Can a man be trusted?

Therese 2022-07-12 17:42:44

Is it because men are really untrustworthy, that's why women are called Trust The Man?

The movie "Trust The Man" does have a "three hundred taels of silver here".

There are four people, two men and two women, a married couple with a pair of children; a cohabiting lover, the woman has repeatedly hinted that she wants to get married, but the man has not made a statement.

In addition, there is another level of relationship between the two men and women: the married man and the cohabiting man are close friends and thus know their wives; the married woman is the cohabiting man's sister.

Will it be a little complicated? If I could write the name, it would be clearer. Unfortunately, my memory is too bad. I really remember too little of the second round of movies I watched around the end of March.

But I still want to say something about whether a man can be trusted?

A married man who had just quit his job at an advertising agency became a full-time house-husband, not only taking his children to and from school, but also doing housework.
"Thirty is like a wolf, forty is like a tiger" maybe not just for women, but for men, or maybe it's more appropriate?

He was rejected again and again to seek love, which taught him to feel depressed. Finally, in the kindergarten where he picked up the child, he met a beautiful single mother... He was already itchy, and the woman tempted him at the right time, and the affair unfolded.

On the other hand, the cohabiting woman who wants to get married finally has a formal showdown with her lover, because her biological clock is approaching a critical point, she not only wants a formal marriage relationship, but also wants to be a mother, but the man still refuses to promise, the reason is not fear of marriage but is death.

Regarding "death may come at any time" or "people begin to walk towards death as soon as they are born", I forgot what he was afraid of, so I taught him not to be responsible for anyone or anything or to develop a relationship that requires responsibility. Like marriage, like children.

As a result, the cohabiting man has his lover kicked out of the house, and the married woman also kicks the cheating husband out of the house.

Men may not be trustworthy, but need education or a lesson, take the time to teach them what they really want?

As every woman subconsciously hopes that the man she loves will be crazy about herself?

Have you seen the movie "The More You Love, The More Beautiful"? The male protagonist tried to break into the building where the female protagonist lived at five o'clock in the morning, but failed. He yelled at the window on the street anxiously, because the thought of his estranged wife fleeing to the arms of his old lover made him unable to hold back for a moment. Anxious to save...

A married man who was kicked out of his home, in a stage play performed by his wife, made a scene and bravely said his love... The

cohabiting man finally tasted the pain of loss and tried his best to win back his lover's heart...

This is The ending is perfect, which also echoes the title of "Trust The Man". The man who believes in you will one day realize, grow up, become mature and sensible, and thus understand that you are his beginning and end?

Could it be that the man is actually closer to the idea of ​​Matthew's wife Elaine?

Elaine is a call girl and Matthew is a retired police officer. The two met because of a service relationship. At that time, she was young, and he was married with two children. After several changes in personnel, after walking around in front of the gate of hell, Elaine silently stopped the work she was called to, and Matthew not only divorced but also retired from the police because of an accident, became a private detective, and finally spoke up. Yang she stopped her original job, and after a while, the two finally officially registered their marriage.

But Elaine tells Matthew that getting married doesn't mean the two have to make changes for each other. Based on her previous work experience and understanding of men, she clearly knows that men like wild food just because they like it, and it has nothing to do with whether the marriage is happy or not. Therefore, she had no reason to ask Matthew to be different from other men, and her only concern was whether he would find a woman who he liked more than Elaine.

Is this the bare minimum requirement of every married woman or lover who suffers from a man's infidelity?

How does Matthew himself view this matter?

He said that his relationship with the woman who had an affair was not purely physical, but something else, which felt more like wine.

How does drinking make you feel?

For Matthew, the way and the rules of the game are like drinking alcohol. In his impatient here and now, he has a place to go.

Under the secular institutional norms, do we all need a place, an outlet, to breathe?

Perhaps it is not a question of whether a man is trustworthy or not, but that the man himself cannot trust himself.

But why isn't that the case with women?

Do you (you) believe in yourself? Can you love only one person for the rest of your life?

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Trust the Man quotes

  • Tobey: What kind of porn are you looking at?

    Tom: Good old fashioned man-woman woman-horse stuff.

    Tobey: Oh, you're a purist.

  • [first lines]

    David: I need help!

    Tom: I'll go.