Sick lovers are not the responsibility, compassion is not enough

Reba 2022-02-19 08:01:27

When I feel uncomfortable, I don’t always say that I don’t want to. I will put on a stinky face and become very impatient when I do things. Although I am still doing things, my attitude towards doing things seems to be that I am pitying. You, see how I treat you well.

If you treat the patient in this way, and take care of the patient as an obligation, the patient will definitely feel super unhappy. So when I watched this film, I felt that my husband was still very responsible. If it were me, I might not be able to do this. But after reading it, my understanding has changed a lot. Patients need more than just care and should not be treated as a drag, otherwise they will be very unhappy. To appreciate them from the heart, value them, and discover their shining points. For example, black couples and wives still live so happily when they are sick. Although there are many hardships, you can also spend it together.

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  • Zella 2022-03-27 09:01:15

    It feels a bit out of reach, but the plot and the ending are not out of reach. Relaxing "self-esteem" is the biggest feeling of watching this movie. Sometimes I can't accept it, it's not because I'm deliberately embarrassing the people around me. Personally, I think it's easy to fall into the cliché of the subject of disease. There are too many movies with the same theme, but it's okay, at least I'm moved.

  • Rosella 2022-02-19 08:01:27

    The ice bucket challenge that has spread since last summer. Then people noticed that there is still such a disease. But the actors in this film are all good actors, why don’t they feel so deeply...

You're Not You quotes

  • Kate: [sitting in the park] I've never done this.

    Bec: What?

    Kate: Nothing.

    Bec: Maybe that's what's wrong with my life. I didn't know this was doing nothing.

  • Bec: I know it's not my place, because I'm not the one who has this thing, but... please don't give up.

    Kate: That's the thing about giving up, you don't realize you've done it until it's to late.