* Regarding separation
I think J knows exactly what he wants and will work hard until he gets it (as his mother said), he loves B but doesn't want to change him because that's B, that's what he loves the B. Life is like this, two lines that were originally unrelated, intersected, then separated, and continued to move in their respective directions. I think their result should be to prove a classic law about love, the person you love most is usually not the one who can go to the end with you. The separation of B and J can only be said that they have maturely chosen their respective life trajectories. I think B is more lonely than J.
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If B is a god, then J is the god of B, just like "Ganimede" As with "Zeus", the wandering gods can get anyone they want, man or woman, but only the drinking boy Ganymede dare not have any unreasonable thoughts, because he is the love of Zeus The boy, it is said that the angry Zeus will withdraw his anger in the presence of Ganymede, cautiously like a restless lover, in order to keep Ganymede in heaven, he even took the position of his own daughter (this position was originally It belongs to the goddess of youth, Hebe, who gave it to Ganymede. In fact, it was not Helen who really caused the Trojan War, but the jealousy of Hebe's mother and queen Hera caused by Zeus' over-favoring of Ganymede. .
However, this is not to say how much B loves J, more I think it should be B's worship and thirst for "youth" and the energy it brings. I think the history of this worship can be traced back to ancient Greece. Whether it is a realistic Olympic competition or a classical myth that has traditionally run through Western civilization, all of them reflect this desire.
B is the king who deserves it, at least on that street, like in his PUB, he is the only one who can be on the dance floor with the GUY FUCK he sees, others don't have this privilege. Attracted by his kingly demeanor (remember the first episode of B carrying J back to school), he is hopelessly infatuated with B. This is a bit similar to a son's worship of his father, because he does not learn from his own father Got the guidance and role model it deserves there, so in a way B took the role of the father, and at this point I suddenly jumped out another word, father murder. And and, of course, not that serious pull, but I feel the last season , especially the last few episodes, the power of J, I mean in the relationship with B, the control over the relationship between the two and the status of each other is increasing, we say that in any relationship there will be a "right". For the issue of contention, two people will start a series of battles over the control and ownership of "right" until a more stable model is established. In fact, the subtle changes in the relationship between the two can be seen from many details. As far as the mastery of MAKE SEX is concerned, at first, J was only a passive acceptor, and later he was an active acceptor. Later, he began to ask for equality and to change roles with B. In one episode, when J expressed his wishes, B was a little surprised and hesitant, so J fulfilled his wishes in a gentle but firm way. However, the most obvious thing should be J's attitude when B proposed marriage for the first time, contrary to the expectations of B and J's mother, J calmly and indifferently rejected B.
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