I wanted to watch this movie about half a year ago because the subject matter is particularly attractive.
Although our country has developed to the point where there are very few dry toilets even in counties and townships, haven't people thought about the issue of "how to go to the toilet" many years ago?
Probably because I thought about it, albeit in a different direction.
In our country, in the city, the inconvenience of going to the toilet is probably not a problem of the government - of course, it can be said that the public facilities at that time were not perfect to this level, but as the male protagonist said, don't need the government for everything We are responsible, and we ourselves should take part of the responsibility. I said, at that time, if going to the toilet was really a problem, it was your own problem. It was probably because your personal economic conditions absolutely dictated that you had to live in a place that would be troubled by this problem. However, paradoxically, living in People in this kind of environment are naturally used to it, but they don't think it's a problem at all.
Education, then, is the crux of the matter. I said that in our environment, women who live in an environment without flush toilets are ashamed of going to the toilet. First of all, her consciousness must come from education. Not only the education of books, but sometimes the environment of the school, especially the collective life, the living habits of others will also change her. Everyone must want to move closer to a more scientific way of life. If you are not used to the toilet, you still want to go to the wild. The idea of going to the toilet. Unlike India, Chinese girls who are accustomed to flush toilets are unlikely to marry into a family that does not even have a toilet. You can argue with me, marrying a rural Phoenix man or something, but they must have set up a home with a flush toilet in the city. It is a disaster for such a girl to go to her in-law's house every year for the New Year. The movie prototype still persists For four days, most people can't hold on to it for even a day. Even if our countryside is behind, at least there is a dry toilet.
Damn, I feel like the toilets have always been high-end, but that's not how people are, eating, drinking, and sleeping. In "Little Times", it is absolutely impossible to see people going to the toilet, which is why so many teenagers who don't know the essence of life are rushing to it.
A lot of people have said too much about why it is so difficult to build a toilet in India, and all kinds of "tsk tsk" in this country, I just want to say, Jaya wants a toilet, but without the support of her family Absolutely not, especially her dad. I really don’t dare to understand the magical country of India, and I don’t know how indifferent they are to women, but at least the movie reflects an essential problem, and the problem has not been solved for a long time, not because the problem is too small, but because many are The troubled people don't see this as a problem at all. Regarding Jaya's question of wanting a toilet, in essence, it is not a toilet issue, but a concept issue. However, among thousands of people, only one person can shake the tree and succeed. Jaya's personal strength all comes from the family. Those girls who have grown up with love and respect are more likely to get equal love than girls who have been hypnotized by ancient and backward concepts and have been smeared by women being disrespected since childhood. This is why, although this uncle did not What culture wears are fake, and she can still love her so much that she builds a "Taj Mahal" for her. In real life, this kind of thing is almost impossible. This reminds me of a previous article that said, stop blaming Zhu Yuchen's mother, why not do Tranquility and Huo Siyan quietly? Zhu's mother just practiced and adhered to her values, and the male protagonist's father also adhered to and practiced his own values and worldview, and there are several girls like Jaya in the world who can wake up a person pretending to be asleep. Girls, this kind of thing is too difficult, so if you encounter such a family, you should stay away as soon as possible. Jaya's problem is that she didn't do a good job of research before marriage, and only after marriage did she realize that if she knew that your house didn't have a toilet, she would not marry you. It's a pity that Indian women can't escape from me. Although I have two degrees to study at university and have a high caste, but marrying a small bicycle boss, I still have to do housework and cook to serve my father-in-law and brother-in-law. My only wish is to have a toilet to be a little private, and then it turned out to be a different day. an event of the day.
What I am most disgusted with is that some public account articles write that a certain husband supports his wife not to have a second child, because he said that wife, you have worked so hard, and the comments that follow are very touching, good men are other people's husbands, etc. According to my observation (after all, my gossip is also often onlookers and chatting with others), married women generally have a low happiness index in marriage, and they complain about their husbands and mother-in-law when they get the chance. Before I got married, I once did something that is super stupid now. I have a friend who complains about her husband and mother-in-law in the group every day, and then she has all kinds of forbearance. I can't help myself and say, you have problems yourself, you should be tough, and let yourself wash his dirty clothes... She Turned my face on me - no wonder I turned my face, I am! Not only do they not understand marriage, they also don’t understand women, and they don’t even understand women in marriage! In this world, there are actually very few girls with a tough background like Jaya. Some parents dote on their daughters, but they are not rational or unscientific, and Jaya's family is justified. Teaching her to express her needs boldly is a reasonable and reasonable need, and it is reasonable when it is time to stand up. That kind of torn scene where two families go into battle is not suitable for such a family, so she can choose love while choosing, But when you are tempted by love, you can break it when you should. Women who are truly respected will not be grateful for these reasonable and reasonable. Why should I be grateful to you for letting me go without having a second child? Go Spoon! If you don't have such a strong support as Jaya, you'd better cultivate yourself to be tough, and most importantly, be sure to know whether the other party has a toilet at home before marriage. What kind of his parents are you, you still have a compassionate attitude to save others, save yourself first.
Having said so many digressions, I still have to be grateful to the country in which I was born. Although there are all kinds of unsatisfactory, male superiority and female inferiority still exist, and men and women have never been equal, but at least, I have never felt so bad about this toilet! Anything that others see as simple and trivial in marriage is never trivial or simple.
Before getting married, be sure to see if the other person has a toilet at home. Most people are not so lucky to meet a man who doesn't have a toilet and sells a motorcycle for you to take them manually, and it is also difficult to change their in-laws who have their own religious beliefs (you don't care about science or not).
Good luck everyone!
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