You can cling to love, but don’t live for love

Camryn 2022-11-04 00:50:50

Looking through recent movies, I found that there are two films about female consciousness that can be put together to talk about it. These two films definitely do not belong to the category of good films, but I think they have their own value and significance. They are "Hello, my name is Dulles" and "28-year-old underage" directed by Zhang Yimou's daughter Zhang Mo.

Beauty, so beautiful.

You may be more familiar with the latter, but after watching the movie, I prefer the previous one. To briefly introduce, Duo Laisi is nearly 60 years old, but there is a girlish heart, a visionary, and many people in the barrage mentioned "Daydreamer". Indeed, when Duo Laisi dreams, it will remind me of it. this movie.

But Sally Field, the actor of Dorothy, is an old dramatist. She won two Oscars, and she was a beauty when she was young.

Born on November 6, 1946 in Pasadena, California, USA. The mother is actress Margaret Field, and the stepfather is also an actor. High school has been keen on acting, and would rather not go to college and join the summer acting class of Columbia Pictures. In 1967, he established his popularity with the TV comedy series "Happy Nun". In the same year, he stepped into the film world and starred in his debut film "Western New World". In 1976, she won the Emmy Award for Best Actress in the TV movie "Sibyl". In 1979, "Norma Lei" won the Oscar, New York Film Critics and Cannes three titles. With this film, it broke the sweet and lively style of the past and changed to the acting line. In 1984, he won the Oscars with "Deep into the Field" again, becoming the only Oscar "double crown" in the 1980s. In the 1990s, there was a noticeable decrease in the number of works, but the big box office films such as "Skinny Dad" and "Forrest Gump" were still used in the film industry. Her most recent work is "Lincoln" in 2012 with Daniel Day-Lewis.

In this movie, there is a setting that Dorothy falls in love with Xiao Xianrou who is thirty years younger than herself. Xiao Xianrou is handsome! ! ! Xiao Xianrou's girlfriend is a thin girl in "Broken Sisters".

There is a lot of communication and exchanges between the male lead and the female lead, but the other has someone they like, and in the end the two are not together. The hostess has many characteristics of older females. When she was young, she had been in love, was injured, was bitten by a snake once, and was afraid of well ropes for ten years. Even when you are not in love, you will fantasize that you are the heroine of a romance novel, hoping for a vigorous love. When they like it, they shrink back and feel inferior that they are not worthy of each other. Therefore, some foreign aid is needed. In this story, the heroine is not very open, at least she posted on Facebook, "Our love is like the sun, the moon, and more like stars, and you tear it to pieces. Now leave me alone, waiting for death, like A particle of dust disappears with the wind." During this passage, there was a bit of green tea.

The hostess has a performance listening to electronic music, which is super fun.

But everyone makes mistakes, and the most important thing is not to be trapped in life. Some people really live in their own siege. Whether it's with friends or playing on your own, you always trap your body and mind and never really engage. This is the most terrifying thing.

The hostess finally awakened, cleaned up the room full of clutter, and left the office to bid farewell to colleagues and bosses. The final fantasy seemed to indicate that she did not give up her expectation for a better life.

"28-year-old underage" also belongs to Mary Su's movie, but the director used a rather interesting interpretation. I don’t want to comment on the acting skills of Ni Ni and Huo Jianhua. To be honest, Ni Ni’s performance still has changes. It may be easier to distinguish, and I can see a little surprise. Huo Jianhua is not suitable for the big screen. It's okay to see him in the TV series, but on the screen, except for a face, his acting skills are very embarrassing. Fortunately, the role of the veteran cadre is played in his true colors and does not require much expression and action.

Ni Ni's face sometimes looks like a certain actress.

In love, getting along is very important, time is very important, love is very important, but it is also very important not to lose yourself.

In the story, Liang Xia lost herself for love. Whether it is Xiao Liangxia at the age of seventeen or Da Liangxia at the age of twenty-eight, once fell in love, they are desperate. Perhaps, girls are like this in their bones, and when they finally wake up, there will always be some gains. Whether it is chocolate or incidents, self-deception is the most terrible.

The characters in the movie have their own destiny finale in just tens of minutes, but it seems that we in life always have to experience more to realize it.

I have always felt that you should not lose yourself when you love or not. Know what you want and what you are doing. There are many interesting things in the world, and love is one of them.

You can cling to love, but don't live for love.

We have seen too many love movies and heard too many love songs. There is nothing wrong with meeting someone you like, chasing after or confessing. A rational person has his own world, and an emotional person has his own life, but the premise of all this is to maintain oneself. I see a lot of incredible things in the news, and sometimes I wonder why love has become an accomplice of these people's mistakes.

Both Duo Lai Si and Xiao Liang Xia made mistakes and were forgiven in the end.

We too, in different situations, made mistakes and did not good enough ourselves.

But this is not a reason to sink.

Organize yourself, have something you like, stick to it, do it well, and don't let yourself become a vassal of love.

Two and a half stars.

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Hello, My Name Is Doris quotes

  • John: I met a woman in the elevator this morning. We hardly exchanged more than a few words, but she made a big impression on me. She's standing right there... Look lady, I don't even know your name, but you set off a fire inside of me that I've not been able to put out since the moment I laid eyes on you. Can we explore this?

  • John: You're a baller, Doris. Straight up!