Even if you run out of youth, the ending is popular

Opal 2022-01-24 08:01:26

"Whether it is a man or a woman, if they still have no stable love relationship or family life at a certain age, it is neither because they are too attached to the ease and comfort of a person, nor is it'have a difficult time in the ocean'. You can only say this person. In terms of emotional handling, it’s still too immature.”

This is a sentence from the cover of the American movie "Broken English", but after watching the film twice, I still have difficulty agreeing with this point of view, and even think it is for the leftover man. An insult to the leftover woman. Everyone has their own destiny. Some people may find them quickly, while some people need to make a big circle to meet the right person. This is related to the way of dealing with feelings, but it is not an absolute factor. No matter how scientific the world view is, the element of luck cannot be obliterated. Sometimes theism can save people from anxiety better than atheism. Yes, at this stage of older youth, anxiety is the norm. The symptoms are low self-esteem, fear, cowardice, and not daring to make decisions...

Nora is thirty-five years old, and all her friends around have married families, and she is the only one left. He is single and still has no marriage partner. Like most women, she doesn't care about geography and can't remember the route. She has worked in a hotel for six years and has no big goals. The only expectation is to meet a good man. "Everyone has it, why didn't I?" My friend's reply was: you will have one, but don't be stupid next time.

Yes, she was stupid. She had a relationship with an actor who lived in a hotel. She thought they were dating and made an announcement to her family and friends without a word. When I learned that the other party had a girlfriend, I couldn't figure out what went wrong. She had never thought that she was too far away from the world of showbiz, what she encountered was a one-night stand, not love. She is naive at this point. Now even ten-year-old children know that the show business is full of deceit and shady. To be deceived and consecrated, instead of believing that it is love, it is better to take advantage of unspoken rules. Of course, no one will be stupid enough to rule the male lead.

Perhaps every woman is looking forward to a vain love, and it is an honor to fall in love with him. Only with such a stalwart image can people be willing to dedicate themselves. This is the malignant tumor caused by the story of "Prince Charming" in childhood, and the encounter between the prince and Cinderella has caused countless women to lose their self-knowledge and get lost in a mirage-like love-seeking journey, and finally shine like a mermaid overnight. After that, it turned into a bubble. This kind of experience is a special case of a girl who hasn't been in the world. Unexpectedly, this woman did not meet until the age of 35. It's really sighing, the wrong love should be done as soon as possible, happiness is indispensable.

For the subsequent encounters, she can no longer be blamed for her naivety. Men can be more frustrated and courageous, but women are more afraid of frustration. For a woman whose feelings are frequently lost, how much passion she still has to squander, how much she can dig, how many beds she can go to, her heart is full of fear. If a woman has not set the goal of the game in life, she is destined to be afraid because she can't afford it. The numbness during a blind date and the burnout during a date are a form of self-defense. What she needs is someone holding a precise key to open her heart directly. She can no longer withstand the tangled love. In the blind dates that ended without disease, she was desperate, and her age did not allow her to "talk better than nothing", she could only find the person who could get married.

When I met Zhu Li'an, I didn't hold much hope. This is what she learned well. Don't discuss it for life. This is not a question of right and wrong used to test the feelings when I first met. It is also difficult to ask yourself. If you don’t fall in love at first sight, then you can buy tickets after you get in the car. The relationship can be cultivated. Getting along requires experimentation. Marriage is the result of the smooth progress of the first two. Sure enough, in the short time she got along, she found that she no longer knew how to get along with people. A simple question of how to introduce her acquaintances caused her to fall apart. Yes, falling in love can be a moment, but getting along is bit by bit. Therefore, when Julian was going back to France, she didn't have the courage to go with him, and she habitually avoided it. I think she did it right. When there is too much uncertainty, it is naive to "elope" impulsively. What is his financial situation, what is his parents’ attitude, how long his enthusiasm will last... all are unknown, all said that it is an older young man, and if you do those unscrupulous things, you have to turn into old flowers. .

If the film develops according to this tone, it may become a big hit in film critics-why a woman with a good face and temperament can't find a man to please. However, the director is also a woman, she sacrificed immortality and preserved her perfect imagination. Nora went to Paris to find Julian, and met on the bus. Julian stayed with her, and she agreed. So popular.

Popularity seems to be a goal for people who have not entered the popular. You are busy, searching and searching, but what you want is just a popular result: a lover and staying with him. The irony is that the good friend who has been with Nora, entered into marriage five years ago, but now she drinks with Nora, vents together, and ran away together, because of the anxiety of searching, marriage has marriage. The troubles, no matter what stage they are in, they will get the same result by different routes. What Nora found was just a barrier to entry into the popular. After that, the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, sweets and bitters, noisy, and noisy were still in her next door. If you don’t know what the situation is, I suggest you take a look at the "Golden Wedding" of our Chinese first.

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Broken English quotes

  • Nora Wilder: I think I must be doing something horribly wrong, but I don't know what it is.

  • Nora Wilder: I'm just trying to figure out if this is supposed to mean something.