Reflect on family

Carmine 2022-11-25 06:04:16

To say what kind of disaster education the Chinese have, the most common one is actually a joke - "If both your mother and I fall into the river, will you save your mother or me first? This sentence
is often introduced into sketches and amused. But
in fact, this is not funny at all.
If such a thing happens, this sentence is not only a joke, but also a huge tragedy. When a
disaster does happen, the choice you have to face is not only to save your wife It's as simple as saving my mother, and there are more - you have to choose whether to save yourself or the other party; if you save the other party, you have to choose whether to save your mother or your wife and children first; if you save your wife and children, you have to save first. The wife still saves the child first; if you save the child first, you have to choose whether to save the son or the daughter first; save the eldest or the second...
These choices must be decided within a second or two, otherwise, none of them will be saved.
Therefore, the short A short one or two seconds is absolutely suffocating. But
what is even more frustrating is that you will continue to live in collapse in the decades after you choose to do it -
if you save A but not B, the next few days In ten years, how will you face the B? The A who was chosen to survive, and how will he face the B who gave his life to himself? What's more, if B does not die in the end, how will he face the B who did not die? You who saved yourself and A who stole his life? What's more, if fate finally arranged for B to meet you, how would you express your debt to B?
... It can be said that the moment the disaster strikes , no matter what choice you make, the result is wrong. But you have to make this wrong decision.
- This is the core content of "Tangshan Earthquake".
Here, I have no intention to recommend this drama, although my The Feng Xiaogang I saw was not as unpopular as the rumors said. I just hope that no matter whether you go to see this movie or not, you can find a space in the moment of comfort and think about it, in case of disaster, How should you choose? How should you face other people's choices? How should you understand other people's choices? Don't be like Zhang Jingchu in the play. After 32 years of hatred and resentment, you suddenly realize that you did it for yourself. The one who sacrificed was his own brother!

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Extended Reading
  • Lucie 2022-04-24 07:01:23

    Teacher Mao Jian said "Tang": it holds the biggest wound of a nation

  • Dovie 2022-04-22 07:01:50

    In the face of natural disasters, human beings are insignificant

Aftershock quotes

  • Li Yuanni: But I'm against it precisely because of your dad and elder sis. The last time we moved, I had to tell them exactly how to get to our new place. And I've been telling them constantly for more than 20 years. If I were to move again, I would've to tell them the new directions. I can't keep telling them anymore. I'm tired of telling them. End of discussion. I'm not moving anywhere.

  • Fang Da: The 1976 earthquake destroyed my mom's entire life. Her heart... was shattered like debris. Do you know what my mom often says?

    Volunteer of Tangshan rescue team at 2008 Sichuan earthquake: What?

    Fang Da: Only after you've lost something, then do you truly know what loss is. The houses that fell had been rebuilt. But the house in my mom's heart was never put together again. 32 years have passed, yet the old lady continues passing the days guarding the ruins of her heart.