A person must grow towards the sun, my mother always told me this sentence. Once, like this little boy, I attributed the unavoidable pain in the growing process to the negligence of my parents. In fact, thinking about it now, no one can pay for your grief. This little boy is thoughtful and emotionally persistent, just like when I was a child, except that I am a girl and heterosexual. It was because I was too young and ignorant that I desperately thought that I was wronged. When I received sympathy from my relatives, I felt even more that the world treated me unfairly, so I resented my parents even more. In fact, in the process of resentment, the love for me has always existed, but I have been ignoring it. In fact, this little boy's stepmother is a great person, and it is rare that she can take care of her own child like this. Love exists in many forms, and it would be naive to complain about the person who gave us love just because the way it exists doesn't satisfy our fanciful demands of it. Life in this world is not easy for everyone, including our parents. Later, I realized that if you want to live a happy life, you have to learn to be grateful, and understand that those painful feelings are inevitable. Accept it, you can feel sad and don’t want to talk, shouting and so on, but don’t blame the closest person .
The fate of the little boy is indeed not very good, but if he understands the essence of love, that is, two people in the rain hug each other for warmth, and understand the difficulty and difficulty of life, then he will understand what love is. Unfortunately, he is too young, and I never saw that woman when I grew up. If he finally understands, maybe his food will be better cooked.
This may be the revelation that God wants him to understand, but unfortunately he has not understood it yet. When a person overcomes the cowardice of grief, he will understand that grief is the best shortcut to the essence of life. Life is to be poured cold water. The smart person will accept it as soon as possible, while the cowardly person will avoid it until the punishment comes to him, when he realizes it is too late. So people, no matter what life gives us, we have to accept it, because if you keep your head down and walk in your own small world, you will not know how beautiful the scenery is, the world may not give you the rainbow you want , but it may give you a breath of fresh air, the world is not the way we think it is, but the way we accept it.
In real life, it is often the parents who understand this. Therefore, as children, we should grow up. (I got it when I was 20)
Here's how to do it: (my experience) Don't complain about others, accept the reality, complain if you don't want to accept it, not complain about others, but complain about yourself, change yourself if you don't want to complain, don't change others, but change yourself .
The more proficient you are at this method, the faster you will improve yourself, until you change to the point where you feel loved and moved.
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