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Janick 2021-10-20 17:28:53

Usually, people like to say that someone is a person of good temperament, and they like it so much.
In fact, this is just a compliment. The real situation is that in real life, few people can tolerate a man of temperament, let alone understanding and love.

The heroes and heroines in Gone with the Wind are the so-called temperaments. One loves only one man and spends half his life for him, and the other loves only one woman and devotes everything to her. However, these two lovers can hardly live this life together anyway. There is only mutual torture, abuse, revenge, without tolerance and peace.
Scarlett loves Asiri, with no hesitation, no regrets, no regrets, just like loving a baby that can never be obtained, a dream that can never be realized, what she loves is only an imaginary idol in her heart, And never really understood him as a real person. This is a typical woman who is addicted to dreams of love. A woman's love is more based in the illusion. She likes the unrealistic feeling, and loves the self-sorrow that she can't get after she falls in love. That is the source of her motivation.
Butler is the love of men. He also loves to the death, spends his wealth for her, and suffers for her. His love is real and not illusory. He knows the coquettish and wild in her bones, understands her pain and viciousness, what he loves is not A beautiful shadow, but a real, not so kind and not so elegant woman in reality. What he loves is her unkindness, coldness and stubbornness. The first time he saw her, he already confessed his daring Love, fascinated by women who dare to slap a man in the face.

On the contrary, why didn't Asiri love Scarlett—and never loved her.
Of course he knows her too, knows her character like Butler, and uses this character insidiously and selfishly.
He doesn't love her, and because of her character, he is a noble, a person with a strong sense of superiority in spirit. He hates Scarlett like ordinary men hate coquettish women. He is attracted by their sexy and because of their deepness. Knowing that the sense of destruction behind this attraction is shocked. He disliked her ignorance, her enthusiasm, her stubbornness, her bravery, and her dedication. What he hates is the opposite of his illusion and weakness-strength, courage, dedication. From a certain point of view, he somewhat appreciates this temperament, but because he thinks dealing with such a woman is more troublesome, just like To be forced to conquer a wild horse or a fire, the danger is always greater than the happiness brought by the challenge.
Most people are Asiri. Know their choices, and wisely avoid enthusiasm and desire, because they know that it might ruin themselves.

This is the reality, people in their temperaments are not cute.
Just like Fei Wenli will go crazy, Gable will drink alcohol and have an illegitimate daughter.
Romain Roland said that in this world of ashes of emotions, a passionate person and a genius are rare things. Most people care about their lives, their careers, friendships and loves, and they are measured repeatedly on a scale.
And no matter when they love or hate, people who dare to put themselves in it are very rare.
The people of temperament in our memory, whether they are great figures in history or artists, are true temperaments of people, which means that they dare to gamble, and the bet is themselves.
They are not afraid of the world or death. If a person wants to fully bloom his life, he cannot take into account the trivial life and human relationships. Therefore, these people appear to be extremely selfish, arrogant, and even cruel, but with this When people are together, you will feel the breadth and depth that a person can stretch to the greatest extent, and explore the darkest and most brilliant two aspects of human nature. This is why, if a person has a personality, he is not cute, and a person who is cute is absolutely not allowed to have a personality. The person in temperament is definitely not a good person in the secular sense, but a complicated person.
If you demand a passion, don't be afraid of the flame it brings that will extend to yourself. If you want to be calm, don't yearn for desire. People can't have the best of both worlds in everything.
Love is suffering. Without love, there will be no suffering.

A person who loves someone must go through hardships, otherwise he writes words that do not bleed.

And people always like words with blood and tears, but not real blood and tears.

Seeing so many people saying that they love Ruite, I wonder if this is the case. Would you really love a criminal man, can you have the guts?

People say that they like truth, kindness, beauty, and feelings, but in fact, this world is just a desert of feelings, a market of interests, and the stock exchange in Antonioni’s films. Everything is half a catty, a night of romance. .

So people always like to see eternal love like Gone with the Wind in books and on the screen, a story that has been in love for a lifetime.

People in temperament are not cute.

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Extended Reading
  • Dylan 2021-10-20 19:02:23

    Maybe every girl has an Ashley in her heart, and only after time did she discover that true love turned out to be Ban Reid.

  • Marcella 2021-10-20 19:02:23

    I read in Chinese. depressed!

Gone with the Wind quotes

  • Dr. Meade: [to Scarlett] Now you've got to listen to me! You must stay here!

    Aunt 'Pittypat' Hamilton: Without a chaperon, Dr. Meade? It simply isn't done!

    Dr. Meade: Good heavens, woman! This is a war, not a garden party!

  • Rhett Butler: Would you satisfy my curiosity on a point which has bothered me for some time?

    Scarlett: Well, what is it? Be quick!

    Rhett Butler: Tell me, Scarlett, do you never shrink from marrying men you don't love?

    Scarlett: How did you ever get out of jail? Why didn't they hang you?