When we are young, we don’t know what love is

Earnestine 2021-11-28 08:01:19

When I was young, I didn’t understand why most girls liked older men instead of young boys of my age. Now I understand that both men and women in adolescence are vain, and they begin to have self-esteem and pursue a little material enjoyment. , And old men can satisfy both of them well. And they can easily mistakenly think that this is love, and this is the real life they will experience sooner or later. In fact, this is far from love. In real life, there are more ups and downs, giving and rewarding, to get true happiness and true love.

When you were young, who never had the experience of being robbed of love by others? When I was in college, I had a buddy who lost love three times in four years, and every time his girlfriend was taken away by "social figures". Even a few years after I graduated, I went to CUHK for an MBA class. A corner of the beautifully dimly lit campus of CUHK was filled with various famous cars. Seeing girls with long legs and long hair got in, the cars drove away. NS. Needless to say, those are tall, handsome and rich. At that time, penniless and holding the world, I was cynical and could not help but chant a poem by the Zhongda Lake: I have a long history, it is inevitable to see beautiful women love SB, it is inevitable to see flowers inserted in cow dung, it is inevitable to see good The cabbage is dominated by pigs....

When I gradually grow up, I know the suffering of the world, and also understand how extravagant love is. So, if you were still in high school, in college, or just working, There is a girl who loves you, which means that you, like Ni Zhen said Zhou Huimin, "know in the slightest time", you must know how to cherish, because this kind of love is very ignorant, simple, and non-utilitarian. And she doesn't know yet that she is in love with a SB, or knowing that she still loves a SB. For the girls, it is strongly recommended that you all go and watch this "Girls Paradise Lost".

Young men in their teens and 20s, whether ordinary, second-B, or literary, are all pure SB. They look non-mainstream, arrogant and self-righteous, cynical and mentally disabled. They don’t know how to help girls pull chairs when eating (of course, Lu There are no chairs to pull on the side stalls), will not use umbrellas when walking on the street, will not be baptized by heavy reality, will not understand girls’ minds, will not be considerate, and will not lower her eyebrows and be pleasing to the eye when necessary, and will not sullen her breath. Well, maybe not everyone is like this, you are all masters of picking up girls, I am talking about myself.

At this time, it is a natural phenomenon in line with the scientific concept of development that you are robbed of love by an old man. Don't be sad or complain. Read the poem by Shi Zhi: Believe in the future. You will become an old man in the future.

The old man used to walk through the sea, through the thousands of flowers, knowing the book and courtesy, being considerate, and often paying a lot of money. He understands everything you don't understand. You are not deeply involved in the world. A little material vanity, he knows everything in his heart. Naturally speaking every word of your heart, it makes people feel safe, considerate, and mature, just like a father.

"Girls Paradise Lost" tells such a story. At the end of the movie, the girl's narration: After hard work, I was admitted to college and had a boyfriend of the same age as me. We worked and saved enough to travel together. After arriving in Paris, I really like Paris, as if I came here for the first time!
My heart is warm and my eyes are wet. This is really a good movie.

A cardamom literary girl who grew up in the British Empire with distinct classes. Both parents were ordinary people. She desperately got her to a well-known girls' school. She wanted to go to university, marry a rich man, and change her destiny. Like most girls, she became rebellious under academic pressure during her adolescence. She felt that all the Latin maths she learned were useless, and literature and art should be the theme of life, and French is the best language of time. , Paris is the literary paradise of dreams.

And at this moment, an old man appeared. Since the old man loved loli, facing such a big attractive loli, this old man launched a fierce offensive and quickly captured his heart.

This old man is not the kind of dirty guy with two stinky money, not the kind of "Love Deal" and "Perfume Poisonous" in the iPhone 4S mobile phone, sitting in a Mercedes-Benz car listening to Xiaofang's soil fat yuan. He has taste, self-cultivation, personable demeanor, sweet tongue, and is engaged in cultural and artistic careers. He goes in and out of high-end salons. Girls are not after Prada, Chanel and other vulgar objects. They want to appreciate world-famous paintings, listen to concerts everywhere, and buy an old book signed by the original author on the streets of Paris.

Think about it, today you are still discussing Manet Gauguin with your classmates in Arty, and tomorrow you will be able to bid for them at the auction and take them as your own. What is it like?

The classmates are still wearing glasses and carrying a heavy schoolbag day after day, but she realizes her dream life early. Therefore, she decided to follow this man.

The best thing about this movie is the truth. The dialogue between the girl and her parents and the dialogue with the principal teacher is exactly the voice of the ignorant young girl:
She told her mother, you wash, cook and clean the room day after day. What's the point? I don't want to live the same life as you.
She told the teacher, what if I go to university? After graduation, I am not like you, teaching this boring course and correcting a bunch of boring composition.
She told the principal: Life should be brilliant and wonderful, not as rigid, boring, and oppressive as the current campus life.

The most real scenario is that when his parents met this man, after being adored by him, after examining his family background, when his daughter proposed the idea of ​​dropping out of college, the parents happily agreed.
Father said, spending so much money to let you learn the violin and let you go to a prestigious school is hoping that in the end you can marry a rich man. Now that you have achieved it, this man treats you well again. Why are you still studying at Oxford and Cambridge?

Later, her dream was broken, and she gradually realized the hypocrisy and superficiality of the old man, but she had dropped out of school and unknowingly became accustomed to everything, and decided to tolerate him until she found out that he was actually married and had used the same technique. , Deceived more than one loli, and she collapsed completely.

The next story is enough to highlight the movie's name "an Education". This kind of education not only refers to the emotional education she has experienced, but the education she has received allows her to calm down and seriously think about her glitzy dream. When she dropped out of school, she was confident and arrogant, criticizing the education system, criticizing school rules, and mocking the principal. Now she lowered her body and asked for forgiveness.

When she finally plucked up the courage and knocked on the door of her English teacher, she saw the home of a single female middle school teacher, a small apartment with knitted carpets, bookshelves, pianos, postcards on the wall, wooden tables and chairs with strong texture. Simple and decent, warm and simple and elegant-this is the home of the literary youth she yearns for, not the old man's high walls, villas and mansions, full of the world produced by the half-high Shenzhen Dafen Village Famous paintings. Only then did she know how shallow and ignorant she was to accuse the teacher before.

Teacher Emma Thompson was sitting at the table and reading, she was quite relieved to see her here. This is her favorite student, and finally her education was not in vain.

What happened later came naturally to a scene that made my eyes wet.
During the viewing process, the biggest feeling is the truth. The gloomy weather in London, the crowded streets and the countryside make the tone and rhythm of the film a little dull, but this is the real life, and the doubts of the girls in the film must be many. There has been. Boys who like her are restrained, jerky, and have no clue about love, which reminds me of the time of first love.

What is impressive is that the girl has been preparing for a long time. On her sixteenth birthday, she gave her first night like an old man in Paris. After she was done, she sat on the bedside facing the scenery of the Seine River and sighed: in the original movie, novel and poetry Haw has been crooked for hundreds of years, so short, simple, and meaningless. This shows that what the girl loves is only vanity romance, and, that man is really old and a bit dysfunctional.

The movie "Girls Paradise Lost", based on real people, seems to tell us that in love, the generation gap still exists. It is best to fall in love with your peers. It also tells everyone that love is actually a process of trial and error, and people may get lost in an illusory story, thinking that it is love itself. It doesn't matter, as long as you can let it go and admit your mistakes, you can start all over again and finally get true love.

The reason why I strongly recommend everyone to watch this movie, especially girls, is because the post "Girlfriend is not a virgin" has been posted in major forums in China, and the cost of trial and error is too high.
It is likely that there will not be such a sunny ending in the end. The imaginable ending, the girl finally went to college and had a boyfriend of her own age. The two saved money and traveled together in Paris. After a night of romance, the boy ran to the window, smoked a cigarette, and asked frowningly. Girl on the bed: Who is that person? I'm sorry, I can't accept non-virgins...


and that is, one day, I will become an old man too, I don't want to become a goldfish or numb man who deceives ignorant loli.

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Extended Reading
  • Marjolaine 2021-11-28 08:01:19

    Cherish life and stay away from married men

  • Sophie 2022-03-26 09:01:05

    The stage of life, the price of growth, in fact, no one is right or wrong, just encounter some things that come quickly and beautifully but are based on lies. When recalling this period of people and events, I will face it with joy and will not feel sorry for myself.

An Education quotes

  • [last lines]

    Jenny: One of the boys I dated, and they were boys, suggested that we go to Paris and I said I'd always wanted to see Paris. As if I'd never been!

  • David: Do you go to concerts?

    Jenny: No. We don't believe in concerts.

    David: Oh, I assure you, they're real.