Because the film shares the attic, the five brothers formed an extramarital affair base camp. The role settings of the five people are very glamorous, each is a good wife, a designer, a psychologist, a wealthy son-in-law, and so on.····Especially at the beginning of the film, everyone wore a cool trench coat. The appearance of the jacket also shows the superficial nobility of status. It's just ~ noble on the surface!
So, the first question: Why do men cheat? So let’s take a look at what kind of situation they are in. They have just been married, deeply in love with their wife, have a sick wife in the family, and their relationship is indifferent. But is there any reason that is sufficient? At first glance, there is no, but when all the factors are combined, derailment seems to be an inevitable event. Because everyone belongs to a stable relationship, the career is stable, and the family relationship is basically stable, so the heart will be more eager for the appearance of freshness and change. The five people have similar backgrounds, so the alliance is successful, and this alliance will wipe out most of the guilt of the family and the moral condemnation of the self for each member of the derailment. By the way, the age of the five characters in the film is probably between 35 and 45, so this age group is the explosive period of derailment?
Next, the second question: What are the circumstances of men cheating? We have seen one-night stands, tyrannical men, infatuated men, the charm and perverted conquering men of friends and wives, and the scheming men who want to but dare not dare. I haven't been involved in the world, so I can only talk about the film itself, just as a screenwriter and gather all the circumstances of the man's derailment. So, let’s take a look. Although everyone is in a different situation, there is a consensus that they cannot be discovered by their wife no matter what, and they still want to maintain a stable family relationship. When the wife finds that she is leaving them, the cheating man will also collapse and cry like a child. Some people say that it is very difficult for men to last forever in a relationship. They themselves are a different species from women. This kind of difference, I think maybe they are more adventurous and curious, greedy and dissatisfied, as well as the courage that excessive secretion of male hormones and hormones gives them impulsiveness. (There is nothing to praise or criticize here). It can be said to be full of warmth and lust or wanting to have both. But everything is an adventure, once you take this step, it means that a stable life is insulated from you.
Beautiful things are always desirable, but are they still beautiful after you have them? I mean the ending, and the moment after possession.
The third question: Which women will be cheated? In the film, the derailed subject's exquisite makeup and every eye-catching appearance, countless close-ups of the push-pull switch, are impressive. And the wives? The director didn't even give a positive close-up shot of the bride. In fact, these shots are not the eyes of men. They can no longer see the beauty of their wives. Even when we see their wives, they all have elaborate makeup, but their eyes have changed focus. And how do women regain lost ground? indifferent? Confused? stupid? Feeling sick? I only pose questions without answers.
One last question: what should we seek in marriage? Take care and support each other? Easy and fun to get along with? Live like not married? Relative freedom of independence? Note that marriage is a long-term relationship! I am also looking for the answer, I hope I can find it someday, and I hope you too.
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