If there is someone else who can quarrel with you like this

Dayton 2021-11-19 08:01:29

——Written to J, even if you hate me, I will always wish you

and J broke up for almost a year. On June 18, 2007, because of the exclusivity of love, I broke up with him. He knew that he could no longer stay, so he cried on the phone.
I cried too.
The two people just broke up, but they cried like parting.
Woman, how ridiculous, it was you who changed your heart, but you cried worse than the other person.

People who change their hearts will always be punished. Two months later, I ended my second relationship. It was also the breakup I proposed, but it was just the last way to preserve dignity. Yes, I am broken in love.
When I recovered from the shock, I understood what it means to love someone. It also made me understand how he once felt, understand his love for me, understand my hurt to him, understand his tolerance, understand his sadness, after 5 years of knowing J. Tears.

Have been in love with J for four years. At the end of 2002, on the third day of acquaintance, he said, be my girlfriend. I said, okay.
In the past four years, there have been frequent quarrels. Thinking back now, I can't recall the reason for the quarrel, it's nothing more than trivial things. When playing games together, he only cared about his classmates, ignored me, said I was stupid, and so on. Why was it so noisy at the time?
why?

After quarreling, I always disappear, refuse to answer the phone or turn off the phone. Sometimes a person is hiding behind the comprehensive teaching building and crying, sometimes sitting on the roof of the third teaching building. He always kept calling me while looking for me all over the school. I'm like a kid who likes to play hide-and-seek, always hiding in different places waiting for him to find it, then waiting for him to come over with a helpless look of breathlessness, and then turn his head away from him.

Once, always gritted his teeth with hatred because of quarrels. Now, the memory of this quarrel has become my treasure. If there is another person who can quarrel with you like this, I just want to say, I envy you very much.

People who love each other are never rational. We will escalate the problem in the quarrel between you and me, and then speculate the other party's thoughts with a little chagrin, and figure out how to solve it peacefully without losing too much dignity. Every time he quarreled, he apologized first. But every time an apology evolves in the end, it becomes his preaching to me, making me feel as if it is all my fault. Then it's okay to say "generous". After reconciliation, he will stretch out his hand, and I will give him a big hug to show that I don't care anymore. When I hold him, my tears will flow out unconvincingly.
There is no such safe and trustworthy embrace.

When I was with him, he left everything he didn't know how to do. He said, "You, you just rely on me too much. You need to be more independent."
Yes, I am independent now. The flowers in the greenhouse don't know the wind and rain until they arrive in the wild. I have learned how to be nice to someone and how to love someone, but time can't go back.

You wrote in your blog, I can understand her, but I can't forgive it out of selfishness.
You don't need to forgive me, because God has already punished me. What I am looking forward to now is that you can meet a suitable person, and I, I have paid a huge price for all the mistakes I have done, and I hope that after loving and being loved, I will meet the next A person is a person who can adore me. For love, it is a positive person who suffers all the damage but is still full of expectations. I hope you think so too.

I wish you happiness.
Wish me happiness.

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  • Gaston 2021-11-19 08:01:29

    When I watched this movie, it was just a bit boring. It was this movie that rescued me at the time.

  • Amelia 2021-11-19 08:01:29

    Just watch it for ANISTON

The Break-Up quotes

  • Gary: Come on, grab some sky.

  • Gary: Listen, Lassie, and listen good. I'm not saying he's not gonna get married. I'm not saying he's not gonna have kids. If it does happen, his wife is gonna come home, and find him with his Tiajuana lover clubbing each other with Yanni's greatest hits.