There is a saying that goes like this - "If you don't have the idea of killing the person around you, it's not true love."
This movie reminds me of a gossip that I heard after 2008. Except for the tragic 512, because of this tremor, one of the juniors saw the form clearly, because at the moment of the earthquake, the man who usually persuaded her to get a divorce and fascinated her with all kinds of things, was there. In a moment, he quickly dressed and rushed to the place where he complained a lot. Perhaps the effect of the ecstasy soup is so good, the little three also asked, "Where are you going?" Come out!"
Of course, there are other versions of the post-512 relationship, so the divorce rate and the marriage rate also increased after the 5/12. Thinking about it this way, marriage is actually a lot of times in people's thinking that "it's not a child's play", and it's a child's play if you're not careful. But this is not a complaint or an excuse not to get married. It is estimated that a dog who is timid is too unpalatable to eat, it is better.
In the film, the old man and the old woman are no longer old, but they both have a self-righteousness, and they are still thinking about where the spring is. , only know to use love to do, without any connotation and taste. So the aunt looked for a handsome and sturdy man, the uncle and the girl whispered softly and even had the style of a romantic poet, and planned to kill the wife for the beauty. Both parties feel that the new love is "true love", and both dislike the old one. But I don't know that there is a fourth person behind it. So uncle Huang Liangmei woke up from a dream, and at that moment he realized that if there was really no auntie, this soft girl would be meaningless, so he ran wildly on the road.
I had originally speculated that when the uncle saw the aunt's little lover under the window, he would kill his wife in anger and then commit suicide - apparently the wife in front of him in black lace underwear had just spent the night with the youth running downstairs. That night really "lost everything." But he didn't, he just said he understood that he couldn't lose her, hug her, and go to the bathroom to calm down. After thinking about it, I found that I was too superficial. There are not so many black and white things in life, and there are not so many simple things that can be clearly explained and guessed. And the aunt let the little lover walk away from the window, which shows that she is not as loving as she thinks. If you really don't care about your uncle, it's nothing to catch a rape in bed. So in the tears of the uncle and the guilt of the aunt, they started a real new life. The fourth also got his wish and married a soft girl.
Some people may feel that this ending seems helpless. But in fact, this story is just a microcosm of thousands of families. A thousand families look like a thousand marriages. Otherwise, how could it be said that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. This ending is just a manifestation - in all marriages, there is a side of struggle that you don't know about, some are helpless, and there are also inclusive and beautiful sides. And as long as you love, in the end, you will definitely want to always be with the person you love.
Marriage is actually a lot like a torn loofah that is dry but tough. Loofah cloth is the ability of loofah to remove oil stains without hurting hands after being exposed to the wind and the sun. Not good looking, but easy to use and durable. Although marriage is not for use, it is precisely because of this pillow person that you can experience the kind of feelings and stories that unmarried people can't understand. A good marriage is also ground, love is the background, responsibility and mutual care are its themes.
We all know that happiness is short-lived, and because it is short, we are more greedy to collect more. But there is only so much dopamine, and it's over when it's secreted. Plainness still has to be faced. And we always forget, if there is no dullness, how can we highlight the happiness?
Finally, let's talk about a gossip: a woman asked people about her feelings. She didn't understand what the passionate man loved her. He was aggressive but had a family at the same time, and there was no sign of intending to divorce.
The counselor replied, "He loves you and doesn't belong to him."
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