learn to express love

Keven 2022-03-24 09:02:56

At first, I listened to the original soundtrack of the movie. My friend said it was very warm. But after listening to it, I didn't feel much, and felt that I had to watch this movie. After watching this movie and then going back to listen to this music, one after another flashed through my mind, oh, so warm.
We often say that if you love him or her, express it. Perhaps, we sometimes deliberately cover up, or lie with good intentions, or out of more selfless love, or just hypocritical, and want to deliberately test the tacit understanding between the other party and ourselves. So what about Adam?
For a large part of the movie, he really doesn't show love. He doesn't know what the implication is, doesn't know how to show concern for embarrassing things, doesn't know how to help when other people's difficulties are in front of him, and even can't tell the difference between Beth and his father, no matter how big the conflict, after all He can't beat her father... However, from those seemingly foolish actions, you can see Adam's absolute defense of Beth, the love of life, and the nostalgia for the long-awaited love. These things may have lost their place in the hearts of many normal people. Maybe normal people are too smart in some ways to ignore the beauty that Adam knows: the raccoons in Central Park, the stars in the universe.
It was with B's care that A made a little progress. He learned to restrain himself from eloquent speeches, jokes, and interview drills over and over again...
During A's growth, B left him. .
Can't blame B, how much she wants A to express a romantic side like other people, so that she can melt in love, but A is more like one of her children, and she wants her to take care and love. At the moment of physical and mental exhaustion, she made an inevitable choice. How can you deny that walking into A's life is already a great courage?
When A said a series of reasons for loving B, I saw the disappointment on B's face, but you know what? He really loves you, but he can't express it yet.
When I saw A sitting on the ground crying uncontrollably before leaving, I couldn't hold back the tears any longer. Are these necessary experiences for growth?
Maybe, B is right. Her departure has made A grow up a lot. The moment he thinks when he sees the book proves that he finally understands why B writes about the raccoon family in fairy tales instead of in nature. His smile took my breath away.
In today's busy life, we ignore the beauty in so many details. And the daily computer life makes a certain part of our brains become more and more dull. Adam does not know much about the world, but he is the one who knows the most about love. How unfair it is to Adam that our mouth is used to deceive, bored, and even lazy to say a single word.
So, learn to let go of the things that make us nervous every day, look at the world around us, think about the people who love us, and then express the warm feelings in our hearts. Combine the pure love of A with the warmth of B in our hearts.

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  • Santino 2022-03-25 09:01:15

    Asperger's Syndrome was the first time I came across the name of this disorder when I was taking Social Work as a minor in my undergraduate program. Since then, I have been dealing with autism and Asperger's in my major, so this is a very familiar name. But looking at Adam, I can see his daily life more, and the reactions of people around him... It reminds me from time to time that people close to me sometimes have these "clumsiness" "symptoms", reminding me whether I should Give them some understanding and patience at these times. The former New Yorker felt that Adam was lucky to be born, raised, worked and loved in New York, because it is a place where everyone can survive and be tolerated. If you usually find that someone around you (including children and adults) has similar symptoms, you should tell yourself that they have worked hard and can't blame them. You should understand this good intentions more and cherish the people around you. The ending I digested for a long time, a little unacceptable, but this is really a good ending, at least no matter what happens after that, the decision of that step is a good decision for them.

  • Richmond 2022-03-26 09:01:10

    The overwhelmed little prince raccoon and love that shouldn't exist. Beautiful film. "I thought I was the little prince when I was a kid, and then I learned that I was actually the pilot. ... The important thing is to love."

Adam quotes

  • Harlan: Liars is all you gonna run across in this world. A man's gotta learn the difference between just plain liars and liars worth lovin'.

  • Rebecca Buchwald: Feeling loved is very important, but loving, my precious girl, that's the necessity.