Is life a fatalism?

Lexi 2021-11-23 19:53:43

I still remember the movie I went to the cinema to watch when I was abroad, because I licked Channing Tatum's face. This morning I talked about the Pure Love movie with my girlfriend, and remembered this one, so I reviewed it again.

Very warm and romantic.

Let me talk about Leo first. At first, he hoped that Paige would remember all of this, and then adjusted his strategy to try to make Paige fall in love with him. Love him, but Paige can only start to like Leo, and finally Leo gave up. Although it is regrettable, it was actually an extremely correct decision at that point in time: Paige needs time to find who he is, and Leo also It takes time to recognize Paige's change. He was gentle and meticulous towards Paige, but at the same time there was no lack of rigidity. Facing the hypocritical father-in-law, he explained his cowardice and chose to punch back in the face of Jeremy's provocation. In reality, it's hard to meet a perfect man like Leo. The manifestation of his love for Paige is that he is willing to use all methods to retrieve their love for the memory that disappeared together. Even if he attends parties that don’t fit him, he is still willing to try to show himself for Paige and not embarrass everyone; even if he knows why Paige left home, he still chooses not to tell her the chilling truth and get Paige’s love ; Even though he loves Paige deeply, he knows what is really good for Paige and still signs the divorce agreement. He fulfilled his vows that year, even if accidents, amnesia, parents, ex-fiance, everything tried to separate the two of them, he tried his best to protect their love.

Let's talk about Paige. For many people, what she did may be a bit irritating, but as I said before, the starting point for both sides is different. Leo loves Paige too deeply, and Paige regards Leo as a stranger. After the car accident, she remembered that point in time that she was enjoying the love of her family and was thinking of the other him in her heart. In fact, she also knows Leo's deep love for her, but this kind of love is a great burden for her at this time, especially when Leo has worked hard, she sees it, but does not give Leo what she is When expecting a response. That's why she finally said that she didn't want to let him down anymore. Paige really worked hard. Although she wanted to reunite with her parents and sister, she still chose to go home with Leo after she was discharged from the hospital. Although she was more devoted to Jeremy, she still chose to be with Leo in the face of his sincere invitation. Dating; Although she refused to go to winter swimming in her heart, she didn't want to break Leo's arrangement and chose to try bravely. Although the memory is missing, the things in Paige's bones have not changed. She was independent and dared to love and hate. Not only did this accident not change her life drastically, but instead chose to reconcile with her family, and to some extent she became a better herself. She actually traveled her vows back then. She has always used her patience to tolerate Leo and get along with this husband who is extremely strange to him.

I really like the end of the story. When Paige asked whether to go to the Cuban restaurant he had been going to before, Leo thought about it and suggested that he should find a new one. The memory is beautiful, but sometimes if you don't deliberately search for it, starting anew will give the two a better future. Although Paige never found her memory again, she found herself, her family, her career, and her feelings for Leo.

Finally, except for the part of love, this story also made me think: Is there fatalism in life? Paige was given a second chance to choose again. When she made a completely different choice, after going through the right and wrong, she finally went back and forth and returned to the previous track. But Zai another thought, this is just a movie. Even if it is based on real people and real events, I personally guess that the composition of the adaptation is still very large. In reality, Paige should not have experienced so many changes. She may have accepted this setting after waking up, and may not have the courage to go. A completely different life. The same is true for us. Don’t always think about what it would be like if you made another decision. I don't know whether there is fatalism in life, but I believe that as long as you work hard to live this life, no matter where your fate points, it will be beautiful.

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  • Rachelle 2021-11-23 19:53:43

    It doesn't have to rain to break up, and you don't need to kiss when you are together. But this little romantic movie is so moving.

  • Jeanette 2022-04-23 07:01:36

    Similar to Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, but cannot be surpassed. Two stars for Rachel & Channing's eyes, one star for inspired by a true story. For the 2nd round, so far away I can hardly make you mine. Though u never regain ur memory, let's have a fresh start.

The Vow quotes

  • Leo: Life's all about moments, of impact and how they changes our lives forever. But what if one day you could no longer remember any of them?

  • Leo: How do you look at the woman you love, and tell yourself that its time to walk away?