Have you ever thought about the question of "happiness" sometimes, have you ever thought about who you are living for in this life?
I thought about it, but do you have an answer.
I have thought about it. As for the answer, sometimes there is, sometimes not.
Laurent, a handsome boy looking at the sun, he is the pistachio of anyone in the family, he makes his home look happy and happy, but he himself, he hasn't thought about it. He concealed his identity as a comrade, pretending to be a couple with his girlfriend, and acting as a couple in front of his family, thinking that he could go on in this way, but he did not expect another person to appear in his life.
Love at first sight, sometimes terrible. The appearance of a person disrupts each other's lives so much. It is beautiful to love each other, but when love involves others, then it may be a time to test love. We can say love to a person many times, but what is the concept of true love and what it looks like. Most of the time we don't ask ourselves carefully, but what do we love, others, or ourselves.
Laurent, he said that he loves Cédric, but he has been reluctant to do anything, leaving him alone to suffer. Cédric, he said he loves Laurent, but at certain moments push him too hard. Their parents say they love them, but in many cases they think of themselves.
So, I started to get angry, who we really love.
This is a story that comes out, a very real problem. Maybe some of us are going through or going through it. I have no say in this. I don’t know what the outcome will be, just like Laurent. , Maybe many times, we can only confuse life like this. However, I want to talk about some other issues, about the so-called love and the so-called life.
Obviously, we can't live in a world without people. To live, we must have intersections with some people. It's just that we sometimes don't need to wrong ourselves for others. We live with the people we love, the people who love us. Some people we meet now will eventually leave us at some point in the future until we forget each other. However, if we changed ourselves because of some of their remarks, then in the end, what will we get.
Sadly, most of the time we pay attention to the eyes of others. Laurent's father said: "They are going to laugh to death. I was so stupid when I told them about my grandson." "It's shameful that others will laugh at us if they know it." Why do we first think about what other people think of, and what other people have to do with our lives. Just like Laurent's cousin's mother said: "Don't worry about what others say, we are not living with outsiders, but with our son. When you have no son, they won't come to be your son."
We like to listen to other people’s comments on ourselves, but for some people, those comments may just be unintentional and they won’t pay anything for it, so why should we be so brooding. We all know that life is not easy, but I don’t agree with Laurent’s approach. He can choose to escape, but he cannot choose to deceive. To a certain extent, he also hurts the girl who helped him. In this regard, He is also selfish. It is impossible for one person to give so much for another person, unless she loves him, but he does not take it seriously.
The other point is Laurent's identification with his identity. It is undesirable for him to degenerate himself because of his cousin's experience. In fact, we are not very different. Existence is reasonable. It is another matter that others cannot understand that, but you yourself cannot resist such an identity. We are all angry, why do we encounter such a thing, but when we encounter it, we encounter it. We can't change it and can only accept it.
Finally, Laurent said to his father: "I love him, I fell in love with a man, Dad, it's not your fault, nor my fault, it's not a problem of homosexuality or heterosexuality, it's just a problem of love."
Yes, it's just a matter of love. If we can choose, we also hope that we can feel the beauty of life on the street by holding the hand of our lover in the clear day, but life sometimes leaves us no choice. We love others, wrong ourselves for others, cover ourselves, but when the truth is announced, what we get, that slap completely negates our previous efforts, so what is the meaning of our love.
After learning the truth, the four adults showed everything clearly. You are talking about love, so what do you love, is your child's happiness, or the so-called face. We are not saints, but I think it is necessary to see the focus of some things clearly. I am very happy. In the end, Laurent's parents slowly realized the place of love, but how many people can truly understand that the movie is sometimes just a hope.
Life is our own, and others say with sympathy like Cédric's mother: You have to endure so much pain at a young age. I think we will still wrong ourselves like Laurent, because we love those who love us, we are not ourselves, we can’t forget our responsibilities, but if possible, if we have to, I also hope that we can fight for our love. To a place of survival, even if only love grows.
Original author: guysay
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