Escape is also an option.

Jaleel 2022-03-31 09:01:09

The most honest businessman--Ben was once brilliant, a criminal record ruined his business, and his family collapsed because of his debauchery. It was not stated whether Ben actually had a heart attack. To Ben, it doesn't seem to be important anymore, whether it's a straw or a mountain, Ben chose to escape. It's just that he might not have expected the ending of his escape.
The first half of the film confused me a lot. Ben looks very beautiful, everything is in his hands, car dealership, quick son-in-law, teaching little boys to pick up girls in college, and teaching little girls how to get high. From the moment he was nibbling on the little girl who was his stepdaughter immediately, I felt it was time to turn around.
Since then, he's lost his dealership, lost his chance at marriage, and fell in love with his daughter's friend. To be honest, when I see this, I feel that this guy is a bastard, and he is too hungry to eat. The reality is the same as always. He has lost his source of income and can't even find a job to make ends meet. In the end, I had to go back to my good friend's fast food restaurant to help. Perhaps, this time was his quietest day, with old friends and not too many troubles. Until, his past mistakes gave him punishment again.
The most honest is the word I've been chewing on. I don't know what themes the writers, directors want us to find. In fact, everything in itself is not new in today's America, in today's life. There is too much deceit, too much filth, and it even appears aboveboard. However, Ben was only poor and down and out, and the people were betrayed and separated. Quite incomprehensible.
Ben has always been in control, calling the wind and the rain, like a lion, but God, through his doctor, told him that there were things he couldn't control. He chose to escape, trying to escape. At the end of the film, Ben hesitated for a long time and stood up, but no one knew whether he was going left or right, maybe, let us choose.
Escape is also an option.

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Extended Reading
  • Rickey 2022-04-03 09:01:12

    When you know it's wrong but you go on. . .

  • Krista 2022-04-02 09:01:16

    Go left, or continue to the right.

Solitary Man quotes

  • Jimmy Merino: When my father gave me this place years ago, I used to dream about these girls. Every night, dreams, all kinds of dreams about 'em. But then I'd see them coming back after graduation. They'd come to homecomings, ballgames. They'd sit at the same tables, eat the same food. And I'd look at them and I noticed, they don't stay like this. None of 'em. They put on years and pounds and wrinkles. And I got one like that at home. So. And we can talk to each other. I know her and I'll always know her.

  • Ben Kalmen: You got your little jokes, you know, the Spanish thing, interests are the same, and the studying. But, um, are you getting it, you know, where it counts?

    Maureen: Oh, Ben. Cheston thinks you care about him.

    Ben Kalmen: This has nothing to do with him. He's never gonna know about this. Never.

    Maureen: Aren't you a little old for all this?

    Ben Kalmen: You're still standing here, aren't you?

    Maureen: Yeah, 'cause I'm contemplating throwing this drink in your face. But I'm not going to, because I don't want Cheston to know what you just tried. So you can just walk away. Please.

    Ben Kalmen: Nothing personal.

    Maureen: Hey. That is it, actually. Since you asked, that's what I get from him. Something personal. Besides getting it done where it counts, which he does. Cheston and I reach each other. He's tender and sweet and smart and funny and a million things that you aren't.

    Ben Kalmen: I was once, honey. It doesn't last.