"If you think that your value is just as an ornament, I am afraid that one day you will believe that you are really just like this. Time will corrode all the beauty on the surface. What time cannot eliminate is the beautiful quality of your soul, your humor, and your Your kindness and your moral courage are what you cherish in my heart. "
This is what my mother said to her daughters Meg and Joe in the movie. It is what I have always deeply recognized and remembered in my heart, and it has influenced my outlook on love and values since I was a child, and it is also one of the necessary conditions for me to choose a marriage spouse. Now, as I am about to run for the third time, after experiencing the joys and sorrows that I should experience during adolescence, I have a completely different understanding of these words. I was also at a loss for my persistent love belief. In today's society, how many people can care about those connotations like the mother in the film? In this flashy society, how many people can dig into her so-called precious qualities like the mother in the film? In this fast-paced society, no matter how good your inner self-cultivation is, most people do not have the leisure and elegance to explore and taste the inner things. Now everyone values more practical and realistic things: your work, family background, income…….
What I am at a loss is in such a society where money, material, interests and reputation are paramount, will people who follow those beautiful qualities really get happiness? Those beautiful beliefs that I have pursued now bring me pressure and burden, accommodation and misunderstandings. I think that people with those beautiful qualities must be strong and optimistic, and have an attitude of being at ease in order to feel happy, and there are too few people like mom and Joe in the film in reality, because in the real society There is no such condition for a large number of such people. I have always longed to be such a person, but now I realized that my character and lack of self-confidence are impossible to become like them. All I have is stubbornness, adventurous spirit and kindness, but I lack their bravery, strength, wisdom and optimism. confidence.
I am sad that Joe and Laurie did not get together, they are so similar and so close. And I understand now that Joe's stubborn, indomitable, and able-bodied character determines her ultimate destiny and destination. Her beautiful qualities can only be understood and appreciated by a literary and artistic writer who is gentle and non-cannibalistic. Laurie also has Joe’s beautiful qualities. Laurie is also as brave as Joe. He hopes to give his beloved Joe a good and easy life, but Joe does not bother to reach out for the happiness he has acquired. Her adventurous spirit is haunting her heart, making She does not succumb to the warm haven created by men. The happiness she wants is earned with her own hands and wisdom. This is her faith and her achievements. Joe is a cute and intelligent man-in-law, and you can see a lot of masculine qualities in her, so you will feel that she and Laurie are so similar, yet so mutually exclusive.
Laurie was heartbroken after being rejected by Joe. He once fell. Until he ran into Amy when he grew up. Amy's personality traits are sleek and well-behaved, weak and obedient, selfish and secular. Her advantages make Laurie feel the sense of responsibility and accomplishment of being a man, and her shortcomings can only be tolerated by a selfless man like Laurie. In the end, Laurie and Amy found solace in each other.
I don't like to play Amy as an actor when she grows up. The temperament is not the same, the personality is not the same, I can't see her sincerity and emotion. I sometimes feel pessimistic that good men love such squeamish and selfish women. Because they can arouse the love and protection of good men. Only good men can tolerate their shortcomings. In the same way, the lives of good women are often impoverished, because they are strong, kind, and tolerant. Only with such a character can they face the difficult living environment and dare to challenge the pressure that life brings to them.
I admire a woman like Joe. I have always thought that I will become a strong woman like Joe when I grow up. But now I find that I have Amy's weakness and obedience in my bones. It is impossible to become Joe. Joe is just me. The lack of elements in the character, that's why I yearn for it, and I want to have it. And I have been stubborn to follow Joe's route, and it ended in failure. But life is a process of self-recognition and self-improvement. I have been tossing for nearly 30 years, and now I finally wake up. I decided to completely change my mindset, change my beliefs, and choose a lifestyle that completely suits my character and personality. Pursue your own happiness again!
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