Anything you want is a desire that needs to be treated with care.

Friedrich 2022-03-26 09:01:11

Just talk about some of my own viewing experience.

1. I think this father does not love his son so much, at least not like many parents, who can give up a lot and give a lot, love their children like nature, and never turn back. In the face of the conflict of interest with his son, Steve did not give up Anna in order to fulfill his son's happiness, but intensified privately. Steve has his own world, a world where he can be completely separated from his existing family, so after finishing the grief of losing his son, he immediately goes after Anna again, wanting to start a new life. With such an independent and decisive character, children may complain that they are not loved enough, but it also enables parents and children to have their own lives and lead their own lives. In the movie, although the parents objected to the union of Martin and Anna in their hearts, none of them acted as parents. In such a family background, if the infidelity in marriage is handled rationally, the possibility of a peaceful ending still exists.

2. However, Anna's lethality does not allow for a peaceful ending. On her calm and delicate face, in her simple and frank brows, there was love, and she didn't even look rambunctious in bed. The man imagines that he and her are the love that can spend the rest of his life, but in fact Anna just wants to be pampered and strongly needed without being restrained, so she is always at ease. We have no way of knowing more about how the lovers, Anna and Martin, got along in private. I think Anna and Martin are happy together, she didn't marry Martin to stay with Steve, she wanted both. Dangerous love relationships are Anna's elixir of staying alive. Steve is undoubtedly a strong man at heart. Some people say that he is very candid in this relationship, and some people say that he has been lonely for too long, so he can't control it. I agree. Armed with love, Steve ignores reason, evades responsibility, and abandons his family. Whether it is an earthquake or a tsunami that may be triggered by the exposure of his love affairs, both of them selectively forget about it. At the end, Anna's empty eyes and Steve's thoughtful gaze, the two people who have lost their spiritual energy, compare the scorching heat of cooking oil with fire, the polarities of fire and ice.

3. We have no way of knowing how Ingrid and Steve's relationship was and how much they loved each other. After her son's tragic death, she complained that she loved her son the most, and Steve loved Anna the most. I don't know how much of the angry words and how much truth there is. The wife bears and raises offspring and maintains the stability and harmony of the family, so the derailment rate is low. At the same time, because the balance of love and the focus of life deviate from her husband, it increases the probability of her husband cheating. Difficult, it is necessary for both parties to jointly operate, for decades.

4. There are too many strong dramatic conflicts in the movie. For example, Anna's appearance is more like a female spy seducing the minister. She captured Steve with just a few strokes, and it was so smooth that I was at a loss. And Steve's fall stems from the monotony of family life, which is understated. The beginning of the two people's love affair was so natural, dry firewood and fire, and finally led to the accidental death of Martin, life was at stake, and the foundation for the cause seemed weak. The plot, which was originally far away from life, is even more false due to the tragic ending. Perhaps, this is also one of the charms of the movie.

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  • Dr. Stephen Fleming: [Martyn has fallen to his death, Stephen arrives home to find Ingrid in the kitchen with a bloody and bruised face] What happened?

    Ingrid Fleming: The pain was unbearable. I was beating myself.

  • Ingrid Fleming: [the day after Martyn's death - to Stephen] What a pity we ever met.