When an otaku hides at home and plays dota, his social experience with the opposite sex is almost zero, so when he faces an 8-point girl who is dealing with all kinds of men every day, he is completely at a disadvantage both psychologically and emotionally. . In the eyes of an 8-point girl, his thoughts and behaviors are very naive, and his ambitions are obvious, which makes him laugh, as if he stabs a big "dry" word on his face but pretends to be nonchalant.
Before Nine Knives did not succeed, he was a silly boy who had little certainty to catch up to an 8-point girl. To put it in a more popular term recently, he is very DLV (low value), which can be described as "hanging silk". But junior high school girls are no better than the social butterflies outside the fence. Their qualifications are still low, their psychological desires are very low, and they are not accustomed to the various gestures of boys to the degree of numbness. At this time, it is Diaosi's only chance to get 8 points in her life. What a pity, let us see how this child paper is made?
When the 8-point girl kept giving IOI (indicator of interest), he hesitated repeatedly and missed the opportunity to upgrade the relationship in time. Ke Jingteng did very well at first. Among the boys, he acted like a male leader, although he had established a deep-rooted impression of "thorny head". But shortly afterwards, he unexpectedly replaced Shen Jiayi and was punished. This contrast constituted a subtle "backlash". Whether in literary drama or film and television works, "backlash" has always been an excellent means to enhance the charm of characters. For example, we see the killer Leon, who treats bad guys mercilessly and with all his might. He treated the little girl with extra warmth and kindness; for example, the famous "common knowledge" Han Han was eloquent when he wrote an article, and his literary talent was brilliant, but he looked like a hunk when he started racing, and was swift and fast. This reversal attracted Ke Jingteng's attention and attracted Shen Jiayi's good wishes one after another. Ke Jingteng also knew each other. The two of you came and went, and the atmosphere became more and more ambiguous. At this time, what should our lovely boys do?
To upgrade the relationship, you must upgrade the relationship.
If you don’t upgrade the relationship, the pot of water will cool down and lose the possibility of boiling! Girls rarely take the initiative to upgrade their relationship, especially for high-scoring women, this possibility is almost zero. So as a man, it is your responsibility to take the initiative to upgrade your relationship, and you must be brave enough to take responsibility. How to upgrade the relationship? Physical contact: hold hands, kiss, and proceed in an orderly manner step by step. When MM has a good impression of you, she will definitely look forward to it. But Ke Jingteng was persuaded and forced, constantly grumbling and struggling on some innocuous issues. In the end, the two graduated sadly without any substantial relationship, and separated the two places ever since.
Long-distance relationship is a very hard thing, because you can't meet each other often, and the most important thing for sex interaction is face-to-face interaction. SMS calls and the Internet are all auxiliary means. If you can't sit together, everything is watching the moon in the water and looking at the flowers in the mirror. During this period, the emotional string that connects both parties is very fragile and will break at any time. At this moment, the man should be more active and firm. However, Ke Jingteng, who was boring, did a second thing. When they were dating on Christmas, they took the initiative to give up the opportunity to let the girls express their hearts. There is no doubt that all this comes from his cowardly mentality. Dare to face reality and ashamed to bear the consequences. As a man, one should take it as a bounden duty to lead the process of a relationship. Instead of curling up behind one's humble self-esteem at every critical moment and pushing the responsibility to the woman, this is not only a naive behavior, it is a crime!
As for the fighting match, in my opinion, it is already insignificant. Because of Ke Jingteng's grinding, no matter whether there is that tragic rain in the end, it will be a matter of time before the two have a relationship. Life is not a movie, and the beauty in a movie is nothing in life. The relationship between the sexes is like a battle. No matter whether the nine swords are accepted or not, Ke Jingteng and Shen Jiayi are losers in this battle. The real winner is only Shen Jiayi's husband. This guy may not be as tall and mature as in the movie, but he is brave and determined enough to grasp the most wonderful scenery in the fleeting morning light.
Love is always a game for the brave.
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