Worship is not love~

Monica 2022-01-22 08:03:22

I like Sarah's clothes inside, very elegant, very intellectual, and very cute. I must admit that at the beginning of the film, I was a little bit resisted, thinking it was another cliché movie that flew on a branch and turned into a phoenix. But after enduring the 80-minute disgust of the elderly Alek’s pear blossoms pressed against the begonias, I have to admit that the ending of the film brought me joy.
Yes, we have all loved old men, or, we have all loved those who are beyond our reach. In order to maintain our attraction to them, we play the cards in the way they like, and even induce them. However, they are just passersby who prove our charm. As Sara said in the movie: He makes me feel better!
But that is not love~
I admit the beautiful part of it, a joy of worship and being admired, a reliance when oneself is not strong enough, and? Others are always others and have nothing to do with them!
When you mistake worship for love, your heart will hurt, and you will blame yourself for not knowing what you are doing! Honey, it's just because you are not strong enough! The old man can love you, be affectionate to you, and even propose to you! But it's just a possession, selfish possession, possessing you, he thinks he is young!
When Sara was about to lose her father, she felt a sense of strength and a sense of mission. Only to let her father no longer worry about herself was the right choice. It can be said that she finally chose to leave without any guilt, but a real and peaceful choice!
If she and him will be happy, even if her father is not there, she will still choose him!
As the film approaches the end, my heart beats so fast! I am afraid, afraid that Sara is not strong enough, will transfer dependence on her father to acrylic! After watching the last scene, I let out a long sigh of relief, she was right!
Happiness or unhappiness is not for others, but for knowing that this is not what I want!
the end is the beginning, I never get my own answer, but between this end he beginning, I know I will no longer be lost!

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  • Darrion 2022-04-22 07:01:49

    @Tumoto said that the best role for an old man is probably to help girls grow up, don't imagine anything else. Sure enough... old man, it is suffering! 12, 10, 2

  • Reva 2022-04-23 07:04:16

    Having an old boyfriend is like having a cheat sheet in life, he knows the right answer to everything.

Suburban Girl quotes

  • Archie Knox: Take as much time as you need.

    Brett Eisenberg: I will.

    Archie Knox: But don't forget that I need you too. More than I've ever needed anybody before.

    [starts to drive away and then reverses to be next to her again]

    Archie Knox: Because you may not think so, but you're different.

    Brett Eisenberg: From all the rest?

    [Archie nods and drives away]

  • Robert Eisenberg: Is Archie alcoholic?

    Brett Eisenberg: Yeah

    Robert Eisenberg: Look, you know I don't like to get involved in your life. But this is the reason that I don't... That I'm worried about this relationship with this man. If Archie isn't going to take care of himself someone else will. I don't want you to have to spend your life that way.