50 First Dates

Alexzander 2021-10-20 17:24:14

I like this film very much, the tone is very relaxed, but there are many things that can be seen.
A beautiful girl got amnesia in a car accident, and all the memories after the car accident can only be kept for one day. Her father and brother kept trying to conceal the truth in order to prevent her from knowing the truth. The boy fell in love with the girl. So, he meets with the girl every day, date, let her fall in love with him; However, the girl always forgets him the next day, forget the things that happened before. Later, he thought of a way. Every morning after the girl woke up, he let her watch a vedio, which recorded every bit that happened but was forgotten by the girl. After watching vedio, life continued. Day after day. Later, they got married and had children, and the girl's illness never healed, but they continued to live day by day in this way.
I really like the romantic plot inside. But compared to that romantic love, I prefer the end of the story. Although we know that our lover is not so perfect, we can find a way to continue our lives. Still so nostalgic and loveable.
Actually, what is love? It is nothing more than accepting those imperfections and facing the ordinary fleeting years with your lover.
Also, family affection. The method adopted by the girl’s father and brother, I admit that it was to protect the girl. However, it made her life unable to continue, unable to move forward. I think here is more like a kind of doting of parents to their children. I hope that the child will stay at a certain moment in life forever and not grow up. However, in the real world, it is impossible to allow such a phenomenon to occur. The child will know the truth of life after all, she will know after all, even though she may have some shortcomings of one kind or another now, so the real life will cause her harm, but life is something that needs to be faced after all. We can compromise on life, but we must let it go and continue. Just like what I did in the play, I watched 1 hour of vedio every day, and for the remaining 23 hours, I continued the life I had forgotten. Still getting married, still having children, still getting together with friends... Here, it may be a manifestation of a tenacious American spirit!
Of course, there are some easy and funny plots in the play, which makes this movie not only profound but also easy to laugh.
Finally, there is one more question. Is it better to have memory loss or to keep memories? If you only see it for the first time in life, "Nothing can beat the first kiss", if you lose your memory, then every day, every kiss, is the first time. We will not hurt each other. However, what is forgotten along with those forgotten injuries are also those sweet memories. I remembered another plot. When Henry went to find Lucy again, he saw that Lucy’s place was full of paintings, all his paintings were hanging, and every expression of his expression was recorded... Maybe it was, even if, many years later, mine I may not remember what happened in my mind. However, the heart will remember, remember every smile you made, every look in your eyes...
Perhaps the person you loved will leave a trace even if they are separated. You will feel that even if you have been separated for a long time, perhaps some of your current views are from him; your attitude towards things is also influenced by him... before, perhaps you were a casual person, but with a serious person After being together for a period of time, you start to become cautious, serious and responsible; perhaps, you used to be a melancholy person, worrying about what to do in the future, and later, you met him, a confident and easily satisfied person People, then, you begin to feel at ease and start to feel that although you may not be a celebrity, you are actually capable of living your life well! ......So, even if separated, in fact, you earned it! You have earned all the good points from them to yourself. Those precious things are gifts that love brings to you, and they will accompany you throughout your life!
It's too far, so stop here!

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Extended Reading
  • Carleton 2021-10-20 19:01:45

    I want to fall in love! I want to fall in love! !

  • Karina 2022-03-22 09:01:15

    Hey, first love, first love

50 First Dates quotes

  • Old Hawaiian Man: Are you staring at me or her? 'Cause you're starting to freak me out.

    Henry: Settle down and eat your pancakes, huh.

  • Old Hawaiian Man: [about Henry's drawing on a napkin] Can I have that? I need something to wipe my ass with.

    Henry: Ha ha ha. Shut up!