First love is so beautiful because we are not destroyed by reality

Zack 2022-03-08 08:01:07

At the beginning of the story, I thought Suzy really just treated Lee Je Hoon as an ordinary friend, a comfortable friend. Because there are many beautiful girls who will have such a good friend, although in the end even the boy can't tell whether his relationship with her is friendship or love. Anyway, they only had one result, the girl found someone better than him to be with. In the end, they may be friends, or they may forget each other.
And Li Jixun is also a sensitive age and period. The part in the car reminded me of a girl who liked a boy and tried her best to approach him. Slowly the two became friends, and finally the boy fell in love with her, just after the boy confessed. But the girl hesitated to be with him because her best friend mocked the boy for wearing the same pair of sneakers all year round.
I thought of a story like that, and the part in the car I don't like Suzy's character because her vanity hurts someone who really loves her. But it was later discovered that it was during this period that the boy threw the car door away, and Suzy realized that she might have fallen in love with the boy.
Sensitive youth and ignorance... But it is when we are so sensitive and hurt by the impact of reality that we become our later selves.
The iron gate that was kicked crookedly, the pool where the footprints were stepped on, and the red wall with the height mark printed on it, carrying the joy and sadness of growing up, lost in the years. Just like the subject of that semester, it carried their first love.
And Suzy after that became much cuter, but they were destined to go to different places from the beginning. Although Ruiying likes Seungmin, she sometimes reveals to Seungmin what she wants in life, and Seungmin can't give all that. Although Shengmin is also intoxicated by her life imagination, life is cruel after all. I'm assuming that even if they were together then, they would have broken up due to various reality conflicts. On the contrary, it seems a little beautiful to be separated because of such a misunderstanding.
Girls have never understood the reason for breaking up. This is the difference between men and women. Men will hate women who hurt him for a lifetime. So from the first love in his mouth, there is no praise. And a woman will care about a man who leaves suddenly, and will think that it is her favorite.
If someone hated Seo Young at first and wanted to get back with Seungmin, I think if you were Seo Young, maybe you would feel the same way. Because Shengmin was her first love and first kiss, and he used to be so good to her, but he left her for no reason. No matter how much love and marriage she experienced, she would still care about that person who left without a reason. His first love, and that first love had promised her to realize her dream when she was young.
I can make a wicked guess, when Seungmin found out that he was also Seo Young's first love, after kissing, it wouldn't be as simple as just kissing...Korean dramas always have some very nice treatments...
Seungmin insisted on staying. Next, rebuild the house, completely in my expectation and so on. Ruiying wanted to be a radio DJ, married a rich man, but never thought about failing the exam or getting a divorce; Shengmin wanted to do architecture and build a house, but never thought about the thirty-something who is still working hard to make the design the client wanted. Roll around in life.
Although I can't go back, I always want to fill in something for those regrets, for myself, for my young and ignorant self. Fulfill those first best dreams.
But if it's more realistic to guess, doesn't Shengmin have a little selfishness? But he told Ruiying from the beginning that he didn't have a girlfriend, and in the end it was the woman who intuitively sensed the subtle girlfriend and said everything. The reason for "it's not very convenient in the company" was clearly revealed at the end. They quarreled over the redesign of the house, but the colleague next to him said calmly, "I'll do the design, and you guys are planning to get married."
Shengmin, don't you have a little bit of selfishness when you see that Ruiying, who is still beautiful and moving? I don't believe it at all, it's just that you are a pragmatic person and a person with restraint. In the face of the first love that I once loved deeply, I already know that I can't give anything, but I still can't help but want to know everything about you and leave you with the original promise. The reason why first love is beautiful is that we who live in the age of innocence have not been destroyed by reality, and there is no obstacle to the future of fantasy.
At the end of the song, everyone dispersed, the house retains the past memories and carries new memories, and each other starts a new life.

Ps: I saw someone leave a message later saying that Shengmin pretended not to recognize Ruiying. I went back and looked at it again. It was exactly as everyone said. Thank you for your correction.

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  • Danny 2022-03-17 09:01:10

    Thinking of the pure first love in those days, and now the reunion after fifteen years, the two narrative lines are advancing in parallel and complementing each other. The past has paved the way for the reasonable details of the present, and it has also added so many regrets to the reality. When I was young, love was destroyed by childishness and immaturity. Many years later, love was destroyed by reality and responsibility. No one's fault, it's not the reality of the dog's blood, right? ★★★★

  • Kimberly 2022-03-15 09:01:11

    I am here because of the title