We warm each other and say goodbye politely

Makayla 2021-12-26 08:01:04

This is a story that happened all night. In some deliberate encounter arrangements, the director guides the heroes and heroines to discover the true answers to each other's confusion, so as to solve the puzzles in life and seek solutions. They are just the company of each other on this night, and then at dawn, they return to life itself, each with their own mission to chase. In fact, everyone will get lost, because of this and that reason and unsatisfactory circumstances, life itself does not play cards according to common sense.

Everyone is born with a zero starting point without a story, but as we grow older, we have experience, we meet different people, perform different plots, and become a person with various secrets. Complex humans. Especially love, which makes us entangled, makes us happy, and affects our emotions from time to time. The separation of the two sides and the derailment of the other side will strike the fragile heart, making us small and weak.

The hostess’s husband cheated for a while before, and received an appointment email from his mistress before this business trip. The hostess was furious and wrote a letter on the bedside and left home. Only when he received a call from her husband to go home early. It was an accident and a pleasant surprise to learn that her husband did not meet her as agreed, but she was trapped in the streets of London after missing the train wallet and was stolen. If her husband returned home early and saw the letter on her bed How should they end up?

She is a brave woman who loves her. She left her job in the U.S. and left her job in the U.S., just to build her home with her beloved, so she doesn't know what to do when she faces her husband's derailment and is unable to change the status quo. She thought that this was the end between them. She saw the letters between them, and she said, "The e-mail he wrote to Linny would say some happy things, unexpected things, and even funny things. It’s the kind of you. I would say something to the person I love so that I feel that what he says to me, smiles, and sex turns into a lie." But I expected that the husband who moved with compassion chose to return to the family, whether it was out of guilt or For other reasons, she could choose to swallow her anger, use her grace and wisdom to give guidance calmly and decently, turn things around and save her crumbling marriage. If this letter were seen by her husband, her rudeness and inner anger might be vented. It will make her husband see her ugly, and make things go in the other direction.

The male protagonist is a trumpeter who embraces musical ideals and dreams. During college, he gave up his promising medical profession and turned to jazz. His ex-girlfriend broke up with him for six years, but he hasn't gotten out of the shadow of the breakup because of an audition the next day. When I came to New York, I didn't have the courage to meet her in the same city all night. I accidentally met the heroine who lost her mobile phone and decided to help her. This motive itself makes people vigilant. He not only contacted the taxi driver to show her credit card, but also helped her try to confront the bag thief in an attempt to get her property back, and was responsible for making her happy all the way. Listening to her voice, I have to make the female protagonist who looks pretty good and wears a low-neck and reveals her career line to doubt her motives.

But over time, he impressed the heroine with his sincerity and opened his heart. They appeared in front of his ex-girlfriend together. He was anxious to run away, his face was stiff, his expression was embarrassed, and he didn't know where to put his hands and feet. She encouraged him, and he turned back to confess his thoughts with his ex-girlfriend, hoping to get a chance, and then accidentally learned the fact that she was pregnant. The past stays in the past forever, and the old man is no longer the one who used to be young. Living in the memory, he woke up and began to question whether what he was after was nothing but nothing. He said that he always had a thought in his mind. One day when he was standing on stage to perform, his ex-girlfriend walked in and walked to him and asked him if he could give him another chance to start again. Now he knew she was already To become a mother and stop being nostalgic for the past is tantamount to directly giving a fatal blow to the longing in my mind, and the faith that has been so many years collapsed instantly.

This is a helpless stranger in the two cities. The hostess said twice about her feelings. It is a French word "Dépaysement", which translates into Chinese to be confused. In this huge city, when she tried to think about how she should face her marriage next, she still couldn't escape her inner feelings for her husband. "So when I was sitting in a bar, I found that I loved him. All the memories flooded me like a tide. It was I who abandoned everything, so I wanted to take my bag and leave, but I found My bag is lost."

The hostess encouraged him to live for his dreams, it is time to do something for himself, instead of living in the memories of his ex-girlfriend; the host warned her to face the problems in her marriage life, not Attempt to erase the irrational decision made while losing control of his emotions. Therefore, any problem will be solved eventually, but you need to take a deep breath, then face it, and complete the salvation of yourself.

No one lives in this world easily, no one is free from worries. Perhaps the story itself is a bit too hard and deliberate, but in the final analysis it is still a story of two lonely souls meeting by chance, which has nothing to do with love itself. When the strength of a single person is weak, sometimes you need the thrust of others. But each other who can only accompany you for a journey, after all, choose to cherish farewell. They are each other's surprise, but like a flash in the pan, they can only go for one night. Please always keep me in mind for the future. We warmed each other, and then said goodbye politely. There is no pity, some are just sudden and open.

This reminds me of the scene in "One Day" where the final heroine plays the piano and looks calmly looking out the window; it also reminds me of Keira Knightley in "Begin again", who is smiling freely and freely after riding a bicycle from her ex-boyfriend's concert. . There is no right or wrong decision in this world. The key is that you are responsible for yourself. Maybe we will not be able to be together in the end, but please don't forget that we have shining on each other's lives.

That old psychic in the movie said this sentence, to all the men and women who are lost in love:

there is no perfect.
there will always be struggle.
you just have to pick who you want to struggle with.

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  • Rosemarie 2021-12-26 08:01:04

    I was surprised when the name of the director appeared in the ending subtitles. I really like this stop-and-go feeling, especially on the streets of New York, the lights and shadows are so beautiful. Thanks for letting me know that I could be loving more than one person in this life.

  • Letha 2022-03-28 09:01:06

    3.5 is pretty good, except for the engagement banquet in the middle, I feel like I almost lost my focus. I wanted to talk about a lot in the film, but in the end it came down to this midnight street encounter. I really liked the unfinished kiss in the room, and I lost a little impulse. But more sincerity. The heroine's performance is more natural and cute, Song For Zula is too suitable for the little freshness that is romantic to death, from Haojing, to Spider-Man 2, to this film, like the music!

Before We Go quotes

  • Nick Vaughan: But then you wouldn't have met me.

    Brooke Dalton: I still haven't decided if that's a good thing.

  • Brooke Dalton: Have you ever had a feeling... and just knowing somewhere in your bones that somebody was going to play a major part in your life?

    Nick Vaughan: Yeah