I still have some resonance with this film. When two people first started a long-distance relationship, they didn’t think about the other party’s derailment. Just like in the movie, people around them said, "Huh? Long-distance relationship? Are you afraid that he will mess with you behind his back?" Yes, it even seems to believe that your relationship has no good results, so I will introduce new friends to you in advance.
My response is that, no matter if you are good intentions or nosy, you shouldn't mess up the mandarin duck book before your friend breaks up. I have always believed in the principle of attraction, that is, what you believe in will really happen. I believe that sooner or later the two people will be together and it will happen. It's good to say intuition, or to laugh at innocence. Can't laugh at someone who has persistence, right? If this persistent person has no trust and hope, then should he laugh at him. What is that not a fool? Stick to something that you don't believe in!
Of course, there are really many situations in long-distance relationships. When you are in a bad mood and sad, no one is by your side; your two circles do not intersect; you can’t see what you can’t touch all day long, and you can solve it by yourself. . . . You may even wonder if it is worth the wait.
Like the heroine, I can’t take care of work and relationships. So no matter whether my parents or aunts, I don’t have any specific suggestions regarding my feelings. I can only say that I have been talking about feelings for a few years and we should cherish them. But, what if If you are not happy at work, there will be problems in your life. Saying it means not saying it.
We are not many young people anymore, and it is unlikely that we will give up too much for one person. The older you are, the less courage you have to give up. The more bargaining chips you have to give up, in layman's terms, the more cost you give up. No longer a reckless boy, walking the world for love.
The man said that at this age, it is time to devote more energy to the career, and the woman said that at this age, I will not seize the job I like, I am afraid that this will be the case in this life. Therefore, Shuangshuang is unwilling to compromise for feelings.
I said that a woman who is very insecure can hardly give up work for love and become a woman behind a man. How many men abandon their wives after success, what about the wives? ! Without love, without ability, nothing, only doing housework, knowing nothing. Or, you haven't been abandoned, but what should you do if the man who promised you didn't love you! There are many such things. Who knows if you can become a one-thousandth molecule?
In short, the key to this question is, what are your values? What do you think is the greatest happiness of a woman's life? Do you feel happy if you take good care of your family, or do you think it’s not easy to come to this world? What is the most important thing for you to be yourself?
In the movie, the reason why the actor didn't let the heroine give up is that he didn't dare to bear it, he was afraid that this woman would hate him in the future. Originally, who would dare to say to another person, rest assured, as long as you follow me, you will be happy. If you believe that this person is a pig, you still treat me as a primary school student. Life is full of variables, no one can promise, only grasp the feeling of the moment.
Feelings are gambling, and most of the time they lose everything. As long as I dare to bear the result of this gambling game, anyway, I won't believe the ending of a prince and princess living together happily from now on. I feel that whether it is in love or in life, it is teaching us to compromise and learn to accept some feelings that you are not willing to accept.
Therefore, the result of a long-distance relationship is actually the result of the divergence of two values. It's nothing more than you agree with me, or I agree with you, and then it's whoever follows who, or it's parting ways. The vice principal of my high school told me in class that the most important thing for a husband and wife is the recognition of values. It makes sense more and more.
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