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I watched a movie "Crazy Rich Asians" last week, and I didn't like the name, as if the heroine finally got the consummation of love through extreme luck, like picking up gold. In fact, the heroine finally married into a wealthy family, it was luck and a natural result.
The film tells the story of a Chinese-American female economics professor who was born in the United States and attended a friend's wedding with her boyfriend, only to find out that her boyfriend turned out to be the "Diamond King Five" , and the heroine accepted the concealment of her boyfriend's wealthy family background. However, the arrogant mother-in-law hindered her in every possible way, and did not want ordinary women to marry into the family.
As a fatherless, lowly born Cinderella, how did she keep her dignity in front of her future mother-in-law?
First of all, in the face of her mother-in-law's strong rejection, the heroine, like all ordinary girls, chose to be sad and escape at first, but she was well educated and did not allow herself to escape problems like this. She wanted to regain her lost dignity.
While watching this episode, I was taken aback by the heroine's wit and self-esteem. I have been thinking, in real life, you really meet a boyfriend and mother who is higher than yourself and force you to let go, what will you do?
Here's how the heroine responds to the embarrassing situation:
The heroine chose not to embarrass her boyfriend, she quit first, and told her boyfriend's mother, "I will let your son marry a daughter-in-law that satisfies you in the future." This sentence is too domineering, - no I can't marry into your family, but I disdain to fight with you. Not only expressing his true love, but also saving his face.
It is true that the heroine's self-confidence has a lot to do with her higher education background. She graduated from a well-known university and worked as a university professor. Such high quality and status are enough to make her not inferior, not timid, and open to pursuit. Love.
Girls always have troubles, either because of their background or family background. If they always pay attention to these external conditions, it is difficult to integrate into various groups of people. So love yourself, independence, self-esteem, and self-confidence are always the best qualities of a girl.
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