Change

Quinn 2022-03-22 09:01:51

Suppose you lose all your present and become who you want to be - success, flowers, applause. You become a rich, powerful and handsome man or woman, and you become the perfect person you imagined.
Suppose you are not satisfied with the present, get your imaginary self, and the people around you - your friends care about you, they are perfect, your parents never embarrass you, you are the best. This world will not make you feel a little sad, you have no regrets, you can do whatever you want, but it will not change the world.
Suppose you become - all your problems are not problems now, embarrassing, embarrassing, confusing, lonely, sad, painful, and foreseeable problems in the future - these , when all is not a problem for someone.
You still need to keep your memory, you still carry your current thinking. So, will you be happy? ?


In another way, or, in another form.
When you become him, how do you think you will be?
He suddenly changed, and when he woke up, this familiar world was messed up. He began to be afraid, disturbed, and panicked, and then slowly accepted it. He wanted to return to the previous state in a given state. He worked hard, and this was "change" again. He began to accept, and moved, he began to nostalgic, but he couldn't do anything, he had to wait for "change". When he woke up again, he discovered the so-called past that he had to recover. At the airport again, in a fateful reincarnation, he finally found himself?
But, this is a movie.
Movie! ! ! ! ! !


I don't want to say more about the rest, I'm not qualified to say "maxims" and write "readers".
No conclusion, no conclusion, no notification, no answer. Just wish I understood.


calm. You can't change, please believe in yourself.

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The Family Man quotes

  • Kate: When you got on that plane, I was sure it was over. I left the airport afraid I'd never see you again. And then you showed up the very next day. That was a good surprise. You know, I think about the decision you made... maybe I was being naive, but I believed that we would grow old together in this house. That we'd spend holidays here and have our grandchildren come visit us here. I had this image of us, all grey and wrinkly, and me working in the garden and you re-painting the deck. But things change. If you need this, Jack, if you really need this, I will take these kids from a life they love and I'll take myself from the only home we've ever shared together and I'll move wherever you need to go. I'll do that because I love you. I love you, and that's more important to me than our address. I choose us.

  • [last lines]

    Jack: We have a house in Jersey. We have two kids, Annie and Josh. Annie's not much of a violin player, but she tries real hard. She's a little precocious, but that's only because she says what's on her mind. And when she smiles... And Josh, he has your eyes. He doesn't say much, but we know he's smart. He's always got his eyes open, he's always watching us. Sometimes you can look at him and you just know he's learning something new. It's like witnessing a miracle. The house is a mess but it's ours. After 122 more payments, it's going to be ours. And you, you're a non-profit lawyer. That's right, you're completely non-profit, but that doesn't seem to bother you. And we're in love. After 13 years of marriage we're still unbelievably in love. You won't even let me touch you until I've said it. I sing to you. Not all the time, but definitely on special occasions. We've dealt with our share of surprises and made a lot of sacrifices but we've stayed together. You see, you're a better person than I am. And it made me a better person to be around you. I don't know, maybe it was just all a dream. Maybe I went to bed one lonely night in December and I imagined it all. But I swear, nothing has ever felt more real. And if you get on that plane right now, it'll disappear forever. I know we could both go on with our lives and we'd both be fine, but I've seen what we could be like together. And I choose us. Please, Kate. One cup of coffee. You can always go to Paris. Just, please, not tonight.

    [pause]

    Kate: Ok, Jack.