Just like some professional beggars, in order to gain more mercy and money, they deliberately destroy their children.

In the end, Gpysy couldn't stand this extreme abuse and ended with a tragic mother-killing ending.

Mother Dee Dee is suffering from Monchosen’s syndrome :

There are two cases of this disease, one is "pretending to be sick" and sympathizing, and the other is the caregiver fabricating or inducing the physical and mental illness of the caregiver. It usually refers to the fatal abuse of the child by the mother. It is also called the surrogate Mengchosen synthesis. disease.

At present, the medical community is still studying the cause of Monchosen’s syndrome. It may be because of a long-term lack of love that leads to the need to gain care and sympathy in a painful environment, or it may be a personality split. Moreover, there is also controversy about the purpose of Mengqiaosen’s syndrome. Some scholars believe that such patients are unconscious behaviors and mental illnesses. However, some scholars believe that under certain circumstances, such patients have utilitarian performance, such as "Mengqiaosen’s work synthesis." "Symptoms", especially those who pretend to be in the "workplace".

The situation of Dee Dee, the mother in "Evil Deeds," is much more complicated. She is very utilitarian and has a strong desire to control.

She packaged her image seamlessly on the outside, and concocted a set of dreamy lies for her daughter on the inside.

Dreaming is a ploy of the mother externally and internally.

The exterior walls of the house are pink, and the interior decoration is also girlish.

From pink lace curtains to all kinds of pink furnishings at home.

Gypsy's clothes are also girlish.

Pink represents dreams, and in this home, pink is even more of a whitewash.

In addition, mother Dee Dee is very good at using "fairy tale brainwashing". Every day before going to bed, mother and daughter have such an "angel dialogue".

Then plug Gypsy in a breathing tube...

The young lady next door came over to give warmth and put on makeup for Gypsy. Mother Dee Dee peeped from the side with a very nervous expression.

Afterwards, the mother asked Gypsy to wipe her makeup clean. She used a gentle persuasion method, and her appearance was not hideous. Gentle knives, knives are deadly, and they can also be used on this pair of mothers and daughters.

Gypsy was very obedient, she refused a little bit, but immediately showed obedience, with a deep smile on her face.

Seeing others handing Coke to Gypsy, Dee hurriedly stepped forward to stop it.

Mother took Gypsy to the mall, it seemed like a happy hour for mother and daughter...

It was actually the scene of the mother’s petty theft... (Gypsy knew it well)

All this was seen by the female neighbor...

Mother Dee Dee used Gypsy to step on a lot of bottom lines: cheating government welfare, stealing things...

She has no sense of shame. In order to whiten her theft, Dee Dee fired a "Mother Missile" at the neighbourhood sorority scene: swiftly preventing her daughter from eating, injecting medicine, and sending her to the emergency room.

This move "Mother Meteor Fist" exchanged the neighbor's understanding and tolerance, and the thief successfully cleaned the taint.

At this time I really want to interview Dee Dee:

Excuse me, why did you let Gypsy linger so long alone? She steals sweets, is it in your expectation that you can take advantage of the opportunity to stage the "mother light" behind?

There is a cabinet of medicine in their house, which Dee Dee feeds to her daughter.

Dee Dee herself only took the tranquilizers, which showed that her emotional out-of-control has reached a morbid stage.

If there are uninvited guests at home, Dee Dee will immediately let her daughter take sleeping pills and appear drowsy. She doesn't want her daughter to express too much, and at the same time, she needs her daughter to always show apathy to outsiders.

On the other hand, the crisis of daughter Gypsy slowly surfaced.

Dee Dee thinks that using lies can wrap up a fairy tale world for her daughter.

Gypsy slowly began to bite back.

She is a healthy girl, but she has to be treated as a leukemia patient every day. With the accumulation of time, she will inevitably collapse.

From the daily details of Gypsy, we can see some clues.

She told the neighbor’s lady sister: I could walk when I was a kid, my mother said...

After speaking, Gypsy's expression was like this, she looked flustered and unnatural, her ability to lie was not yet blue.

She would secretly get up to eat at night, and she knew very well that her legs could walk normally.

Her mother also knew it well. Seeing all this, her mother immediately asked Gypsy to switch to patient mode.

This shows that Gypsy also suffers from Monchosen's syndrome.

She is used to wearing a "patient mask" and the body of this patient.

She is more used to being controlled by her mother. She seems to have memorized a set of speaking skills, with "my mother said" in the pet phrase, which shows that Dee's mental spells on Gypsy are very successful.

However, Gypsy gradually became uncontrollable, and she tried to get rid of her mother's control.

She went online secretly while her mother was not at home.

Entering adolescence, she is full of longing for friendship and love.

She will delete browsing records in time, indicating that she is highly subjective and capable of anti-reconnaissance.

Gypsy still drank Coke secretly, ate sweets, and got decayed in one bite.

The mother was afraid that outsiders could see the flaws (after all, Gypsy can't eat, tooth decay is directly related to eating), so she forcibly took Gypsy to the dentist to extract all the teeth.

Gypsy cried bitterly. This was the first time she had cried in this play, and she cried so badly.

She couldn't face such a mutilated herself. After the little girl entered puberty, she had a need to love beauty, and she was slowly accumulating her instincts.

Faced with her mother's torture to herself before, she always smiled forcefully, this time she really couldn't laugh. The mother is destroying her instinct, which is fatal.

She began to know how to fight for herself.

She will even test her mother.

Before the awards ceremony, my mother took out the dentures in front of outsiders. Gypsy's subtext is: This trick is again deliberately pinched to show, right?

At this time, Gypsy was in a dilemma. On the one hand, she wears a "patient mask" all the year round. Mengchosen’s syndrome makes her accustomed to this morbid state, accustomed to being cared for by others, and even accustomed to lying. On the other hand, her mother's brainwashing is deeply ingrained, and she currently does not have enough strength to resist.

Just as doctors have begun to doubt, professional diagnosis can overturn Dee Dee's lies.

The doctor wants Gypsy to take a sip of Coke to see if there are any lesions.

At this time, Gypsy's expression was very complicated. He still said "Mother is good for me" in his mouth, but his eyes were full of tears.

Monchosen’s syndrome does not allow her to tear off her disguise, she has to continue to lie.

She knows the true face of her mother very well, and she also knows what she really wants to pursue, but she chooses to forbear.

Faced with the extreme abuse of her mother Dee Dee, Gypsy began to obey from the very beginning, and slowly to forbearance now, she began to have her own consciousness and emotions.

Forbearance is the motivation for the resistance. At this time, the Gypsy energy is not enough to compete with her mother, and she began to hide her powers and bide her time.

It's just that Gypsy is more morbid. The mother only suffers from Monchosen’s syndrome, and the daughter is estimated to have multiple personalities and anti-social personality.

Her first personality is patient Gypsy, and now she is slowly cultivating her second personality-the beautiful Gypsy. She longs for a normal social life, and she is more eager to break through the control of her mother.

When his mother Dee Dee conflicted with the second personality, Gypsy began to show his anti-social personality, which is also called ruthless personality disorder.

The follow-up plot should slowly show his backlash.

The official poster shows the growing up Gypsy and her online boyfriend. With social networks, Gypsy's desires can grow wantonly.

This drama looks creepy, aside from the pathological relationship between mother and daughter, it actually draws a red line for family education:

As a parent, don't try to control your growing child. You can have some intervention, but absolutely don't control it 100%. Some children are emotionally sensitive. If they live in controlled emotions for a long time, their growth may be distorted.

Not everyone has strong self-defense and self-repair abilities, and many injuries are irreversible.

Things must be reversed, and Gypsy is under too much pressure: disguised as a patient, disguised as a good baby of his mother, disguised as a weak woman in the eyes of others...

But she can't suppress the various desires brought by her own growth: dressing up, friendship, love...

Dee Dee believes that Gypsy has always been a child's mind, 100% controllable, but ignores the growth of human nature.

When Gypsy can't bear it, this is a disaster.

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  • Winifred 2022-01-18 08:01:04

    The acting skills of the little girl and mother are so great, the plot is still adapted from the truth, it is so suffocating mother-daughter relationship, but the rhythm of the plot is still a bit too slow, I desperately want to see my daughter fight back!

  • Breana 2022-03-26 09:01:12

    It was the first time I saw Gypsy get out of bed in the middle of the night and walk freely, expressing shock, thinking about the poor girl who was seriously ill in the eyes of the neighbors around Gypsy, and the reaction of Sanguan's destruction after knowing the truth. This case is terrible and strange. In the interview, Gypsy said that apart from a little eye problem, she is healthy, and she was deeply brainwashed in a wheelchair. She fully believed that Dee Dee was for her own good. Gypsy wanted to escape and chose to murder, but she never thought that Dee Dee could be exposed by standing up and walking, and her experience would be beyond anyone's head. Joey King's show deserves an Emmy. The show is still sympathetic to Gypsy's portrayal, she can be said to be reborn from the ashes when she turns and leaves the pink cabin.