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As a past person, it is also the emotional state I am currently experiencing. After watching this drama, I am deeply touched. I lacked passion for my current online dating boyfriend, of course I knew how unreliable online dating was, but I was very lacking in love at the time, he chatted with me every day and I became dependent on him, so I agreed. But later I found out that I didn't see each other, which caused me to have nowhere to vent my desire for him, and he seemed to start to deviate from my love idea, and I gradually had the idea of breaking up. I personally like to enjoy sex like the heroine, so I like this and think it is an important part of my relationship. Of course my relationship issues are not just lust, but self-doubt etc. (there are a lot of similarities with Billie's relationship, so I'll tie my own relationship to this show).
Repeating similar life scripts
Brad is like my favorite online ins male god, he satisfies the desires in my heart, but he can't give me a sense of security and commitment, etc. Cooper is like the boyfriend I am with now, he takes the initiative to chat with me every day, but he keeps talking about the boring daily life Trivial (like Billie, I don’t like to talk about these exciting, exciting and diverse lives), even if I go to the gym every day, school and home are three-point and one-line, but I can always find my favorite foreign entertainment resources to enrich myself and listen to what I like. Music and dance lessons, fantasizing about being with my man.
Yes, I'm not imagining my boyfriend (he doesn't like dancing and Spanish music), but isn't he important? It wasn't when I was feeling down that he stayed with me and inspired me. But after a few months of recovery, I realized it wasn't enough. He can't tease me like the male god I like. The one I like has liked for 3 years, longer than I have known him. I find that my boyfriend and I are the same as Cooper and Billie, our passions may just be the newness of getting to know each other (this is only a short-term passion), and there is a lack of things that connect passions and related emotional connections (for Billie, it is her youth). True passion is enduring. (Therefore, I object to the so-called remarks that it fades after a long time, and love becomes family affection, etc.)
Can you say that Billie and Brad's desire is fresh? Billie knows all about brad, but still likes him, based on brad's body and his own indelible sexiness, which Cooper and my boyfriend estimate will take a long time to develop (probably still No), not only the thinking and skills of getting along in love (knowing how to use the life circles of both parties to find each other’s interest points, how to create a romantic atmosphere to please each other and make the other party full of interest), but also differences in their own life experiences (including personal characteristics and appearance factors) ) to influence, this is the same technique, why Cooper and brad still feel different when they use it, why Cooper did brad's behavior, and Billie still loves brad all the time. Because the following is the reason
Sometimes Desires Are More Than Desires
Brad has a strong connection to her youthful and dynamic life in the past. After living with Cooper, she always misses the old days, and the most important person in the past and the person who influenced Billie the most is Brad. Everyone has heard of the emotional effect (Actually, I think Brad's appearance is just an arrangement, as long as there is one Similar to Brad, Billie will have a similar situation because Cooper just didn't give her that side. Cooper didn't solve it. Of course, he also said that he thinks the ordinary married life is normal. This is also Billie Different views from Cooper, but neither is right or wrong. Sexual desire itself is not right or wrong (of course Cooper doesn't understand ""desire is not just desire"), so this all led to Billie's uncontrollable meal operate
In order to have a good dramatic effect, the director gave the two contrasting characters to the heroine and let the heroine make a choice, but of course the plot will not be so satisfactory. Later in the plot, Brad said that Billie wanted him to be Cooper,
This is wrong (or is it misleading?), Billie wants a combination of the two, and only one side is not enough and can't be complete. Only then can Billie stop her obsession. But getting Cooper and Brad to acquire qualities from each other that they don't have (responsibility promises Billie's ideal sexiness) is unlikely because they're different people (like Cooper's desire for Brad's qualities that attract Billie ), so the heroine has to make a choice, but unless you get both, it's painful to choose either one, so it's a dead end There's no choice, either get both, or find someone who has both Brad and Cooper Trait "bonding people" (more outrageous haha).
Emotional encounter will not show all the things of the two people at once, it has various forms of expression, the distribution of the three elements of love will not be even, and each person's state will also make each factor different, so it is easy to let We ignore the missing side of each other. Of course, this also proves how precious the ideal object is.
Final thoughts on multi-person relationships and one-on-one
The big difference between what I'm talking about is a multi-person relationship and an ordinary open relationship is that the open object is the idea that both parties love and have an intimate relationship.
I personally don't mind a multi-person relationship, but of course the conditions I'm talking about are too harsh to be realistic.
1. VN's desire for intimacy must be satisfied at the same time. For example, I have a relationship with ins male gods and game male gods. Obviously, they have similar temperament and appearance.
So desires are equal, and intimacy is not only in the personal feelings I put into them, but also in their influence on my behavior and character is basically the same, so in the case of my brain, I can They were in love at the same time. Of course, my premise is that they have the same idea as me.
So many people in love will only appear in bisexuals and homosexuals.
This drama discusses desire, intimacy, commitment, and the mode of getting along in love, giving very typical characters to intensify this conflict.
There will be flaws, and some plots will be vulgar, but similar situations have also occurred in my life, and they also make me recall and ponder.
I'm missing this show to make a thought picture. It gave me ideas to solve problems that have troubled me for a long time. This is not only a life-enlightening drama describing women's love, but also a mirror for everyone's self-examination on love.
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