How to keep children from telling lies

Nakia 2021-11-12 08:01:24

Lying is a common bad behavior among children. It is not an accident, but a necessity. In order to effectively educate children who love to lie, I think one or several of the following countermeasures can be adopted according to the actual situation: 1. Set an example and demonstrate by example. It is said that parents are the children's first teachers, and children are the mirror of parents. From the many behaviors and habits of the children and even their personalities, the general character of the parents can be known. Some parents who love to lie to their children, through contact, found that they also like to speak big words. This requires us to remind these parents not to speak big words in front of their children, but to pay attention to their words and deeds in front of their children. If something is not done properly, you should correct it in time and set a good example for your child. At the same time, if you see your child is lying, you should help correct it in time and tell your child the harm of lying. In the same way, as a teacher, you should teach by example and set a good example for your children. The promises made to the children must be fulfilled in order to make no distinctions and treat them equally. Only in this way can we persuade children who like to lie and correct their bad habits. 2. Be less scolding and more tolerant. Many children who lie have a common problem, that is, they are afraid of being scolded by their parents and teachers after they make a mistake, and they choose to lie in order to avoid the scolding of their elders. Therefore, it is necessary for parents and teachers to be more tolerant to their children after clarifying the reasons why their children lied. When making mistakes, children must go through the process of growing up. This requires us to give more care and tolerance, accompany the children to face the mistakes, and jointly correct the mistakes. And not like many parents nowadays, after learning that their children have made mistakes, they are indiscriminately scolded or even beaten. Without the scruples of blaming or beating or scolding, children will naturally not think of avoiding scolding and lying. Remember, there was a student in the class who always didn't teach homework, and asked him why he didn't hand in the homework, either he didn't remember the content of the homework or he forgot to bring it. Every time he said he called the parent to send it, he said he didn't write. Later, I learned that if the teacher knew that he didn't write, he would definitely be punished; the parents knew that they would definitely be beaten, so the teacher deceived the parents. Later, after communicating with the child’s parents, I decided to change the previous education method to help this student get rid of the habit of lying. After a period of help, there is a certain effect, but this is an arduous process and needs to be continuously strengthened. 3. Help children establish correct values Because elementary school students’ self-values ​​are easily influenced by many parties in the formation, especially the parents’ right and wrong views and values ​​have the greatest impact on children. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their usual performance. Don't always talk about money, power and other issues in front of your children. These will have some bad effects on your children and influence the formation of correct values ​​for your children. I remember that there was a child in the class that was not very popular with everyone, so the child thought of a way to get friendship with money. He said that whoever played with him would give him money and help whoever buys things. This is a deformed view of friendship, thinking that money can get everything, including friendship. This kind of thinking is wrong and needs to be corrected in time. Therefore, it is very important to help children establish correct values ​​to prevent children from going astray. The habit of lying is not formed in a day, nor can it be changed in a day. This is a long-term and arduous task that requires us to give our children a little more care, more tolerance, and less punishment. I believe there will be unexpected results. Excerpted from "A little progress every day: Answering 100 Questions for Young Chinese Teachers in Primary Schools"

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  • Russell 2021-11-12 08:01:24

    It’s a cute story that always reminds me of seeing my father playing with the cockroach blaster when I was a child. The last wish I realized was to become a real little boy.

  • Russell 2022-04-20 09:01:34

    Did you not hear this story as a child?

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