Stumbled all the way just for...

Casimer 2021-11-15 08:01:27

On the night of Halloween on October 31st, the wind and rain were raging. I made a mistake. To some extent, it was a big anger at my friend's betrayal. Later I discovered that it was just my distrust of her, and it was because of my own willfulness that it caused such a result. My friend came to comfort me and mentioned "Guess Love". She was telling the plot, and I cried and listened intermittently, not paying much attention to her evaluation and opinions.
After reading it for the first time, the initial impression is: a series of complicated views on love between men and women-men and women, men and women, and women and women. Regardless of the standard concept of love between men and women, homosexuality is also popular. Love has nothing to do with sex. Because of the special experience of the heroine Alysee, she did not believe in the love between men and women, but always thought that she was gay, until she met Holden. At the climax of the movie, she clearly expressed this truth emotion. The end of the film did not say whether they were together or not, but when they met a year later, from their eyes, the viewers could still feel the love between them.
Maybe love has nothing to do with sex, sex, age, marriage. It is a collision of minds, a kind of interdependence of minds. Therefore, it is not easy to find someone who can love each other, and marriage, a man and a woman connected by a marriage book, spend the remaining half of their life, it is very simple.
Along the way, we stumbled, all we did was guess, find, and love.

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  • Pedro 2022-04-21 09:01:47

    An unexpected surprise, it turns out that the geek director can still be so affectionate when talking about love, and the self-righteous words of the characters are all to cover up the emptiness and fragility of the heart. Boys are still emotionally naive to death, girls can be your mother, don't let your mother down.

  • Mozelle 2021-11-15 08:01:27

    I don’t know when I’ve watched this film. I’d better kneel down. Ben Affleck. You’d better go back to be the director.

Chasing Amy quotes

  • Banky Edwards: Now *that*, my friend, is a shared moment.

  • Alyssa: Why are we stopping?

    Holden: 'Cause I can't take this.

    Alyssa: Can't take what?

    Holden: I love you.

    Alyssa: You love me?

    Holden: I love you. And not, not in a friendly way, although I think we're great friends. And not in a misplaced affection, puppy-dog way, although I'm sure that's what you'll call it. I love you. Very, very simple, very truly. You are the-the epitome of everything I have ever looked for in another human being. And I know that you think of me as just a friend, and crossing that line is-is-is the furthest thing from an option you would ever consider. But I had to say it. I just, I can't take this anymore. I can't stand next to you without wanting to hold you. I can't-I can't look into your eyes without feeling that-that longing you only read about in trashy romance novels. I can't talk to you without wanting to express my love for everything you are. And I know this will probably queer our friendship - no pun intended - but I had to say it, 'cause I've never felt this way before, and I-I don't care. I like who I am because of it. And if bringing this to light means we can't hang out anymore, then that hurts me. But God, I just, I couldn't allow another day to go by without just getting it out there, regardless of the outcome, which by the look on your face is to be the inevitable shoot-down. And, you know, I'll accept that. But I know, I know that some part of you is hesitating for a moment, and if there's a moment of hesitation, then that means you feel something too. And all I ask, please, is that you just - you just not dismiss that, and try to dwell in it for just ten seconds. Alyssa, there isn't another soul on this fucking planet who has ever made me half the person I am when I'm with you, and I would risk this friendship for the chance to take it to the next plateau. Because it is there between you and me. You can't deny that. Even if, you know, even if we never talk again after tonight, please know that I am forever changed because of who you are and what you've meant to me, which - while I do appreciate it - I'd never need a painting of birds bought at a diner to remind me of.