some random thoughts

Issac 2022-03-25 09:01:08

The recent color makes me also start to think about the problem of returning to China in the future. It is true that for me to return to work and live in China in the future is my desire to study abroad. I hope that one day I can make my own contribution when I return to my country, and I am relatively immune to the domestic workplace pressure and fast pace of life. There is not too much resistance. Although life abroad is indeed very comfortable and comfortable, it just feels that something is missing, something like a sense of belonging or cultural identity. I figured out this question about a year after I went abroad, and it really is rooted in China, just like the teacher who wrote me a letter of recommendation warned me, of course, I can't really understand this sentence without really going abroad. .

This movie will really make people feel the humanistic care of basic education in the United States. It is really good. Everyone has their own stories and experiences, but as the movie shows, everyone is actually gentle in their hearts. , are all kind. Compared with the repeated news in China, the gap is really too big. I will suddenly feel that my return to China is not too cruel to my children in the future. I really hope that the motherland can get better soon. I know a lot of things. Improvement takes time, but I still wonder if it can be faster. I thought that was what many people wanted.

A bit too far. Going back to the movie, the most impressive episodes (probably meaning) are
1) The mother said to the boy who came back crying after the first day of school, "You are not ugly at all" "That's just because you are my mother. People make fun of me." "Isn't it important that I say that? It's because I'm your mother, I know you best, I know what kind of person you are, and I don't think you're ugly at all. , this is the most important." Many times we always care about other people's opinions, but when we grow up, we realize that others really don't take you seriously, they only see what they want to see, only The people closest to you will really care about you.
2) As the elder sister has to accept that her parents are all around her younger brother, she will naturally have some ideas. As her closest grandmother said, "I like you the most, your brother already has the love given by a group of angels, and you are my favorite me, and all my love is yours." Then the camera pulled back After the death of my grandmother, my lonely sister sat alone on the beach and wept, which made myself cry while watching the movie. No matter how strong everyone is, there will always be a need to be loved and cared for. This is especially true for me after staying abroad for more than two years. Although I am accustomed to my own life, and I have been busy with my studies, but when the lights are on, the family reunion festival will still be a little empty. The first two experiences also made me realize that no matter how good, no matter how many friends, no amount of excitement can replace the warmth of home that is missing in my heart.
3) My sister's friend Miranda suddenly became unfamiliar with her sister after a summer vacation. At the beginning, it was natural to think that Miranda had become bad, but the film also deliberately used Miranda's perspective to describe the reasons behind the incident. Then people will feel that people are really too interesting. The issue of parental divorce, which is obviously irrelevant to outsiders, is a shameful thing in the eyes of the parties involved. Recalling that everyone's youth is not like this, that kind of youth and immaturity is worth our understanding and care. So sometimes there is a problem in the relationship between people. Although from each person's own point of view, they are doing the right thing and doing actions to minimize the harm they suffer, but from the perspective of the relationship between the two people There will be problems. Thinking about love and friendship now, it takes time and energy for two people to manage it well, rather than unilateral wishes.

I will feel that movies are really a good way to let myself experience other people’s stories, and it will make me break away from daily life, think and experience different lives. A way to temporarily forget about real life and indulge in another story.

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