When I first opened in treatment, I watched 6 episodes in one go, and then decided to skip to watch Alex's full story first.
Alex is a pilot who feels powerful and aggressive at first meeting, an elite character.
If it wasn't for the manslaughter incident, perhaps his life would be as strong and carefree as his father expected, even though the pain was suppressed subconsciously. Or maybe it will eventually break out because of other unspecified things.
There is a saying: People who have a happy childhood use their childhood to heal their whole life; those who have an unhappy childhood use their whole life to heal their childhood.
After Alex's death, his father came to the consultation room. At first, he complained to the consultant why he should dig out and examine what people don't need to face. To be honest, I also thought: "Is it necessary? Look inside? Those problems that have been forgotten. The problems in my father's mind feel more than Alex's. Isn't it good to live to 70 years old". But think about it again, isn't it the result of these causes and effects that the father's white-haired people send black-haired people. Alex is sensitive and has a tendency to look inward, so he stepped in the door of a counselor. As for my father, he should seldom look inward. As a black man, his living environment as a child and the trauma of killing his father with his own hands cannot face it. He can only bury it and tell himself: I have no guilt, guilt is what white people should do, We can't afford it. When he finally cried and said, "To make Alex stronger, it's not his needs, it's my needs, I'm pushing him too hard", then he shed tears, for Alex, for his father, for this merciless reincarnation , and perhaps for myself.
Now that popular psychology has gradually become popular, people are talking more about the family of origin, and many people on the Internet will speak bluntly and resentfully when they talk about the family of origin. But I was thinking, what happens after the resentment? How can we make ourselves a little happier within the limits of our ability when we cannot change the general environment? Only resentment is definitely not enough.
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