Husband and wife relationship: either the east wind prevails over the west wind, or the west wind prevails over the east wind

Austin 2022-03-27 09:01:15

It was very shocking to watch "The Enchanted" directed by Zulasky and starring Adjani. The designer is like an octopus with multiple tentacles, which captures your god, lets you play, and makes you linger for a long time. If you don't go, you keep asking yourself: What is love? What does love need to maintain? How to maintain family life in order to achieve the integration of love and sex? What choice do you make in the face of affair and loyalty? All in all, this movie will fascinate the viewer.

One: First of all, let me talk about my understanding from the surface of the plot

1 The heroine, Anna, originally had a very good family: she loved her husband dearly, a lovely son, and a wealthy living condition, but she was not at all happy in life. She was frightened, fearful, helpless, highly stressed physically and mentally, and looked tired all day long. The more she loved her husband, the stronger she felt. How afraid of losing this love was that it was her God, her whole life, her The destination of her soul, the state she controls, endures, tortures, and suffers day after day makes her feel that the darkness is gradually breaking down. The second is that the couple's relationship with her husband is not satisfied, and her emptiness, loneliness, and normal desires cannot be expressed. This simply suffocates her. How much she wants to stay with her husband, how much she wants to linger with her lover every night How much she wants to be gentle and filial to her wife and virtuous son. Although her husband's return has shaken him, she feels that she will be separated from her lover at any time in the face of all day surveillance. The reality makes her despair. How can she save herself from this situation? Next, she was like the impatient student in the video who wanted to flee. In fact, she also imagined that the student who did well would be praised, but it was easier said than done. Who knows "you What is the true meaning of awesome. So her heart began to be torn apart by loyalty and affair. The id and superego began to duel. It was a torn between peace and purity and madness and filth. During the affair, she struggled in the endless struggle between the id and the superego. Loyalty could not be joyful and the affair could not bring peace. The irreconcilable contradictions made her physically and mentally exhausted. In the end, she handed herself over to the Almighty God, so that loyalty, peace and joy would fall on her body, but it was Satan who solved the problem, and signed a contract with her that made her laugh and laugh: to have sex with the dirty and then get loyal The body, as if God is also a lecher and needs a kickback for salvation, the laughter on the way to the sewer is against God’s clumsy means and helpless to one’s own destiny. If you want to be loyal, you need to betray first, and if you want to cleanse your soul, you need to betray first. What a ridiculous logic to get the soul dirty. Just mind-blowing logic! But what is a temporary filth for the soul that loves her and the soul she loves? What's the point of keeping her ecstasy body forever disgusting for her pleasure? What's more, she doesn't feel good in her conscience. There is betrayal of loyalty, because that person is you and not another him; not to mention this is a body that is under her control and will not betray her all-day companionship at any time. But she never thought that if the body was without the soul, it wouldn't be filthy, and what loyalty would it be to keep only the soul and not the body? It was her husband's bullet of hatred against God that made her repent, and it was her husband's selfless love that finally made her sober and made the final decision between body and soul; If you can't have both the fish and the bear's paw, I would rather not have the body and choose the soul that never dies.

2 Male protagonist Mark: A husband who loves himself deeply and always treats his wife like a treasure. He lives the job of licking blood for the family and fulfills the responsibilities of a husband. The only shortcoming is that he cannot give his wife a sense of security and cannot satisfy her emotional needs. When the family was facing a crisis, he resigned from his job without hesitation. This was a very dangerous decision. It can be said that it was the road of no return for his life, because his organization did not allow betrayal, and he lost control of the organization. It is undoubtedly a grain of sand in a shoe. The organization also hinted to deal with his worries, but he knew what it meant, how could he bear to hurt his lover! How can I bear to lose my lover! She is his own life and his own God. Between his lover and himself, he would rather choose himself, so several times he ignored threats and warnings and went his own way. He tried his best to save his marriage, and wanted to find that quiet, pure and gentle angelic wife (the image of the child's teacher is the image of his wife in his heart), and the constant quarrels made him gradually see his wife's pain, hysteria, and self-mutilation. Let him see his wife's inner struggle, walking towards the fast-moving truck, the disappearance of the detective, let him understand his wife's decision, let me feel your pain, the pain in my heart is far more painful than the pain in my skin, a pair of people who love each other. Why are you so persistent! He sacrificed his life to help his wife finally let his wife see his deep love, "Occupy me." Both of them understand each other: two souls are forever tied together and cannot be separated, and Mark, who was brought back by his wife, is confessing me to her. The soul is always yours and I never wanted to abandon my loyalty. Maybe the male protagonist didn't realize his own fault at the beginning of this marriage. It was the affair and his mother who became his life's mentor: loving a person allows him to do what he likes. God gives the power of love to Humans should not interfere, you must be happy with the happiness of your lover, be happy with the happiness of your lover, the soul is the Lord of the body, and love is the God of the soul. The angelic teacher Helen taught him the law of love: if you love her, give her freedom. If you want redemption, you have to wait no matter what. Control is definitely hurt and failure.

Second, combine the plot to say the theme. Thinking about the above content is only the surface of the plot, and what the screenwriter really wants to say is not these one. The preschool teacher is actually the past of a woman (Anna), arranged to remind you of how a perfect woman turned into a witch. The evolution process of octopus is the reverse transformation process of man (Mark), that is, octopus has changed from a dirty body to a perfect man, and what it wants to express is how a perfect man becomes dirty.

Most of the newlyweds have just entered the early stage of marriage, their first feeling is: I am your man, I am your woman. All day long immersed in the love that is like glue, and enjoy the ecstasy-like happiness brought by love. And after the passion, the man I am you will become the woman you are mine, the woman I am you will become the man you are I . I saw "Thunderstorm" on the male protagonist in the play The shadow of Puyuan in the middle Zhou Dynasty, he wanted the heroine to obey. He regarded her as his own pet and private property, not a living person, a person with flesh and blood, and a person with free will. Tightly trapping his wife makes the heroine feel that love is no longer a sustenance but a chain, and home is no longer a paradise but a favorite. This kind of life is not a day or two, but a year or two, which makes her invisible Hope, the thought that even if you are not ground into stone, you will die, die of thirst, and go mad. So she wanted to escape and fight for her own destiny like Fan Yi. She was looking for an affair because she wanted to find a vent for her spiritual world. She wanted to let her imprisoned soul have a space to stretch. Through divorce, she wanted to go there. Control the man who has always controlled himself and take the initiative in the family, want to see if the man who once loved himself so much still loves himself. This is a process of control and anti-control. Although all of this makes women feel more and more dirty, empty, completely unreasonable, or even crazy (Fan Yiyu), the plot of this control drama has indeed been reversed. . That is to say, the process of the gradual formation of the woman's pet octopus is actually the fact that the male protagonist is gradually controlled back to the original state of obedience. And what actually played the biggest role in all this was the man's poor vanity, his unwillingness to accept failure. He wants to regain his dignity by winning back his lover from others, and he wants to re-enter his wife's heart to defend a man's sovereignty, because this is not love at all costs. At the beginning, the strategy adopted by the male protagonist was: fights and calculations with rivals, quarrels, domestic violence, and mutual harm. The result of the struggle is, of course, that both of them are bruised and exhausted, so the male protagonist reflects that this method is not effective, and the only effective method is to dedicate everything to women like first love, and in the play, it is shown as a male. In the process of the hero's desperate efforts to cover up the heroine's crime and regardless of safety, the heroine really felt step by step that she had found the only husband who loved her and obeyed her life (she once said "it's almost there"). The behavior of the male protagonist finally made her think that she had won, and that she had won the heart of her lover again, (in the form of the octopus becoming the exact same male protagonist). Although the male protagonist thinks that he has 'possessed' his wife again, but Immediately he realized that he was the loser in the end. He was unwilling to be controlled by his wife, but how could it end? Of course, he chose to break free of his freedom of choice, so he used that jump to save his face. Their deaths were not physical. It is the death of marriage and the disillusionment of love. It is obvious that what kind of marriage can withstand such a tear, how can such a marriage be accompanied by love. There is a saying in Mao Zedong'

Mark, who was cloned at the end of the play, went to find an angelic female teacher. It can be said that they are all perfect now, because they are the most perfect other half in the heart of the heroine and heroine, just like a pair of newcomers see each other in the eyes of each other: perfect and perfect There are even a few shortcomings, but how many people can keep love fresh for a long time, and how many people can get out of such a vicious circle! Difficult! ! The alarm sounded worrying, and the death of the child made me see the director's desperation. People who break free from shackles are not equal to freedom. People without a family are like wearing only one shoe. The road ahead will be more difficult to walk. With a kind heart and a positive attitude to bravely move forward in life, there will be an exit. Cherish the loved ones around you now so that the tragedy will never happen again.

It can be said that the producer expresses the peculiarity with good intentions. I think some audiences cannot understand it, especially the young audiences who do not have much experience in married life. This skill is also beyond the reach of our directors and actors. I also sincerely hope that everyone will not be limited to some scary plots (such as the exaggerated moaning of the heroine when the hero enters the room, in fact, the author just wants to express the woman's very urgent desire for that ideal love) , It is necessary to return to the thinking of family relations, so as to be worthy of the efforts of the production team and beneficial to our lives.

This is exactly:

Ask the sky, what is love, directly teach life and death? It is difficult to get together in the south and the north, and it is difficult to be alone in a cold quilt. Extramarital interest, divorce is hard, where is the relationship with the devil? You should have a saying: It is a heart-breaking way to make the sea and the sky, the wind destroys the waves! Looking back with shame, I have experienced cold winters and hot summers, and the poor and the poor care for each other in life and death. Falling, crawling, rolling and fighting without fear, who cares about the storm! The love fades away, the resentment becomes the companion, and the rice, diesel, and salt are sore and sour. You steal from me, your tongue is a sword against your lips, and you have a thousand beards, how can you keep your love? (Use the first sentence of "Yanqiu Ci" to fill in a song "Moving the Fish", please teach those who understand the lyrics to be sympathetic and vigilant!


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  • Frank 2022-03-22 09:02:29

    A classic that can cause deep discomfort, the director is more like a demon king, and develops the dark side of the actor's heart. The performance conveys a fear that comes from the depths of the soul. Pay tribute to the goddess, you can imagine how much effort it takes to get out of this state after the fact

  • Dominic 2022-03-18 09:01:05

    No madness, no survival, kneel, Adjani's performance is really crazy.

Possession quotes

  • Mark: I met a man who loved everything, and he died in a flood of shit.

  • Anna: Almost.