From an insignificant sentence, women are so imaginative, using their special thinking to deduce step by step-you don't love me. Men always feel innocent and helpless, and in the end, no matter how good their temper is, they are irritated by women's excessive words. Little lovers who have been in love and quarreling will certainly not be unfamiliar with such a scene. Finally, after the man slammed the door, the woman became sober again and regained her senses, knowing that she had just passed. At this time, the man opened the door and said, "Can I come in now?", and the two began to kiss and apologize. Ha ha, aren't all women the same? Because of a man’s unintentional words, he suddenly became angry, and then he quarreled with you madly. You can say that they are crazy, irrational, and careful, but you have to admit that such a woman always makes you love and love again. hatred. You know how cute this kind of woman is compared to the women in "Shuang Shi Ji". In fact, when arguing, it is best for a man to let a woman emit the fire in his heart. After she is angry, she will be fine. You can hold it again. She said "I love you", "I really love you", "I only love you one in my life" and so on. She is behaved. A woman is such an ideal and emotional animal. Even if the reason tells her that most love ends without a disease, it is all nonsense, but when she is in love, she still prefers to believe "Maybe this is my MR RIGHT".
2. When watching this film, my emotional ups and downs were not big, I just kept thinking, if a man who has known me and been with me for more than 10 years suddenly passes away, do I need it or do I want to be like Gerry in the movie? That way of love. Some people said that Gerry used the letter to guide her and encourage her to live a normal life one year after his death. It was immoral because he made her rely on him and couldn't get out of his shadow. The ending of the story is that she came out. There are three major sorrows in life-teenage bereavement, middle-aged widow, and old bereavement. This film is about middle-aged widows and the great tragedy of life. When they got married, which couple did not enter the marriage temple with the idea of "holding the son and taking the old with the son"? However, that person can only accompany you halfway, what about the rest of the journey of life? I will not talk about love here for the time being, I will talk about habit. Just like the woman in the film, she is used to being hugged by a man from behind when she sleeps, she is accustomed to the way he is busy washing in the morning, he is accustomed to his temperature and his love. . . . . When her mother recalled the loss of her husband, she also said, "I am used to him always making me laugh, and I am used to him coming over to touch you and holding your hand in crowded occasions to prove that you are his." So 1 The recovery period of years is not long, it was a letter from him that led her out of the haze, just as he held her hand before his death.
In fact, holding hands is very important to a woman. When you are willing to hold your hands to a man, it is also when you can trust yourself to him. You feel like you have a piece of heaven on your head. He has protected you from the wind and rain. Holding his hand when crossing the road, you can even close your eyes safely. So, I think I need guidance like Gerry, which is at least an emotional buffer. I even thought that maybe Wang Yuanhua said "the world is no longer fascinating" because of the death of Mr. Zhang Ke. Of course, this is just my own guess, because I did not verify whether Mr. Zhang Ke was still alive when he said this. Perhaps he was simply disappointed with academics and the current cultural situation.
3. Continue to talk about their quarrel. Gerry asked Holly, "What on earth do you want, a big house, a child, please tell me? I know I have what I want. What about you, please tell me." She panicked and angry, just as she was to Daniel afterwards Said: "A woman never knows what she wants." In this quarrel, I saw two problems. One is that poor couples are sad. They fell in love since their romantic Irish encounter at the age of 19. They have been married for more than ten years. Still quarreling about the house and the children, to put it bluntly, it's about the money. Does Plato's spiritual love exist in reality? Have! But the number is extremely limited. I even cruelly thought, if Gerry did not die and the investment failed, and instead of making money, he owed a debt, would they just finish the fight like this time? I find it difficult to say. Love always appears precious and great when it is lost, and in many cases the dimension of love is magnified by temporary sadness.
Furthermore, the phrase "women never know what they want" reveals the commonality of women's "confused" personality. I once said to my boyfriend, "A woman is a book, thin or thick, read carefully, can always read a lot of charm", since reading this "book", you will be able to realize a lot of ways. I believe that Gerry really understood the "book", so the person who really appreciates her is Gerry. He knows that she can always surprise people, so he let her sing on stage. He knows that her current job is not suitable for her. , So let her resign. What is the result? Her demeanor after taking the stage surprised her close friends. After she resigned, she finally found a job that suits her. I believe that every woman has a shining point, but in many cases, the person who discovers your light first and guides your transformation must be the person who understands you. Looking at it from another side, this movie also shows that women, especially "confused" women, especially need a strong-minded partner to guide them.
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