repressed affection

Rosalind 2022-03-24 09:03:02

I have always felt that if there is any feeling in this world that can be the most beautiful, cruel, moving, and black, it is not love, but family.

In the film, the three sisters get together because their sister is seriously ill, but the atmosphere is very complicated. There is a scene where the maid Anna helps the second sister Karin to change. The black dress is taken off, the first white petticoat, the second white petticoat, a short top, a corset, a white underwear skirt, and stockings. Then put on the pyjama dress, and the pyjama coat. The maid went out with a big bag of clothes. Their lives seem to be the process of changing clothes, delicate, complicated, silent and depressing.

Depressed films often come from Europe, because Americans' carefree personality makes them better at making lively Hollywood films. Americans' straightforwardness lies in the fact that they do not have a heavy history and do not have too many rules to follow. Their cumbersome decorations in the film are only part of the history. Because of history, everything is more inclined to follow than to do whatever you want. Resistance is often sneaky, self-mutilating, self-defeating. For example, the second sister Karin and the younger sister Maria. They are willing to drown in this repression.

The eldest sister Annie in the film is someone who doesn't want to be depressed. Annie is active in her heart, but in reality she still dare not show it, except for the pain and smile that she can't hide. She wrote in her diary how happy she was to have her sisters with her, but when the sisters entered the house, she lay back on the bed and said nothing. But to Anna, she is not afraid to show her feelings. She told Anna that you were too far away, so Anna went to hug her and fell asleep. To the sisters, only after her death did she show her affection, she wanted them to hold her hand, get close to her, and kiss her, but she was rejected by the sisters. Or Anna, like a mother, warm her with her arms and let her rest in peace.

The repressed affection lies in the fact that there is a relationship between people that cannot be separated. So things like Annie's resentment towards her mother, her sisters' jealousy towards Maria, and Karin's indifference towards her relatives, cannot be completely eliminated. But the shadow of childhood makes these negative emotions stronger than strangers. Deep down, they are all afraid.

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  • Emma 2022-03-25 09:01:15

    Glad to watch Autumn Sonata with this one. It’s easy to see Haneke’s reference to Bergman by watching the two films, especially “The Piano Teacher” is basically the same: the poor mother-daughter relationship, the masochistic way of cutting private parts, and the cold and alienated character temperament. . When I wanted to come to Bergman to give "Piano Teacher" four stars, I must have thought: Oh, boy, this is what I learned. . .

  • Lou 2022-03-26 09:01:10

    This picture is too beautiful, even Caravaggio in several places. Interestingly, similar structures such as "Sick-Healthy People", closed spaces, and character wrestling appeared in "Still in the Mirror" in 1961, "Silence" in 1963, and "Masquerade" in 1966. appeared again. The subject of discussion is still the loss of communication and discourse, and there are still inescapable "Bergmanian propositions"—love and alienation for mothers, hatred for brothers, and what he calls "emotional blackmail," and his Tirelessly questioning God. Even the "Agnes Resurrection" scene in the details comes from his ten-year-old experience of being locked up in a morgue. The real Bergman I like exists in these four women, "I don't trust anyone, I don't love anyone, and I don't miss anyone", harsh, indifferent, and Anna is his secret room. The open gap is absolutely gentle. Like two sides of a coin, firmly attached to each other. (I love him 555)

Cries & Whispers quotes

  • Anna: [reading Agnes' journal entry] "Wednesday, the third of September. A chill in the air tells of autumn's approach, but the days are still lovely and mild. My sisters, Karin and Maria, have come to see me. It's wonderful to be together again like in the old days. I'm feeling much better. We were even able to take a stroll together. It was a wonderful experience, especially for me, since I haven't been outdoors for so long. We suddenly began to laugh and run toward the old swing that we hadn't used since we were children. We sat in it like three good little sisters and Anna pushed us, slowly and gently. All my aches and pains were gone. The people I'm most fond of in all the world were with me. I could hear them chatting around me. I could feel the presence of their bodies, the warmth of their hands. I wanted to cling to that moment, and I thought, "Come what may, this is happiness. I cannot wish for anything better. Now, for a few minutes, I can experience perfection and I feel profoundly grateful to my life, which gives me so much."

  • David: Come here, Marie. Come. Look in the mirror. You're beautiful. Perhaps even more than when we were together. But you've changed and I want you to see how. Now your eyes cast quick, calculating, side glances. You used to look ahead straightforwardly, openly, without disguise. Your mouth has a slightly hungry, dissatisfied expression. It used to be so soft. Your complexion is pale now. You wear makeup. Your fine, wide brow has four lines above each eye now. You can't see them in this light, but you can in the bright of day. You know what caused those lines?

    Maria: No.

    David: Indifference. And this fine contour from your ear to your chin is no longer so finely drawn - the result of too much comfort and laziness. And there, by the bridge of your nose. Why do you sneer so often? You see that? You sneer too often. You see it? And look under your eyes. The sharp, scarcely noticeable wrinkles from your boredom and impatience.

    Maria: Can you really see all that there?

    David: No, but I feel it when you kiss me.

    Maria: I think you're joking with me. I know where you see it.

    David: Where?

    Maria: In yourself. Because you and I are so alike.

    David: You mean in our selfishness, coldness and indifference?