As far as the story is concerned, of course, this kind of incident will not only happen to elderly couples; middle-aged, young, and even teenagers, as long as their boyfriends have ex-girlfriends, seem to avoid watching this movie. Or to borrow the words of a roommate: "It is estimated that halfway through watching this, there will be a quarrel." Of course, with the 45th anniversary, the film has a slight sense of heaviness. If an ex-girlfriend appeared to disrupt the situation in his youth, it would have been a landslide and crying. There is also no peace between the elderly couple, the calm and unobstructed prying and questioning. Therefore, when dealing with the plot, it highlights the director's skill.
At the beginning of the movie, the interaction between the words of the two people's lives made me exclaim: "The marriage has been so sweet for so long." However, with the interpretation of the letter and the acquaintance of the deceased ex-girlfriend unfolded by the grandfather, the process of falling in love with each other. , slowly disintegrating the sweetness that goes deep into life, grandma became uneasy and curious, and then listened to the story and went to the attic to look at the photos, so all suspicion broke out, and she questioned everything that could be questioned, such as the decisions made in life, go to Where to go on vacation, which book to read, which breed of dog to choose, even the music you listen to, and of course important events, all because of the late Katya. In the end, grandma said in the dark, "I thought I could hear you talk about her, but I can't." I felt really pitiful in my heart. The ex-girlfriend is really stuck in the throat. It's useless to be jealous!
Saturday is our 45th wedding anniversary. From Monday to Friday, the smell of gunpowder between the two became more and more intense. During the period, the big and small incidents were sudden, either dull or sweet, forbearance, or killed by memories, but the director was slowly accumulating to prevent the outbreak, which made us all the audience anxious. Two things were echoed back and forth on the anniversary day. One was that after grandma and her friend had a party at the restaurant (especially after seeing the photo of her friend's little grandson), she came home and mentioned the photo to her grandfather. Personal photos are not interesting. But now, I still feel a little regretful." Grandpa then asked, what kind of photos do you want? Grandma said like when Max was a kid, or Tessa before Max, or, you, you're tinkering with Clitheroe with a hammer in your hand ready to nail a nail or something. Another thing is that grandma's friend mentioned the fact that at the party on her and her husband's wedding anniversary, her husband shed tears after reading a long speech. The disgust in his tone was somewhat ostentatious, which made grandma. I was a little worried that my husband would also cry. Later, on Saturday, my grandfather was very "attentive". (My roommate and I have always suspected that this was a "return to the light" before my grandfather left.) I made tea early in the morning, walked Max with my grandma, and gave me a necklace. Dressed up for the anniversary. Grandma's friend gave a surprise. Many photos of grandpa and grandma were collected from mutual friends and decorated as a photo wall, which triggered a lot of memories and discussions; then grandpa lived up to everyone's expectations and continued to say "I love you, I love you so much." and shed tears.
After the whole movie, I didn't look forward to Happy Ending at all. So when grandpa and grandma danced the first dance at their wedding 45 years ago, and when grandma threw her hand away at the end, I was os for grandma in my heart. Cool!
Finally, I want to say, if you are still in love, don't watch this movie. This kind of movie can reflect its meaning if it is reserved for single dogs. For example, my colleagues who have been married for more than ten years and have two children say "Stay single!" to me every day. Salt, after 7 years to relieve itching, survive the mid-life crisis, let go of yourself and your lover to live a sweet every day. Be pure when you are young, and love whoever you are when you are old. But if grandma held back like this for 90 minutes and felt that she really couldn't play anymore, she simply waved her hand and said that you can do whatever you want, and that's fine!
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