It's strange why no one noticed at the beginning of the movie, when Dad went to tell Artin that Mommy was going to fall asleep soon, Artin was very calm and didn't even look at Dad, playing with his little monkey. It wasn't until Dad said Mommy was going to die that Artin calmly asked, "Will Mommy die at dinner?" Dad said he didn't know, "Will she die while sleeping?" Dad said he didn't know. He said OK and ran to play. Later, my mother died in her sleep, and he happily ran over and told my grandmother, "Look, I told you that my mother will die in her sleep!" I spent a week thinking about what this child was thinking, whether he was too young Not understanding the meaning of death is so calm. But later, every afternoon, he lay on the ground regularly like he was dead, keeping his eyes open and not speaking, or suddenly irritable, making noise when he didn't want anything. This little kid never cried because of his mother's death, but it can be seen throughout the movie that he was seriously injured. He even suddenly said to his father, "Dad, I want to die so that I can be with my mother." I was shocked when I saw it at the time, how could such a small child say such a thing, and then he was side by side with his father in the next second. I sat down and said, "But I'm not going to die now, because I'm here to be with my dad." My tears flowed instantly. It is said that the child's mind is very simple, but in this movie, I think the most difficult thing to guess is the little Artin's mind, everyone shows different degrees of sadness, only the little Artin seems to be the least concerned, but in fact he The saddest.
I also admire the way the father takes the child, although some of them seem unreasonable to the Chinese, such as putting the child in front of the car without fear of him falling off and letting him play, such as letting him drive on his lap, For example, let him climb to such a high stone without fear of falling, such as allowing him to jump into the bathtub like diving, such as allowing him to scream and make noise around the room, and this is welcome... I really I admire my father's free-range education, giving such a small person enough freedom and creativity, and respecting him enough. When he was irritable and lost his temper, although his father was not good at coaxing children, he tried his best to restrain him from getting angry, coax him, buy him his favorite food, and satisfy his needs. For a child who has just lost his mother It's not coddling, so to speak.
Another thing that shocks me is the respect Westerners have for the rights of biological parents - as Long Yingtai said, the older generation will provide advice, but will never interfere with children, because for them, rights always in the hands of the biological parents. In the movie, the grandmother who lost her daughter wants to take over little Artin, in the words of Dad, "to fill her love for her daughter", although she can take good care of little Artin and clean it up, but Dad insists on picking him up go. In my opinion, the attitude is too tough to respect the elders, but his father's reason is indeed reasonable: "This is my son, I want to take him away, you can't use him to fill your daughter's regrets." Grandma is listening. After I got to this sentence, I didn't argue any more and let little Artin go. This is what surprised me. The quarrel was so intense, but the rights of biological parents were always respected. This is what Westerners can learn from us.
I was also shocked by the way my father educated his teenage son Harry. He didn't like to be like other parents. It's all over...) Dad also just said it was very good, cool, and then the son couldn't help crying, and I could see that Dad was angry, but he didn't get angry with him, he didn't beat him, but stayed with him Pack up, apologize to him, and promise to be a good dad in the future. I believe that this kind of education is more effective than beating and scolding for adolescent children.
(Btw I really saw the traditional school in the UK!!! The old walls!! The traditional school uniform!!! I really like it except for being a little depressed!!!) But Australia is also good, they really pay attention to the outdoors Activities, and wild animals are really Nimada... kangaroos are jumping into the yard. . . It's really interesting that the movie selection ranks in Australia.
The movie was adapted from a true story. When I recalled this movie at night before going to bed, the greatest joy it gave me was the taste of life, the strong taste of life, the sound of washing dishes, the messy home without women, and the children screaming loudly. Laugh... All this makes people feel inexplicably happy. It is indeed duller than many European and American blockbusters, but I really like its life flavor. In so many ordinary little things, there are so many emotions and different ideas. I have been thinking about this little kid for a week, his smile, his cute voice, and his sabotage, it's really super cute! ! !
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